Caught my husband at AMP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

Yes please.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

No, let’s call it Asian since that is how they are branded and marketed and attempts to police language and skirt around the obvious are obnoxious and silly.

Or you could say, “where you can exploit women from impoverished countries ?”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Start a career so you will have choices, OP. He could be arrested and you may lose his income.

It’s irresponsible of you not to be able to support your kids now that you know your DH can’t be relied upon.

+1

All SAHMs take note. Especially the smug ones.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.

That’s not why most men go.

Stop blaming the victim.

If you are paying for sexual services, you should not be married, unless your wife is on board with your sleaze.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m sure I’m not the only one this has happened to in this area. He says it was his first time, yeah right.

I don’t see how I can ever trust him again. He is the bread winner in our family, I have no idea what to do

How did you “catch” him?

What does this have to do with his earning potential?

As far as what to do, obviously you need to put out more.

I thought he was having an affair, I enabled phone location and followed him one night. To my surprise it was in the back of a strip mall in Tysons at 9pm. I parked far away and watched him come out.

It is the lying that is the concern.

I would do my legal research, with a longterm place to divorce.

When oh when are women going to learn not to be totally dependent on their husbands.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Start a career so you will have choices, OP. He could be arrested and you may lose his income.

It’s irresponsible of you not to be able to support your kids now that you know your DH can’t be relied upon.

+1

All SAHMs take note. Especially the smug ones.

+2

[Anonymous]

How did you catch him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

The first two characterizations are accurate, the third one is not.

How do you know?

Cause 99% of the time when LE busts one of the AMPs, it turns out the women are there of their own free will, earning some $ so they can live a better life than they had where they came from.

Stop spreading lies and misinformation. They're always human trafficking/sex trafficking and should be reported immediately.

[Anonymous]

Offer to tug him. Use bleach as lube. That will get him to Urgent Care where they can run an STD panel. Go along to be sure the send results to your phone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

No, let’s call it Asian since that is how they are branded and marketed and attempts to police language and skirt around the obvious are obnoxious and silly.

Or you could say, “where you can exploit women from impoverished countries ?”

A lot are Korean. Not exactly impoverished. Morally bankrupt and money grubbing, but not impoverished.

[Anonymous]

Can you provide a few more details? Always suspected my DH engaged in this kind of activity but didn't have enough info to prove it. How much do they cost? Do regulars have a standing appointment?

[Anonymous]

If there are sex work businesses thriving in the area, clearly there is demand from the local population. Who did you imagine makes up the customer base?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.

That’s not why most men go.

Well, if she was giving him that massage at home, he wouldn’t need to go there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

What’s wrong with Asian Massage Parlor? That’s how they call themselves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

No, let’s call it Asian since that is how they are branded and marketed and attempts to police language and skirt around the obvious are obnoxious and silly.

Or you could say, “where you can exploit women from impoverished countries ?”

A lot are Korean. Not exactly impoverished. Morally bankrupt and money grubbing, but not impoverished.

Exactly! Most of the women likely do it out of free will. They are sinners but not victims.
If op did not get fat or was having regular sex with her husband, then he likely wouldn’t have went there. She could have contributed to her husband’s sins.