Do most men prefer Blonde hair?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How about a softer shade of blonde? Very rare for a non natural blonde to look good with a platinum shade.

Even natural blondes often look off with long platinum hair

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you think most men just prefer blonde hair?

I think I look more attractive with brown hair (with highlights), but I get a ridiculous amount more attention with long plat blonde hair.

The attention is both positive & negative.

Positive = Way more men seem to find me attractive, even if my face looks bad. It's like the long, bright blonde hair gives an instant halo effect.

Negative = More aggressive approaches and harassment... people talk down to me and speak to me like I'm a moron. I get zero respect in work environments.

I am turning 30 soon, so I thought I'd revamp my appearance. After months of being platinum blonde (and feeling like I look kind of uglier & more washed out imo), I've concluded that most men prefer blonde hair. I get hit on and approached constantly. Even sitting in a hotel lobby, waiting in line, going to the grocery store or the bank. It seems like men find me way more attractive than before (but I also experience more random aggression and harassment). I can't even go pick up food at a restaurant without getting comments on my appearance.

But looking at old photos, I seriously think I look more attractive as a brunette. So I don't know whether to stay blonde or not.

I mean…I am a brunette and I also got approached constantly in my 20s.

Didn’t 99 percent of all women in their 20s get approached. I’m a dark brown Black woman and I did. I was a cutie w a brick house body.

Yep, I think that’s the power of youth! plus its prime dating age and people in their 20s are putting themselves out there more.

[Anonymous]

Blond hair, whether it is platinum, light brown or anywhere in between is striking and noticable. That is why blondes get checked out a lot. My natural hair color is light brown/dark blond. I get highlights and lowlights. In the past, I have dyed my hair a darker brown and it was like putting on an invisibility cloak. I agree with pps that young women get hit on/checked out regardless of hair color. I am early 50's now and still turn heads. I know much of the attention is because my hair is noticable, but I am pretty, too.

[Anonymous]

If you dye your hair you won’t have to worry about this for long. Keep dying your naturally blonde hair brown and it won’t go back to blonde as easily (unless you want to spend a ton of $$ and upkeep)

[Anonymous]

Nope!

[Anonymous]

Fact: the primary male demographic segments who prefer blondes are Arab and Persian males.

[Anonymous]

Hair color is irrelevant. Blond, brunette, redhead. All good.

[Anonymous]

As another PP said, what is your goal here? You seem oddly fixated on how much and how many men find you attractive. Which says to me you likely have low self esteem. Maybe work on your inside a little and you end up attracting high quality men. Quality over quantity.

I'm blond (woman) but have always loved dark hair. I can't pull it off. But it always blows my mind that people like Kim K. And Katy Perry went blonde when they both are way more gorgeous with their glossy dark hair.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You don’t want to attract a man who prefers blondes, because then you’ll be chained to dye forever. Find someone who loves your natural color.

This. Find a look that pleases YOU and you feel confident and powerful in.

[Anonymous]

The bottom line is pretty privilege. If you are pretty it doesn't matter.

[Anonymous]

One of the most beauftiful woman I ever dated is blonde. The most beautiful woman I ever dated (and married) is a brunette.

Two completely different body type. Most men would probably go for the blonde more for her body type, the brunette was more my body type.

Bottom line at the end of the day, I don't think, in a meaningful relationship, the hair type tis going to be that big of a factor.

[Anonymous]

Gentlemen Prefer Blondes

[Anonymous]

I’m blonde and noticed I tend to get an overwhelming amount of attention from men who aren’t white. Never been brunette though so I can’t say whether that happens to them too.

[Anonymous]

I went brunette once. I was invisible to men for two months. The harassment did stop, but I had to carry my own grocery bags.
Darker hair doesn't look good on me at all. Light hair adds 2 points and I skip make up altogether.
I'm invisible at home in Northern Europe, but appear the minute I stand in customs line in US.
I have never felt that someone thinks I'm stupid because of my hair color. Helps not to look American.

[Anonymous]

Only natural blondes.