Narc ex - 2am rage texts. Make it stop?

[Anonymous]

Reply with a video message - POV shot of your face, rock your body back and forth, and do your best your best Meg Ryan, When Harry Met Sally impersonation, while exhaustedly saying "I can't respond I am a little busy, don't stop....please dont stooooooooopppp!"

[Anonymous]

I know plenty of men who are storing their .. ehem, slippery stuff for when they feel ready.

These guys WILL be purchasing donor eggs when the time comes although some may use a volunteer partner. Apart from the DNA partner, the women who carry these babies are often overseas — in Thailand and other locations.

The last time there was an earthquake in Thailand, the surrogate customers were in a panic — many spoke to the press in their moment of desperation. Look it up!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why not just delete all texts without reading? Any texts received at an unreasonable hour. You decide, between ___ and ___ hour. Standard practice. Who cares what he has to say? He's not heard. He has no voice. If it's actually something of value, he'll mention it sometime again.

This. I had a very similar situation with my ex. I stopped responding to anything that was not a specific question regarding the kids. It took time but it eventually stopped.

[Anonymous]

Put the phone on ‘do not disturb’ setting during the night

[Anonymous]

Did you have an affair? Did that cause the divorce?
Why is he rage texting you?

[Anonymous]

Do not give this any response. Use the parenting app only.

[Anonymous]

You can’t change him or his behavior, but you can change how/if you respond.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Our family wizard

Not OP, but does OFW really stop the rage texts? Right now in the early stages of things and have ample evidence to get OFW court ordered, but is it legitimately worth it? I know I could block him then, which would be so nice, but I'd still have to read messages in the app.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Block his number. Use a coparenting app.

+1

plus million. This is exactly the situation they are designed for.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our family wizard

Not OP, but does OFW really stop the rage texts? Right now in the early stages of things and have ample evidence to get OFW court ordered, but is it legitimately worth it? I know I could block him then, which would be so nice, but I'd still have to read messages in the app.

Knowing that a judge would be reading them at some point if necessary should do the trick.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our family wizard

Not OP, but does OFW really stop the rage texts? Right now in the early stages of things and have ample evidence to get OFW court ordered, but is it legitimately worth it? I know I could block him then, which would be so nice, but I'd still have to read messages in the app.

Knowing that a judge would be reading them at some point if necessary should do the trick.

PP here. Spouse already knows the judge will read texts (in proper format for being read). Lawyers have provided ample reminders. Still cannot change. I really do mean cannot, not will not or chooses not. At this point I'm assuming all OFW will give me is ability to only read messages when I log into the app, communication style will not change.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our family wizard

Not OP, but does OFW really stop the rage texts? Right now in the early stages of things and have ample evidence to get OFW court ordered, but is it legitimately worth it? I know I could block him then, which would be so nice, but I'd still have to read messages in the app.

Knowing that a judge would be reading them at some point if necessary should do the trick.

PP here. Spouse already knows the judge will read texts (in proper format for being read). Lawyers have provided ample reminders. Still cannot change. I really do mean cannot, not will not or chooses not. At this point I'm assuming all OFW will give me is ability to only read messages when I log into the app, communication style will not change.

Of course, the spouse can change. That's ridiculous. I bet you a contempt order or similar from a judge would stop it immediately.