Fifty isn't old

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:50 guy, has some traction. 50 gal, won’t attract anything. Sorry.

Well, I am a 52 woman and I seem to attract men at least 10 years younger than me. The last 4 men I dated were between 36-42.

They are just sport f’ing you because you’re an easy bootycall.

Some guys gave a GILF kink.

Why is it that some people always see sex as something that men “take” from women, rather than a mutually pleasurable experience they engage in together? Why does one person always have to be using the other? This is a very strange attitude to bring to the act of love.

What they want from you is not an “act of love”. It’s the same thing as renting a prostitute but without having to pay for it.

The best part is that you are too deluded to see what they are trying to get from you. Do you honestly think a younger man wants to be in a long term relationship with a 50 year old woman?

I think you are mixing up the posters responding to my original post. I am the PP dating younger men. I am not interested in a long term relationship again. I have already been married to a man who developed a mental illness, and I raised a DD on my own. The men I date are kind and respectful, and the sex is great. I am also happy to date men my own age but I just seem to meet a lot more younger men. I am not sure why you are so triggered by my posts.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:50 guy, has some traction. 50 gal, won’t attract anything. Sorry.

Well, I am a 52 woman and I seem to attract men at least 10 years younger than me. The last 4 men I dated were between 36-42.

They are just sport f’ing you because you’re an easy bootycall.

Some guys gave a GILF kink.

Why is it that some people always see sex as something that men “take” from women, rather than a mutually pleasurable experience they engage in together? Why does one person always have to be using the other? This is a very strange attitude to bring to the act of love.

What they want from you is not an “act of love”. It’s the same thing as renting a prostitute but without having to pay for it.

The best part is that you are too deluded to see what they are trying to get from you. Do you honestly think a younger man wants to be in a long term relationship with a 50 year old woman?

I think you are mixing up the posters responding to my original post. I am the PP dating younger men. I am not interested in a long term relationship again. I have already been married to a man who developed a mental illness, and I raised a DD on my own. The men I date are kind and respectful, and the sex is great. I am also happy to date men my own age but I just seem to meet a lot more younger men. I am not sure why you are so triggered by my posts.

Create an account here. Would love to meet you. On the younger side here.

[Anonymous]

I'm 45. 50 is objectively old, but you're not dead! There is plenty of life left to live past 50 for most of us, and if you desire to have a partner, then you should look for one. I enjoy the single life, so really someone very amazing would have to land in my lap for me to change it, so I doubt I'm going to partner up again....but I'm open to it!

[Anonymous]

Your body and attitude determine your age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 45. 50 is objectively old, but you're not dead! There is plenty of life left to live past 50 for most of us, and if you desire to have a partner, then you should look for one. I enjoy the single life, so really someone very amazing would have to land in my lap for me to change it, so I doubt I'm going to partner up again....but I'm open to it!

If you think 50 is “objectively old,” and that’s how you perceive everyone you meet who is that age - approaching them with that outlook - you may have a hard time finding a partner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:50 guy, has some traction. 50 gal, won’t attract anything. Sorry.

Everyone always says that on dcum (and it’s meant to pack a punch, never says kindly), but that has not been the case with my friends in their 50s who coupled up, remarried, etc.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:50 guy, has some traction. 50 gal, won’t attract anything. Sorry.

Well, I am a 52 woman and I seem to attract men at least 10 years younger than me. The last 4 men I dated were between 36-42.

Probably low value men who have been rejected by younger attractive women.
But it’s better than nothing.

Look in the mirror and ask yourself why you are like a dog with a bone trying to convince women that they are less than trash in middle age. This reflects very poorly on you. That’s worse than being “old.” You are unkind, and carrying around a lot of bitterness.

[Anonymous]

The trolls on this thread…I’ve gotta depart. Too toxic.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm 45. 50 is objectively old, but you're not dead! There is plenty of life left to live past 50 for most of us, and if you desire to have a partner, then you should look for one. I enjoy the single life, so really someone very amazing would have to land in my lap for me to change it, so I doubt I'm going to partner up again....but I'm open to it!

If you think 50 is “objectively old,” and that’s how you perceive everyone you meet who is that age - approaching them with that outlook - you may have a hard time finding a partner.

DP. PP’s post was quite balanced. Some of you are really triggered by the word old.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:50 guy, has some traction. 50 gal, won’t attract anything. Sorry.

