BF is my height

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a 6’2 male and would prefer a date / partner not wear heals around me, regardless of whether she is 5’0 or 6’0. In my college fraternity, we had to wear high heels for several days as a test and I will never ever get over how uncomfortable they are (or were for me). Anytime my date wears heals, I die a little inside.

My partner can wear heals all she wants when she’s not around me (and when she’s around me so long as she understands it is a distraction for me).

So you don’t think your part is smart enough to decide for herself whether heels are comfortable?

Everyone is not you. I find heels uncomfortable but I have a friend who wears them like breathing. Respect your partners’ ability to dress themselves, please. If you fuss about how uncomfortable it makes YOU to see her in heels, you’re an ass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a 6’2 male and would prefer a date / partner not wear heals around me, regardless of whether she is 5’0 or 6’0. In my college fraternity, we had to wear high heels for several days as a test and I will never ever get over how uncomfortable they are (or were for me). Anytime my date wears heals, I die a little inside.

My partner can wear heals all she wants when she’s not around me (and when she’s around me so long as she understands it is a distraction for me).

So you don’t think your part is smart enough to decide for herself whether heels are comfortable?

Everyone is not you. I find heels uncomfortable but I have a friend who wears them like breathing. Respect your partners’ ability to dress themselves, please. If you fuss about how uncomfortable it makes YOU to see her in heels, you’re an ass.

So if your male partner does something that makes you uncomfortable, you keep your mouth shut about it? And if you do something that makes your partner uncomfortable, you’d prefer that they not tell you? That sounds like a recipe for a wonderful marriage.

[Anonymous]

It would be a dealbreaker for me, sorry. But I’m tall and I need a man to dominate me with his size.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Which makes me taller than him in heels. Neither of us is short but would this bother you? Would it bother him? Would you stop wearing heels because of it? Right now I’m limiting myself to 1 heels and it’s annoying me.

I personally don't think I can have romantic feelings toward a shorter man. I have tried, and couldn't. I sort of ended up considering the guy as a little brother. But since he already is your boyfriend, it seems to be working for you.

[Anonymous]

OP. I love him immensely. He keeps being emotionally perfect for me. And I’m intensely attracted to him in a way that I think will last. We kiss a lot though, which I love but it’s why I’ve stopped wearing taller heels—don’t want to bend down to kiss him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP. I love him immensely. He keeps being emotionally perfect for me. And I’m intensely attracted to him in a way that I think will last. We kiss a lot though, which I love but it’s why I’ve stopped wearing taller heels—don’t want to bend down to kiss him.

It’s this for me.

I posted about wanting to feel dominated by a man. I want a man to be able to look down, tilt my chin and ravage me. Not… the other way around.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve been happily married for almost 20 years to a man who is an inch shorter than I am.

Pros: loving husband, excellent father, partner in life, best friend

Cons: I’m taller than him when I wear heels.

Husband 3 inches shorter…. Doesn’t matter due to all of the above.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP. I love him immensely. He keeps being emotionally perfect for me. And I’m intensely attracted to him in a way that I think will last. We kiss a lot though, which I love but it’s why I’ve stopped wearing taller heels—don’t want to bend down to kiss him.

No one who loves someone immensely, would consider it an issue. They'll be glad they have love of their life and don't even have to wear heels to fake looking tall.

[Anonymous]

My husband and I are both 5’10” and I love that we are a perfect fit! I rarely wear heels higher than 1” as they hurt my feet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Which makes me taller than him in heels. Neither of us is short but would this bother you? Would it bother him? Would you stop wearing heels because of it? Right now I’m limiting myself to 1 heels and it’s annoying me.

Dump the dwarf

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP. I love him immensely. He keeps being emotionally perfect for me. And I’m intensely attracted to him in a way that I think will last. We kiss a lot though, which I love but it’s why I’ve stopped wearing taller heels—don’t want to bend down to kiss him.

No one who loves someone immensely, would consider it an issue. They'll be glad they have love of their life and don't even have to wear heels to fake looking tall.

Calm yourself. You can ask a question without it being a dealbreaker. There’s a spectrum of annoyances.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Which makes me taller than him in heels. Neither of us is short but would this bother you? Would it bother him? Would you stop wearing heels because of it? Right now I’m limiting myself to 1 heels and it’s annoying me.

Dump the dwarf

OP. Neither of us is short.

[Anonymous]

I find that those couples always look ridiculous. I'm 6'5".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Which makes me taller than him in heels. Neither of us is short but would this bother you? Would it bother him? Would you stop wearing heels because of it? Right now I’m limiting myself to 1 heels and it’s annoying me.

I am 5’9 and have dated men from 5’6 to 6’3 and it didn’t matter. No one cared.

[Anonymous]

Yes it would bother me subconsciously. I wouldn’t be able to date a short man.