Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

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There is a hearing today re his release per NYP. More details may come out.

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Anonymous wrote:When did the friends leave the DR? What day?

No one knows. Because no one asked and no one told. But like every US college week long spring break, assume they left soon after they last saw Sudiksha (Thursday).

So she disappeared on Thursday and they just flew off on Friday or Saturday ?

What would you do if your kid was one of the friends?

“friends”
I’d hang my head in shame, wondering where did I go wrong, to raise a girl who failed to learn every safety lesson I ever tried to teach.

Two things can happen at the same time, you can do all of the self shaming and want to kill your kid for not listening to you, while also getting the kid out of a third world country. Who knows, maybe the DR police hate Indian women and the Ribe family slipped them $10k and now your kid is at fault. Why stick around to see how it plays out?

The whole group of friends were Indian women?

Yes

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Anonymous wrote:When I went out with my girlfriends in college we always had a pact to watch each other’s backs and we all left together. Always. Period. And that was before cellphones!

I can’t imagine letting my girlfriend get blackout throw-up drunk and letting her leave with a man we just met. And then shrugging off that she was missing the next morning? No, just no. Those are terrible friends.

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And seems like really weird behavior since “friends of the friends“ say they’re all “nice good girls“. Nice good girls would be alarmed if their friend were unable to be found after last being seen with a stranger on a beach at 5 AM. They certainly would not go off on a boat excursion because her friends behavior would be uncharacteristic.

I actually think they were just a little naive. I mean, who immediately thinks their friend is dead in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean at ~8am when they are loading onto the bus? I'm sure by the time (lunch time? IDK) they realized she hadn't woken up and gone to the front desk asking for a key and getting access to her phone, and they couldn't get ahold of her, they started to freak out.

“Just a little naive”???

yes no one has it all figured out while in college as a 20 year old.

Doctors of tomorrow. God help us all.

tomorrow is the key word here. They would have aged and matured, educated and trained. They are right now just 20 year olds.

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Anonymous wrote:When I went out with my girlfriends in college we always had a pact to watch each other’s backs and we all left together. Always. Period. And that was before cellphones!

I can’t imagine letting my girlfriend get blackout throw-up drunk and letting her leave with a man we just met. And then shrugging off that she was missing the next morning? No, just no. Those are terrible friends.

+1

And seems like really weird behavior since “friends of the friends“ say they’re all “nice good girls“. Nice good girls would be alarmed if their friend were unable to be found after last being seen with a stranger on a beach at 5 AM. They certainly would not go off on a boat excursion because her friends behavior would be uncharacteristic.

Those girls made some bad decisions and choices. They will live with it for the rest of their lives. We all know that . They didn’t have anything to do with Sudiksha’s disappearance.

They did absolutely nothing to help find her. If they’d all acted more prudently, this incident would never have happened. Many bad choices.

Lies, reporting her missing to resort and contacting her family is not nothing. It was JR and CJ who did nothing.

His failure to alert resort at 10am or before is all the more curious given his claimed heroic actions and risking of his own life. Hmmmm.

There is nothing suspicious about the boys' behavior towards a literal stranger. Their behavior matches their recounting of what happened and all the evidence supports what they said happened AND what the friends said happened.

I bet you think its fine that her very close friends just hopped on a plane the next day after their friend disappeared.

Her friends are either sociopaths or she wasn’t actually their friend at all, she was just a late addition hanger-on to help off-set a group rate.

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Anonymous wrote:When I went out with my girlfriends in college we always had a pact to watch each other’s backs and we all left together. Always. Period. And that was before cellphones!

I can’t imagine letting my girlfriend get blackout throw-up drunk and letting her leave with a man we just met. And then shrugging off that she was missing the next morning? No, just no. Those are terrible friends.

+1

And seems like really weird behavior since “friends of the friends“ say they’re all “nice good girls“. Nice good girls would be alarmed if their friend were unable to be found after last being seen with a stranger on a beach at 5 AM. They certainly would not go off on a boat excursion because her friends behavior would be uncharacteristic.

I actually think they were just a little naive. I mean, who immediately thinks their friend is dead in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean at ~8am when they are loading onto the bus? I'm sure by the time (lunch time? IDK) they realized she hadn't woken up and gone to the front desk asking for a key and getting access to her phone, and they couldn't get ahold of her, they started to freak out.

You all are off your rockers. No way in hell am I getting on a bus or boat while my girlfriend is missing. I don’t give a damn how much money we “lose” not going. You all must be the other girls’ parents.

They thought she was with JR. Neither he nor CJ had told them otherwise.

They didn’t know where she was - that’s a fact. They shouldn’t have left her to begin with. But definitely needed eyes on her before they head off for the day.

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Anonymous wrote:When I went out with my girlfriends in college we always had a pact to watch each other’s backs and we all left together. Always. Period. And that was before cellphones!

I can’t imagine letting my girlfriend get blackout throw-up drunk and letting her leave with a man we just met. And then shrugging off that she was missing the next morning? No, just no. Those are terrible friends.