Well, I am a 52 woman and I seem to attract men at least 10 years younger than me. The last 4 men I dated were between 36-42.

They are just sport f’ing you because you’re an easy bootycall.

Some guys gave a GILF kink.

Why is it that some people always see sex as something that men “take” from women, rather than a mutually pleasurable experience they engage in together? Why does one person always have to be using the other? This is a very strange attitude to bring to the act of love.

What they want from you is not an “act of love”. It’s the same thing as renting a prostitute but without having to pay for it.

The best part is that you are too deluded to see what they are trying to get from you. Do you honestly think a younger man wants to be in a long term relationship with a 50 year old woman?

If that’s really how we’re playing this, then you know women don’t really want a long term relationship with a younger man, right? All he brings is a hard dick (which we’re using at our will, not his). We have money and friends and he is just a frippery. And eminently replaceable. I keep getting older, they stay the same age.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm 45. 50 is objectively old, but you're not dead! There is plenty of life left to live past 50 for most of us, and if you desire to have a partner, then you should look for one. I enjoy the single life, so really someone very amazing would have to land in my lap for me to change it, so I doubt I'm going to partner up again....but I'm open to it!

If you think 50 is “objectively old,” and that’s how you perceive everyone you meet who is that age - approaching them with that outlook - you may have a hard time finding a partner.

DP. PP’s post was quite balanced. Some of you are really triggered by the word old.

Seriously! Why is being old so offensive? If the average life expectancy is around 77, then 50 is 2/3 of the way there. I hope to be very old one day.

[Anonymous]

The right is, depends on genes.

Some parents die in their 70s, others in their 90s.

Inquire on lineage- we are not all the same.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:50 guy, has some traction. 50 gal, won’t attract anything. Sorry.

Well, I am a 52 woman and I seem to attract men at least 10 years younger than me. The last 4 men I dated were between 36-42.

They are just sport f’ing you because you’re an easy bootycall.

Some guys gave a GILF kink.

Why is it that some people always see sex as something that men “take” from women, rather than a mutually pleasurable experience they engage in together? Why does one person always have to be using the other? This is a very strange attitude to bring to the act of love.

What they want from you is not an “act of love”. It’s the same thing as renting a prostitute but without having to pay for it.

The best part is that you are too deluded to see what they are trying to get from you. Do you honestly think a younger man wants to be in a long term relationship with a 50 year old woman?

Fair but it goes both ways. 50+ men are old and younger women generally only sleep with them for financial gain, whether it's immediate cash or a hope for future gifts. Over 50 men are frail, have low testosterone, low energy, and are often bitter and angry around younger people who ultimately just remind them that they are aging and can't stop it. I think think people are happiest when they stick with near their own age for long-term love.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The right is, depends on genes.

Some parents die in their 70s, others in their 90s.

Inquire on lineage- we are not all the same.

Yes, it’s critical , and life longevity is highly individual. You can hire an actuary and he’ll tell your estimated life expectancy based on your parents, grand parents, medical history, weight, lifestyle etc.
My friend’s husband is 85 and he’s working full time and as bright and sharp as he was in his 20s. His mother died at 99 yo and worked at a university whole life excerpt for the last few years of life
My projected life span by actuary is 94 yo. Sorry but not sorry I don’t feel old at 47. I feel like I just began living my life now that I’m an empty nester.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:50 guy, has some traction. 50 gal, won’t attract anything. Sorry.

Well, I am a 52 woman and I seem to attract men at least 10 years younger than me. The last 4 men I dated were between 36-42.

They are just sport f’ing you because you’re an easy bootycall.

Some guys gave a GILF kink.

Why is it that some people always see sex as something that men “take” from women, rather than a mutually pleasurable experience they engage in together? Why does one person always have to be using the other? This is a very strange attitude to bring to the act of love.

What they want from you is not an “act of love”. It’s the same thing as renting a prostitute but without having to pay for it.

The best part is that you are too deluded to see what they are trying to get from you. Do you honestly think a younger man wants to be in a long term relationship with a 50 year old woman?

Fair but it goes both ways. 50+ men are old and younger women generally only sleep with them for financial gain, whether it's immediate cash or a hope for future gifts. Over 50 men are frail, have low testosterone, low energy, and are often bitter and angry around younger people who ultimately just remind them that they are aging and can't stop it. I think think people are happiest when they stick with near their own age for long-term love.

True it’s just men are so full of themselves that they genuinely believe these younger women enjoy sex with them. Blah, blah.