What can American women learn from foreign women?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Responses in this thread are hilarious and Exhibit A of the Relentless FukTON of baggage that bitter American women of a certain class and politics carry around with them at all times.

“Hey, what is it that some guys like about women from other countries/cultures?”

“GAAaaaHh!! Patriarchy! Sex trafficker!! American men beat their wives and are ugly!!”

So wretchedly, self evidently unhappy with virtually every aspect of life.

That’s why “some men” like foreign women. They’re fun. They bang. They’re not full of venom and piss and vinegar just because men are men and women are women.

This dude nailed it. The question posed was, "What can American women learn from foreign women."

Guys responded with qualities like feminity, kind, pleasant, attractive, etc.

Then women responded by criticizing foreign women and blamed men for American women having bad qualities lol.

And then a couple of wannabe intellectuals were talking nonsense about species and MISOGYNY!!

Lastly, they declare that they DON'T NEED A MAN like the kind of man who would date a foreign woman

yes be like the stepford wife. Always look and act pleasant, and be ready to put out whenever he wants.

That's how women in South America do it and they are definitely much happier and less bitter than American women.

ignorance is bliss, as they say.

I'm an Asian American woman, and I would not want that kind of life. Some women aren't ambitious and just want to go shopping and look pretty. That's fine if that's all they want in life, and as long as their man can provide financially for them, then that makes them happy.

But, not all of us women would be happy with being dependent on a man for our financial well being, nor do some of us like shopping that much or putting that much effort into looking nice.

If, as a man, that is all you care about, then you and that type of women are made for each other.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Responses in this thread are hilarious and Exhibit A of the Relentless FukTON of baggage that bitter American women of a certain class and politics carry around with them at all times.

“Hey, what is it that some guys like about women from other countries/cultures?”

“GAAaaaHh!! Patriarchy! Sex trafficker!! American men beat their wives and are ugly!!”

So wretchedly, self evidently unhappy with virtually every aspect of life.

That’s why “some men” like foreign women. They’re fun. They bang. They’re not full of venom and piss and vinegar just because men are men and women are women.

This dude nailed it. The question posed was, "What can American women learn from foreign women."

Guys responded with qualities like feminity, kind, pleasant, attractive, etc.

Then women responded by criticizing foreign women and blamed men for American women having bad qualities lol.

And then a couple of wannabe intellectuals were talking nonsense about species and MISOGYNY!!

Lastly, they declare that they DON'T NEED A MAN like the kind of man who would date a foreign woman

yes be like the stepford wife. Always look and act pleasant, and be ready to put out whenever he wants.

That's how women in South America do it and they are definitely much happier and less bitter than American women.

That’s a pretty huge assumption and generalization. How do you know they are “much happier and less bitter?”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Responses in this thread are hilarious and Exhibit A of the Relentless FukTON of baggage that bitter American women of a certain class and politics carry around with them at all times.

“Hey, what is it that some guys like about women from other countries/cultures?”

“GAAaaaHh!! Patriarchy! Sex trafficker!! American men beat their wives and are ugly!!”

So wretchedly, self evidently unhappy with virtually every aspect of life.

That’s why “some men” like foreign women. They’re fun. They bang. They’re not full of venom and piss and vinegar just because men are men and women are women.

This dude nailed it. The question posed was, "What can American women learn from foreign women."

Guys responded with qualities like feminity, kind, pleasant, attractive, etc.

Then women responded by criticizing foreign women and blamed men for American women having bad qualities lol.

And then a couple of wannabe intellectuals were talking nonsense about species and MISOGYNY!!

Lastly, they declare that they DON'T NEED A MAN like the kind of man who would date a foreign woman [because she isn't American]

Well, yes. Of course. (?)

[Anonymous]

Why would (heterosexual) women need or want the very men that don't want to be with them, especially when there are so many that do?

What are you smoking?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Europeans in general (men and women) seem to have more common sense about what it means to be human and what can realistically expected of people that you’re in a relationship with. The expectations that Americans have of other people (and sometimes of themselves) can be pretty unrealistic.

You hit the nail on the head

Precisely why we'd still all be serfs and vassals if Europe ran the show.

Complete lack of aspiration.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Europeans in general (men and women) seem to have more common sense about what it means to be human and what can realistically expected of people that you’re in a relationship with. The expectations that Americans have of other people (and sometimes of themselves) can be pretty unrealistic.

You hit the nail on the head

Precisely why we'd still all be serfs and vassals if Europe ran the show.

Complete lack of aspiration.

I think some men probably don't want women to have the right to vote or go to work. They just want them to clean their house, cook for them, and be ready to have sex whenever the men feel like it. Some women might not care about aspirations of their own and be fine with being able to just go shopping all day and looking nice. The two types deserve each other.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Europeans in general (men and women) seem to have more common sense about what it means to be human and what can realistically expected of people that you’re in a relationship with. The expectations that Americans have of other people (and sometimes of themselves) can be pretty unrealistic.

You hit the nail on the head

Precisely why we'd still all be serfs and vassals if Europe ran the show.

Complete lack of aspiration.

I think some men probably don't want women to have the right to vote or go to work. They just want them to clean their house, cook for them, and be ready to have sex whenever the men feel like it. Some women might not care about aspirations of their own and be fine with being able to just go shopping all day and looking nice. The two types deserve each other.

It's a win-win. Nobody else gets anything great about aspiring to change into one of those groups, though. Let them be happy.

