Would you consider dating someone who sees/has seen escorts?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would he pay you for sex, too? Why are you willing to give it up for free if he's paying the other women?

Right??!!! You need to take this man for all he’s worth. Amirite ladies??? Mmmm hmmm. You need to fk this guy over so hard and take all his money and leave him sad and lonely!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Curious what your thoughts are.

This is a pretty big "it depends" for me. What are the circumstances? Was he paying for sex his so-called partner didn't know about? because that's cheating, and I'm out. Was he single, and wanted sex without a relationship? That might not be a dealbreaker for me, depending on the circumstances, whether or not he used protection and got tested, etc.

Most importantly: do I trust him? Because if I don't, I won't trust his answer here and that's its own red flag.

[Anonymous]

What is the reason they gave you?
I know some ugly and awkward SN people who have done that. I wouldn't date them because of their SN.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:STDs.

My son told me that a lot of girls at his college have onlyfans accounts and I assume most of the customers are men.

What's the difference between a man who pays to see an escort in person and a man who pays to virtually masturbate?

Maybe those girls (some of whom are your daughters) don't deserve to date anyone due to their past as sex workers.

1. That's not the topic

2. There's a difference


3. You know all of this but are choosing to lie about your son to play a game of whataboutism.

Haha there is no difference. The common product is vagina and the current to buy the product is $. Whether the product comes in physical or virtual form, you eventually consume it.

[Anonymous]

I wonder what will happen once sex bots get super advanced. Like will men just stop giving a fk about paying for dates and being forced to make an effort in dating lol.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Would he pay you for sex, too? Why are you willing to give it up for free if he's paying the other women?

Do you give it up for free?

Only as a free trial as marketing for a lifetime financial commitment.

Women contribute 40% to joint income in marriage nowadays. And pull off 90% childcare.
How dare you compare marriage to sex workers who don’t give a damn about the man. It’s purely transactional

[Anonymous]

No, it would weird me out. Also wouldn’t date someone that regularly hangs out at strip clubs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder what will happen once sex bots get super advanced. Like will men just stop giving a fk about paying for dates and being forced to make an effort in dating lol.

Read the book Annie Bot. There is a possibility AI robotics take a large market share away from sex workers. No risk of STDs. You can personalize your experience. It's intriguing.

[Anonymous]

No. Women who work as prostitutes or in strip clubs get trapped in that lifestyle and preyed on.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No. "Escorts"? Basically, he paid for a prostitute. I find men who do that skeevy. Just because you paid more doesn't make you any better than the loser who is driving around the street looking for a $10 hooker.

These is no such thing as free sex. Every man is paying for sex one way or another.
All men invest time, money, and effort in dates, gifts, and entertainment with the expectation of getting laid. Paying an escort is just a more direct way to get to the same result.

This is a ridiculous blanket statement. Many people, men and women, don’t view sex as currency but as something to be shared/enjoyed in the context of an exclusive relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Curious what your thoughts are.

Men been doing that for a hundred thousand years or more.

World's oldest profession. Any guy who says he has never climbed the whorehouse stairs, is also a liar.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Would he pay you for sex, too? Why are you willing to give it up for free if he's paying the other women?

Do you give it up for free?

Only as a free trial as marketing for a lifetime financial commitment.

Women contribute 40% to joint income in marriage nowadays. And pull off 90% childcare.
How dare you compare marriage to sex workers who don’t give a damn about the man. It’s purely transactional

Even without income, traditional women put too much into a marriage. My family was financially dependent on my dad's income but my mom worked twice as hard maintaining a frugal household and raising several kids. She was also family's emotional anchor.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Curious what your thoughts are.

Men been doing that for a hundred thousand years or more.

World's oldest profession. Any guy who says he has never climbed the whorehouse stairs, is also a liar.

Not fair. Most men I know would probably consider fancy an affair but not many would consider seeing a paid sex worker.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How would you even know? He won’t tell you.

Why wouldn't he/you?

It’s shameful, usually illegal, and repulsive to women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Curious what your thoughts are.

World's oldest profession. Any guy who says he has never climbed the whorehouse stairs, is also a liar.

Nonsense. Most guys think it’s gross and low-class.