Is a 20+ Year Age Gap too High?

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Anonymous wrote:Guys, this is clearly a Troll.

trolls usually get more responses than real posters on dcum, especially ones from sheltered Christian male dominated households

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everything about OP's post gives me the heebies.

antibiotics would help clear that right up!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guys, this is clearly a Troll.

+1 lol

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Anonymous wrote:This has to be a troll. The age gap is too large. 29 years.

OP, you should go live and experience the world. Make more friends. Find a fun job where you interact with people your age—date young, hot guys who don't have baggage. Your twenties should be the best decade of your life.

When you're 40, he will be 69. That is freaking ancient! It's hard when you're 28 to imagine your 40-year-old self, but look at celebrities about that age, like Jessica Alba (43), Sienna Miller (42), and Beyonce (42). Can you imagine any of them with a 70-year-old + man? No, because that is absurd!

But see Calista Flockhart, Catherine Zeta-Jones.

See Donald Trump and Melania. Would you want to have sex with a 75+ yr old man when you are in your 50s? I'm 54, and the thought of having sex with a 75+ yr old man grosses me out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everything about OP's post gives me the heebies.

Bad troll post.

People that stupid don’t write about it and certainly not as a stereotypical trope.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m almost 50 guy and would love to date an almost 30 girl but whenever it happens I ick myself out and friendzone her. I can see girls having attraction to well maintained older men but the 20+ year (in your case almost 30yr) age gap is too huge. 10 ok. 15 maybe. But more than that and you are going to have major disconnects by the time you are in your late 30s/40s and this guy is step away from geriatric ward.

Yes they aren’t the mature ones. You are imature.
Interesting. After my divorce I was early to mid 40s and I dated several women in their late 20s and early 30s. We got along very well. In fact, I had more in common with them than most 40 year old women. I does help that I keep myself fit and have a successful career. I'm not oblivious to those advantages. But, nothing wrong with dating a woman 10-15 years younger. It really depends on maturity level and commonality.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This has to be a troll. The age gap is too large. 29 years.

OP, you should go live and experience the world. Make more friends. Find a fun job where you interact with people your age—date young, hot guys who don't have baggage. Your twenties should be the best decade of your life.

When you're 40, he will be 69. That is freaking ancient! It's hard when you're 28 to imagine your 40-year-old self, but look at celebrities about that age, like Jessica Alba (43), Sienna Miller (42), and Beyonce (42). Can you imagine any of them with a 70-year-old + man? No, because that is absurd!

But see Calista Flockhart, Catherine Zeta-Jones.

See Donald Trump and Melania. Would you want to have sex with a 75+ yr old man when you are in your 50s? I'm 54, and the thought of having sex with a 75+ yr old man grosses me out.

Melania is not having sex with The Donald. At least not in the past decade!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This has to be a troll. The age gap is too large. 29 years.

OP, you should go live and experience the world. Make more friends. Find a fun job where you interact with people your age—date young, hot guys who don't have baggage. Your twenties should be the best decade of your life.

When you're 40, he will be 69. That is freaking ancient! It's hard when you're 28 to imagine your 40-year-old self, but look at celebrities about that age, like Jessica Alba (43), Sienna Miller (42), and Beyonce (42). Can you imagine any of them with a 70-year-old + man? No, because that is absurd!

But see Calista Flockhart, Catherine Zeta-Jones.

See Donald Trump and Melania. Would you want to have sex with a 75+ yr old man when you are in your 50s? I'm 54, and the thought of having sex with a 75+ yr old man grosses me out.

Melania is not having sex with The Donald. At least not in the past decade!

Well, DJT was having sex with a porn star 18 years ago. In any case, if you marry an old person, more than likely, you will be having sex with an even older person when you are in your 40s/50s.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This has to be a troll. The age gap is too large. 29 years.

OP, you should go live and experience the world. Make more friends. Find a fun job where you interact with people your age—date young, hot guys who don't have baggage. Your twenties should be the best decade of your life.

When you're 40, he will be 69. That is freaking ancient! It's hard when you're 28 to imagine your 40-year-old self, but look at celebrities about that age, like Jessica Alba (43), Sienna Miller (42), and Beyonce (42). Can you imagine any of them with a 70-year-old + man? No, because that is absurd!

But see Calista Flockhart, Catherine Zeta-Jones.

Harison Ford has a reported net worth of $300m, and Michael Douglas has $350m. If OP's old man has at least $300m, and there is no expectation that she has to sleep with him past a certain age, I guess to each their own.

[Anonymous]

I am 10 years older than my wife. I am 60 and she is 50
Due to her extreme drinking, bad diet and lack of exercise she has a bunch of health issues and I think she can go on disability anytime soon. The older one is not necessarily the one who will end up with health issue. The one with bad habits will. And honestly women these days are into the same vice as men alcohol, junk food, laziness etc

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This has to be a troll. The age gap is too large. 29 years.

OP, you should go live and experience the world. Make more friends. Find a fun job where you interact with people your age—date young, hot guys who don't have baggage. Your twenties should be the best decade of your life.

When you're 40, he will be 69. That is freaking ancient! It's hard when you're 28 to imagine your 40-year-old self, but look at celebrities about that age, like Jessica Alba (43), Sienna Miller (42), and Beyonce (42). Can you imagine any of them with a 70-year-old + man? No, because that is absurd!

But see Calista Flockhart, Catherine Zeta-Jones.

See Donald Trump and Melania. Would you want to have sex with a 75+ yr old man when you are in your 50s? I'm 54, and the thought of having sex with a 75+ yr old man grosses me out.

Melania is not having sex with The Donald. At least not in the past decade!

Past decade? Barron was born in 2005, so for Melania's sake, I hope they haven't had sex in 20 years. She would have been 34 and he would have been 58. Of course, sex with him was probably disgusting at any age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 10 years older than my wife. I am 60 and she is 50
Due to her extreme drinking, bad diet and lack of exercise she has a bunch of health issues and I think she can go on disability anytime soon. The older one is not necessarily the one who will end up with health issue. The one with bad habits will. And honestly women these days are into the same vice as men alcohol, junk food, laziness etc

Right, but a 10-year gap is a lot different than 29 years. At 10, and in exceptional circumstances up to 15 years, you can tell yourself that age is just a number. I have a family member in his late fifties who is ripped and can still run a mile in under 6 minutes. The argument goes out the window at an age gap more significant than 15 years. He better have hundreds of millions.

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Anonymous wrote:The women on this forum (especially the older ones past their prime) get triggered whenever an older man is dating a much younger woman.

All parents get triggered at the thought of their daughters dating an old man.

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He’s almost 30 years older. Have some respect.

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