No, it’s whether marching band should be forced on kids who want to do symphonic band or not. |
This part is more challenging than doing marching band. There are extremely few semester courses, and they would have to be the same class period as symphonic band or your schedule won't work. Also, not all the high schools grant "flex" or "open period." Maybe the different high schools vary in their cooperation and flexibility; but ours was not flexible when one of our children had to fill-in a second semester class because part 2 of their fall semester elective was cancelled. All of the few semester electives were full except for one (which would have been an absolute disaster for our kid) and they would not work with us to even develop an independent study (despite it being on the books). |
I don't know if all of them do, but chemistry did. |
This is equivalent to “stop whining” which, once again, is not an argument. APS made a choice, a policy decision, to impose this requirement. And people have every right to point out how there are numerous negative downstream effects of that requirement. Unless you want people to assume you have no actual argument and are just irrationally set on defending the policy, you need to offer an actual argument. You need to point out what actual positive good is served by the policy, why it is justified in the face of the drawbacks, and why those positive goals can’t be met by some other, less restrictive means. Unless, of course, your argument is just “that’s life, where bureaucrats are going to pass dumb rules that suit their own purposes and you’ll have to live with the consequences. And invariably some portion of unhappy people will irrationally defend those choices because they don’t actually care when rules affect other people, only themselves.” THAT is a valuable life lesson that teenagers probably need to experience at some point. |
^^ahh. Everything you just stated in your last paragraph totally applies to you. The school has passed a “dumb rule“ that doesn’t suit your purpose. And you’re trying to defend your choices because you don’t actually care about marching band, only your own child. Who is the one being irrational? You or the school? Also, was it you who called band kids “obnoxious“? |
Marching Band should be an optional extra curricular activity. I know high schools across the country that mandate it for kids in certain bands or for a certain number of years and very few of the kids who were forced to do Marching Band enjoyed the experience. I am sure that some do but the ones I know all did the mandated number of years and then stopped, none thought about doing Marching Band in college.
We are trying to encourage kids to join a music program and then we limit their choices by forcing them to do something after school that might interfere with other activities or requirements that they might have. Arguing that they can participate in a less challenging option, ir a lower band, to avoid the requirement is silly. Kids have worked hard to improve their skills to be able to participate in a higher level group and then you say that they can only do that if they are willing to give up a month of summer vacation, time after school, and weekend days because they have to participate in a second activity. Marching Band is a different beast then band or orchestra or other musical activities. It takes a different skill set to march and move. Not everyone is interested in the physical nature of marching band. Not everyone wants to play and move at the same time. We should be making band more enticing, not less. Forcing kids to participate in a difficult, time consuming activity in order to be able to participate in the higher level band fails to make that class enticing. |
Sounds like you are looking at a self-selecting group. Kids who play sports also do marching band. The two are not mutually exclusive. OP is an extreme outlier with a peculiar teacher and a clueless parent who doesn't know how to support her DC. |
Well said. This requirement is pushing kids away from music, not drawing them in. |
+1 |
Then how about changing the policy in a way that doesn't make a "lesser" and "better" concert band? Don't make it "intermediate" and "advanced" band and encourage more students who don't want to do marching band to stay in concert band. Personally, I think "advanced" should mean something and the only real differences under existing policy are that all the better players are sucked away from concert band into symphonic band, and marching band is a requirement for symphonic band. Marching band, imo, is an extenuation of the advanced band curriculum and part of being in advanced band. Just like delving deeper into topics and requiring more reading/work is part of the AP class curriculum, even though those things do not directly extend beyond the school day - though they do create more homework outside of the school day. Yes, marching band is a time commitment - so is a sport. Regardless of what people here keep insisting, students don't have to be able to do both and band shouldn't have to be the activity that yields to all others. If you can't do both, don't do both. There are other electives my kids have wanted to take, but aren't able to because of schedule conflicts. It's unfortunate they didn't get to take them; and it's unfortunate if some kids can't or won't do "advanced" band because of marching band. I cannot understand why everyone thinks marching band is the problem. |
I'm one of the marching band defenders here; but this is an unfair characterization of OP. I agree about the peculiar music teacher, but OP - and her daughter - are fine with her not doing symphonic band. OP merely asked if it was a possibility for her daughter to do symphonic without marching. OP seems quite supportive of her daughter's interests and talents, as well as her priorities and future ambitions. |
Marching band isn’t the problem. It’s a great activity and I hope more kids choose to do it. Forcing kids who want to continue music at W-L to do marching band is the problem. |
Some sports are extremely hard/impossible to do at the same time as marching band. |
OP here. Thank you! My daughter's teacher did not want her taking trumpet as a second instrument, I honestly haven't asked about anything else because the only other instruments my daughter has expressed any interest in are cello and piano - neither of which are relevant for band or emboucher. Her teacher actually did encourage her to do marching band and said most of her students do it mainly because it is fun and social. But my DC does not really like band music (she tolerates it now out of loyalty to the Arlington schools music program, which is how she got interested in music in the first place). She wants to do scales and practice Strauss and Mozart concertos until I beg her to put her horn away and go to sleep. DH and I do not know where her music drive came from -- definitely not from us but we are trying to support her as best we can. She loves her current youth orchestra and they seem to like her and she is getting tons of cool opportunities. It is a better fit for her than AYPO (which would be band-compatible) for a variety of reasons. |
OP likes to deride marching band in an effort to get her special snowflake into symphonic band. I’ve got news for you, your kid is not the only exceptional and musically, gifted child in Arlington. It sounds like you need to find alternative plans for your kid to participate in music in the public schools. If you can’t follow the rules that are established for everyone, then you should seek out opportunities outside the school system.
If your kid plays a brass instrument, I highly suggest jazz band, which is offered spring semester. I’ve never heard more talented and gifted musicians than those in the Arlington high school jazz bands. Many of the kids in the Arlington band programs go on to become music majors. |