Go learn something from someone who has something useful to teach *you*, not the person you aren't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Europeans in general (men and women) seem to have more common sense about what it means to be human and what can realistically expected of people that you’re in a relationship with. The expectations that Americans have of other people (and sometimes of themselves) can be pretty unrealistic.

You hit the nail on the head

Precisely why we'd still all be serfs and vassals if Europe ran the show.

Complete lack of aspiration.

What aspirations besides consumption? Most Americans are one dimensional and transactional, they are bred to be chopping wood fueling the capitalist machinery.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What this comment shows is a commitment to a view called Gender essentialism- which argues that men are one way organically (I.e. decisive, rational) and women are another way ( I.e. docile, peace loving, more compromising). This is a really outdated view that was used in the 1950s and 1960s to argue that women could never be army generals or president, etc. The main issue with this view is that it conflates all women together ( all women are this way) and it kind of awards all the good and fun qualities to men and essentially describes female qualities as second clas or those belonging to broken men ( ie men are rational and women are emotional).

It limits and hurts everyone to simplify this world in such a way that women are assumed not to be good at math and science, business leadership etc. It also hurts men by saying that they are not relational and good at social work etc.

It doesn’t make anyone a joyless harridan to point out how limiting this is. And it’s asinine to say that women should embrace their “femininity” and not pursue occupations like medicine. Get back on your dinosaur and go back to your cave.

It's called Yin and Yang and it exists in nature in just about any species. This energy and traits are not something humans invented through socialization. Femininity is beautiful and essential to life, and it has nothing to do with being subservient, weak or powerless.

But what is femininity?

[Anonymous]

American women can learn to be better mothers. They should learn how to be a good parent from foreign women.

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't have to convince people to care about your opinion. If you have to make that argument, they already don't value you.

This is a dysfunctional relationship. Work on impressing the people who care about your opinions. This shouting into the void is a little embarrassing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Europeans in general (men and women) seem to have more common sense about what it means to be human and what can realistically expected of people that you’re in a relationship with. The expectations that Americans have of other people (and sometimes of themselves) can be pretty unrealistic.

You hit the nail on the head

Precisely why we'd still all be serfs and vassals if Europe ran the show.

Complete lack of aspiration.

I think some men probably don't want women to have the right to vote or go to work. They just want them to clean their house, cook for them, and be ready to have sex whenever the men feel like it. Some women might not care about aspirations of their own and be fine with being able to just go shopping all day and looking nice. The two types deserve each other.

Lots of ignorant comments on this thread. If you haven't lived in other countries and dated foreign women, then I don't see how you could have much to contribute. Most of these women are just better overall. They are fit, feminine, have careers, are educated, not popping anti psychotic meds, and light years ahead socially than their american counterparts.

This talk about subservient or unambitious foreign women is just nonsense coming from angry women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Responses in this thread are hilarious and Exhibit A of the Relentless FukTON of baggage that bitter American women of a certain class and politics carry around with them at all times.

“Hey, what is it that some guys like about women from other countries/cultures?”

“GAAaaaHh!! Patriarchy! Sex trafficker!! American men beat their wives and are ugly!!”

So wretchedly, self evidently unhappy with virtually every aspect of life.

That’s why “some men” like foreign women. They’re fun. They bang. They’re not full of venom and piss and vinegar just because men are men and women are women.

This dude nailed it. The question posed was, "What can American women learn from foreign women."

Guys responded with qualities like feminity, kind, pleasant, attractive, etc.

Then women responded by criticizing foreign women and blamed men for American women having bad qualities lol.

And then a couple of wannabe intellectuals were talking nonsense about species and MISOGYNY!!

Lastly, they declare that they DON'T NEED A MAN like the kind of man who would date a foreign woman

yes be like the stepford wife. Always look and act pleasant, and be ready to put out whenever he wants.

That's how women in South America do it and they are definitely much happier and less bitter than American women.

ignorance is bliss, as they say.

I'm an Asian American woman, and I would not want that kind of life. Some women aren't ambitious and just want to go shopping and look pretty. That's fine if that's all they want in life, and as long as their man can provide financially for them, then that makes them happy.

But, not all of us women would be happy with being dependent on a man for our financial well being, nor do some of us like shopping that much or putting that much effort into looking nice.

If, as a man, that is all you care about, then you and that type of women are made for each other.

Way too rational and measured for DCUM, but: this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most American women are mentally ill. The percentage is even greater in the DMV.

Unlike American men who are all in perfect mental, emotional, and spiritual Health.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Europeans in general (men and women) seem to have more common sense about what it means to be human and what can realistically expected of people that you’re in a relationship with. The expectations that Americans have of other people (and sometimes of themselves) can be pretty unrealistic.

You hit the nail on the head

Precisely why we'd still all be serfs and vassals if Europe ran the show.

Complete lack of aspiration.

I think some men probably don't want women to have the right to vote or go to work. They just want them to clean their house, cook for them, and be ready to have sex whenever the men feel like it. Some women might not care about aspirations of their own and be fine with being able to just go shopping all day and looking nice. The two types deserve each other.

Lots of ignorant comments on this thread. If you haven't lived in other countries and dated foreign women, then I don't see how you could have much to contribute. Most of these women are just better overall. They are fit, feminine, have careers, are educated, not popping anti psychotic meds, and light years ahead socially than their american counterparts.

This talk about subservient or unambitious foreign women is just nonsense coming from angry women.

I'm the PP, and I'm an Asian immigrant female.

Lots of ignorant comments from American males on this thread, too. Such nonsense.