Points for the savvy attempt to drive a wedge there. |
I mean, why do we even have public schools if it's all the parents' responsibility? We're throwing $3B a year at MCPS. That's a total waste of money if they don't actually have any responsibility for educating kids. |
Totally agree (NP), this is just a bizarre argument and it shows up all the time here. Sure, your kids are ultimately your responsibility. The legality of your actions are also your responsibility, but if you pay a lawyer to defend you in court, you expect a service to be rendered. You are greatly responsible for the state of your own health, but if you pay a doctor, you expect medical services. Somehow, MCPS thinks they should be paid billions of dollars, and yet have no obligation to provide effective services, i.e. an education... because "your kids are your responsibility." Pay us, but don't "dump" your kids on us. ??? I mean even beyond the politics, I don't even get the logic of this "defense." |
| Give me a voucher or charter school option. MCPS is failing my kids. Either option would light a fire under their lethargic, bureaucratic a$$ to actually try to recruit and retain students. |
There is a huge huge amount of waste in MCPS but with SN, you cannot just pawn off yoru child and expect them to do everything. Really, if you cannot read to your kid 15 minutes a day, you really shouldn't be a parent (baring you have no SN). |
We had a charter, it was a disaster. If you want private, you are welcome to leave. |
Your analogies make no sense as we are talking about public school, not private school. You cannot expect school to provide everything to everyone and that's why we have so many kids struggling. Its impossible. |
We are down county and we can comfortably afford to move today. I went to one of the schools that are "good" schools and had several friends transfer out and I would have if my parents allowed it. My parents were too selfish to care. We deliberately bought a house to avoid those schools. I'd do private over those schools. And, I wouldn't do Blair either. Its a bit funny how W school parents move out of the area to avoid the schools to drive their kids to Blair. Smart kids will do well anywhere. But, smart kids at a "lesser" school will have an easier time with college acceptances. |
Vouchers are usually only helpful for religious schools that are more affordable as they are subsidized by the church. SN families either have to get MCPS to pay or are basically on their own (we were on our own). |
So, basically you expect a random parent to be responsible for your child's needs and you feel zero responsibility to them in terms of their education? No wonder our kids are struggling with education and mental health. With a child with dyslexia, you have to work with them. Unlike you, we spent many many hours working with our SN child to make sure they caught up and stayed on target. Parenting goes a long way with some issues |
Not going to be Whitman parents jumping at vouchers. |
It is your broken kids, how much are you owed? Reasonable accommodations and fixing genetic abnormalities are two didn’t expectations |
Sure they will because the high SES school kids are known for struggling to keep up the outcomes of the low SES schools that is like the “real rich people are the ones with the cheap house on the poor side of town compared to those people struggling with their million dollar mortgages” argument. Sure I am sure it happens but not 99.9% of the time. Rich schools produce rich outcomes and rich people live on the rich side of town. You’re just rationalizing your station like it was part of your plan. Hopefully your kids will get that good outcome at that “lesser” school and do better than you…. If they are lucky
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Keep waiting... |
No worries, we got nothing and spent a fortune on private help. However, reasonable accommodations would have been nice. We weren't asking for much. |