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I have a 2016, so I want to understand more about the landscape.
1) So clubs assume kids on their first team to take supplemental training elsewhere to earn the spot, besides 4days team trains on games on weekends? So basically club soccer is 5day training? 2) will coach ever talk to parents about where /which areas they want the kid to develop/improve? 3) specifically for pa1, what does AK do during team practice to develop kids? 4) earlier post said some other teams/clubs develop players, what are they for 2016? Thx! |
If your kid isn't good enough to maintain their spot, how is that a failure of Arlington Soccer? |
Multi-sports athletes on top team have a lower priority? Not merit based? |
| If you are good enough they are not going to hold you back in PA2 or Red. Problem is everyone thinks their kid is better than they actually are. Just because you were on a top team from 9 to 12 doesn't mean there are not other players that have gotten better than your kid or your kid stop progressing. This is perfectly normal but everyone feels entitled because they were on top team and spent all that money. Socker...Everyone is spending the same money to play. |
This is my read of the situation, too. Parents think their kid is way better than they actually are and blame coaches / club / the system on why they aren't advancing instead of realizing other kids are just better. |
This is even more true at Arlington of parents of kids on PA2 who once played for the top team. |
| Based on my child's experience, outside players generally have to be better than the existing players on a given Arlington team to get an offer (at least beyond U12/U13 or so). And that does mean they have to stand out during the giant tryouts to get an invite to attend a team practice or are already on the radar of the coaches. Each year, most of the returning players stay on the same team, and a few move up/down levels or leave travel entirely (due to other priorities). |
Are they being told they take to long to scan (get it to <5s), they miss 1-2s or overlap opportunities (hit 75% of expected plays), they can't hold down against 2v1's (win 50%)? Or just that other kids are better ($ from outside the program for PA1 + your $ for PA2 > your $ for PA1)? |
Money is the same for players inside our outside the club.... keep looking for more excuses though.... I'm sure that will work out for you |
Just so you know, it’s extremely difficult to make even the lowest team for boys when going from ADP to Arlington travel. The easiest way to get on a team is at that U9 stage. My son played ADP and tried out for travel before moving on to other sports and we were shocked at how many kids came to tryouts. My son’s a good athlete and has had no problem making other travel level teams in other sports, but he did not have the ball skills of other kids at that age that had been playing serious soccer for several years already. No one from his ADP team made it that year. This was heading into an U11 year. |
It’s also a real unique aspect this year of the age change. I gathered a lot of the 2016 “guests” were really 2015s who are now making that team. People may not like the outcome but my sense from talking to people is they were well ahead in timing of how other clubs were in terms of “bad news” to their own families about kids making it or not for next season. |
| Either some delusional parents decided to chime in or the Arl directors got wind of what is being said and are trying to do damage control. Just be honest with people don’t be a scumbag just so you can take their money |
Yep. Someone outed this above. ADP is a total sham money grab and just further dilutes the rec option. |
LOL yes they started instilling seeds of panic amongst players & parents in January, announced a whole complicated program of age group scrimmages that got cancelled due to weather and never rescheduled, wound up leaving kids on teams who were told they’d be moved down, and moving down kids who were told they’d be remaining on the same team. Soooooo they were ahead in causing extra stress, being dishonest, and in terms of poor quality of communication?? I always heard Arlington was disorganized but people have complaints about all clubs so chalked it up to noise. That was a mistake - it really is spectacularly poorly run. |
I'm definitely not under the illusion that ADP is a pathway to travel, however ADP has been a good middle ground for us. My son really loves soccer but he's not the strongest player. The uneven experience in red (with some pretty insane volunteer coaches and kids who didn't want to be there) was enough for us to look to ADP. He likes that ADP attracts more kids who seem to really love soccer / want to improve, even if it's not world class training. As parents, we like that the focus is on playing, not winning. I agree that the training could be better for the cost, but even still, the cost is worth it for us as a step above rec and with the commitment of travel. |