Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So are men doing this to be playful or to assert their dominance? And why is it so upsetting to some of us but others like it? What happened in our childhood? Why do men think this is a good way to express their love for us?

Oh please, give it a rest. It’s just playful flirting. No need to psychoanalize and if you don’t like it, just say so!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like it. I’d never say this, but sometimes I wish it were a little harder.

Call me.

[Anonymous]

Once I awhile he’ll give a love tap on my butt but never a slap.

[Anonymous]

I am a fan of him grabbing my boobs and going “honk, honk”.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like it. I’d never say this, but sometimes I wish it were a little harder.

Why would you never say that? What kind of a marriage do you have that that is not an acceptable topic of conversation?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This makes me angry angry angry.

Are you an uptight lass in general?

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's annoying. But when he doesn't do it, I wonder if he's mad. It's only annoying because I'm usually already overstimulated.

[Anonymous]

Yes and I would be worried if he stopped.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Silly question I know, but recently got into a discussion about this with other couple friends and trying to widen the survey.

No and if he ever did I’d turn around and punch him in the face my father raised me well

Who does this?

[Anonymous]

I playfully smack him on the butt, too. What’s wrong with that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mine cops a feel lol. I think it’s funny and kinda cool that he still likes my butt.

right answer

brt she is happily married too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Silly question I know, but recently got into a discussion about this with other couple friends and trying to widen the survey.

No and if he ever did I’d turn around and punch him in the face my father raised me well

Who does this?

men that are attracted to their wives, sexually.

[Anonymous]

if she doesn't like it then leave her alone. She could be pissy, grumpy on that day and probably not happy with herself. I like it when my husband does it and I never snapped at him.

[Anonymous]

That was one of the reasons I divorced. I was a SA victim (many times over) and it would send me into an absolute panic attack anytime he'd unexpectedly smack my butt. I asked him to stop, sobbed but he never stopped.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This makes me angry angry angry.

why?