Has your husband or boyfriend ever admitted to fantasizing about men?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Barack Obama did so 🤷🏼‍♀️

He wrote about it to letters to his ex-gf from his Oberlin days.

I think everyone pretty much knows he's bi at least from how he carries himself.

Never got why he hasn't come out. You'd think it would make him more popular.

Who does he need to be more popular with, other than straight white men and that’s not gonna do it for them unfortunately.

[Anonymous]

Well I’ve heard of many golf trip drunken HJs and BJs happening with seemingly straight successful men from this area.

[Anonymous]

I like all of the women who say “no, never.” What you mean is they’ve never admitted it. A lot more fantasize about men than you think.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..

Misogynists tend to be the complete opposite of gay.
Gay guys usually love being around women and besties.

PP.

So because my husband is a misogynist, that just makes him an as*hole?

I guess maybe I'm searching for something more, a reason, or sorts..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..

Misogynists tend to be the complete opposite of gay.
Gay guys usually love being around women and besties.

I used to think this until I started reading datalounge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..

Misogynists tend to be the complete opposite of gay.
Gay guys usually love being around women and besties.

I used to think this until I started reading datalounge.

I am the PP with the misogynistic husband. Now I'm going down the rabbit hole..

[Anonymous]

He gay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ex husband, who I had regular sex with, told me he fantasized about being with men. As openminded as I am (lots of friends who are gay/lesbian) this was a big surprise. We had been together for over 10 years, unhappily on my end.

I assume he was/is bi. Wondering how common this is amongst “straight” men.

It's not common among straight people men and women.

[Anonymous]

My crazy sociology teacher many years ago said to us that men who have sex with trans women are straight men because they view them as women. He said they are not bi because trans women are women. This was 12 years ago.

So OP maybe your ex likes trans women.

Regardless, hopefully now that he is divorced he can have sex with whoever he wants to without shame. We love once so it would be a waste if a man like men but stay in the closest. If I liked men you damn right I'll be seeking them. Live life folks. But I just love pussy and the sexual energy I feel around a woman is irreplaceable

[Anonymous]

Rocco the very famous porn star said that all men are bi because he said he doesn't know any man who like to watch another man who doesn't have a big erect penis during a porn scene. He said when men watch porn they cannot ignore the erect penis of the male actor and if that man had a soft limp d**k he wouldn't watch the scene.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..

I think women have become so tired of misogynistic men than they are now starting to label such men as gay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..

Misogynists tend to be the complete opposite of gay.
Gay guys usually love being around women and besties.

Sure, that’s the stereotype but IRL gay guys can be really misogynistic too.

I’ve seen a lot of gay guys slap girls asses and touch boobs — but it’s okay because they’re gay! There’s also a tendency to body shame to an extreme. It’s not all sunshine and rainbows.

[Anonymous]

I'm currently dating a woman who casually told me she was bi during on our 3rd date

Should I worry that she may leave me for a woman one day?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm currently dating a woman who casually told me she was bi during on our 3rd date

Should I worry that she may leave me for a woman one day?

She could also leave you for another man. Why wouldn’t you worry about both?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm currently dating a woman who casually told me she was bi during on our 3rd date

Should I worry that she may leave me for a woman one day?

She could also leave you for another man. Why wouldn’t you worry about both?

I don't think another man can offer her what I can offer her.