Fifty isn't old

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Anonymous wrote:50 guy, has some traction. 50 gal, won’t attract anything. Sorry.

Well, I am a 52 woman and I seem to attract men at least 10 years younger than me. The last 4 men I dated were between 36-42.

They are just sport f’ing you because you’re an easy bootycall.

Some guys gave a GILF kink.

Why is it that some people always see sex as something that men “take” from women, rather than a mutually pleasurable experience they engage in together? Why does one person always have to be using the other? This is a very strange attitude to bring to the act of love.

What they want from you is not an “act of love”. It’s the same thing as renting a prostitute but without having to pay for it.

The best part is that you are too deluded to see what they are trying to get from you. Do you honestly think a younger man wants to be in a long term relationship with a 50 year old woman?

Fair but it goes both ways. 50+ men are old and younger women generally only sleep with them for financial gain, whether it's immediate cash or a hope for future gifts. Over 50 men are frail, have low testosterone, low energy, and are often bitter and angry around younger people who ultimately just remind them that they are aging and can't stop it. I think think people are happiest when they stick with near their own age for long-term love.

True it’s just men are so full of themselves that they genuinely believe these younger women enjoy sex with them. Blah, blah.

I don’t know, I’m a liberal woman approaching 50, happily married to DH of similar age. My best sex ever was with a younger man, the difference creates a polarity that can be electrifying. It goes in both directions, I wouldn’t write off a 60+ year old if I were to become single. You just never know. Chemistry is about much more than meets the eye. As for compatibility and friendship, that too can genuinely cross generations.

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Anonymous wrote:50 guy, has some traction. 50 gal, won’t attract anything. Sorry.

Well, I am a 52 woman and I seem to attract men at least 10 years younger than me. The last 4 men I dated were between 36-42.

They are just sport f’ing you because you’re an easy bootycall.

Some guys gave a GILF kink.

Why is it that some people always see sex as something that men “take” from women, rather than a mutually pleasurable experience they engage in together? Why does one person always have to be using the other? This is a very strange attitude to bring to the act of love.

What they want from you is not an “act of love”. It’s the same thing as renting a prostitute but without having to pay for it.

The best part is that you are too deluded to see what they are trying to get from you. Do you honestly think a younger man wants to be in a long term relationship with a 50 year old woman?

Fair but it goes both ways. 50+ men are old and younger women generally only sleep with them for financial gain, whether it's immediate cash or a hope for future gifts. Over 50 men are frail, have low testosterone, low energy, and are often bitter and angry around younger people who ultimately just remind them that they are aging and can't stop it. I think think people are happiest when they stick with near their own age for long-term love.

True it’s just men are so full of themselves that they genuinely believe these younger women enjoy sex with them. Blah, blah.

For just pure sex, of course women of all ages want young, handsome men when are strong, muscular and exude youth, vitality and masculine energy. Obviously. For love, both genders need to look for about an equal who will accept us as we are.

[Anonymous]

I'm 55 (female) and look 45. (Pretty sure this is actually true, b/c of the many times women in their mid 40s with younger kids assume i am their cohort, invite me to kid stuff, then do a double take when I explain I am 55 and my kids are now both out of college!). Divorced, but I have zero interest in dating younger men. They just... don't know enough. I would MAYBE date a 49 year old but can't imagine going younger than that. And have had no trouble finding attractive mid 50s men who want to date women their own age. Of course there are plenty of middle aged men who want to date 20 year olds, but so what? I doubt I would like them anyway.

I do "feel" 55, though. Not "old," but "older." Skin less elastic, and it takes more time to recover from a rough night, jet lag and so on.

After my marriage ended I could not imagine ever wanting to be in a relationship again. I was so incredibly glad to be living alone, after 20+ years with children at home, much as I love them, and in a bad marriage.

But then I just thought maybe sex would be nice, and got on OLD. And ended up falling in love with a man I met. It has now been two years and we are talking about moving in together. I am not sure if marriage will ever feel like it makes sense, but... all this is just to say that sometimes life surprises you.