+1

And seems like really weird behavior since “friends of the friends“ say they’re all “nice good girls“. Nice good girls would be alarmed if their friend were unable to be found after last being seen with a stranger on a beach at 5 AM. They certainly would not go off on a boat excursion because her friends behavior would be uncharacteristic.

I actually think they were just a little naive. I mean, who immediately thinks their friend is dead in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean at ~8am when they are loading onto the bus? I'm sure by the time (lunch time? IDK) they realized she hadn't woken up and gone to the front desk asking for a key and getting access to her phone, and they couldn't get ahold of her, they started to freak out.

“Just a little naive”???

yes no one has it all figured out while in college as a 20 year old.

Doctors of tomorrow. God help us all.

More like Medicare and Medicaid scammers of tomorrow.

Guess you're just jealous they are learning how to actually help people, while you’re stuck being an expert in complaining.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When I went out with my girlfriends in college we always had a pact to watch each other’s backs and we all left together. Always. Period. And that was before cellphones!

I can’t imagine letting my girlfriend get blackout throw-up drunk and letting her leave with a man we just met. And then shrugging off that she was missing the next morning? No, just no. Those are terrible friends.

+1

And seems like really weird behavior since “friends of the friends“ say they’re all “nice good girls“. Nice good girls would be alarmed if their friend were unable to be found after last being seen with a stranger on a beach at 5 AM. They certainly would not go off on a boat excursion because her friends behavior would be uncharacteristic.

I actually think they were just a little naive. I mean, who immediately thinks their friend is dead in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean at ~8am when they are loading onto the bus? I'm sure by the time (lunch time? IDK) they realized she hadn't woken up and gone to the front desk asking for a key and getting access to her phone, and they couldn't get ahold of her, they started to freak out.

You all are off your rockers. No way in hell am I getting on a bus or boat while my girlfriend is missing. I don’t give a damn how much money we “lose” not going. You all must be the other girls’ parents.

They thought she was with JR. Neither he nor CJ had told them otherwise.

DP. That still does not make what they did OK! I thought she was with a stranger after all those hours? They really thought she would want to miss out on the excursion that was expensive she had already paid for? No it does not add up!

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Anonymous wrote:The unhinged racist anti-white posters would still blame the boy if he drowned and died along with the girl.

I am one of the PP definitely not not anti - white. I do not like victim shaming though.

She's a victim of her own choices though. Accidents happen, and while tragic, aren't illegal.

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Anonymous wrote:When I went out with my girlfriends in college we always had a pact to watch each other’s backs and we all left together. Always. Period. And that was before cellphones!

I can’t imagine letting my girlfriend get blackout throw-up drunk and letting her leave with a man we just met. And then shrugging off that she was missing the next morning? No, just no. Those are terrible friends.

+1

And seems like really weird behavior since “friends of the friends“ say they’re all “nice good girls“. Nice good girls would be alarmed if their friend were unable to be found after last being seen with a stranger on a beach at 5 AM. They certainly would not go off on a boat excursion because her friends behavior would be uncharacteristic.

I actually think they were just a little naive. I mean, who immediately thinks their friend is dead in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean at ~8am when they are loading onto the bus? I'm sure by the time (lunch time? IDK) they realized she hadn't woken up and gone to the front desk asking for a key and getting access to her phone, and they couldn't get ahold of her, they started to freak out.

“Just a little naive”???

yes no one has it all figured out while in college as a 20 year old.

Doctors of tomorrow. God help us all.

More like Medicare and Medicaid scammers of tomorrow.

Guess you're just jealous they are learning how to actually help people, while you’re stuck being an expert in complaining.

Oh the irony! Learning to help people? When it really mattered, they didn’t do an effing thing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When I went out with my girlfriends in college we always had a pact to watch each other’s backs and we all left together. Always. Period. And that was before cellphones!

I can’t imagine letting my girlfriend get blackout throw-up drunk and letting her leave with a man we just met. And then shrugging off that she was missing the next morning? No, just no. Those are terrible friends.

+1

And seems like really weird behavior since “friends of the friends“ say they’re all “nice good girls“. Nice good girls would be alarmed if their friend were unable to be found after last being seen with a stranger on a beach at 5 AM. They certainly would not go off on a boat excursion because her friends behavior would be uncharacteristic.

I actually think they were just a little naive. I mean, who immediately thinks their friend is dead in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean at ~8am when they are loading onto the bus? I'm sure by the time (lunch time? IDK) they realized she hadn't woken up and gone to the front desk asking for a key and getting access to her phone, and they couldn't get ahold of her, they started to freak out.

“Just a little naive”???

yes no one has it all figured out while in college as a 20 year old.

Doctors of tomorrow. God help us all.

tomorrow is the key word here. They would have aged and matured, educated and trained. They are right now just 20 year olds.

“Just 20 year olds”. Don’t you teach your tweens better behavior when you drop them off at the mall to see a movie or let them walk the beach town boardwalk to get ice cream? These college juniors should have known better.

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Anonymous wrote:When I went out with my girlfriends in college we always had a pact to watch each other’s backs and we all left together. Always. Period. And that was before cellphones!

I can’t imagine letting my girlfriend get blackout throw-up drunk and letting her leave with a man we just met. And then shrugging off that she was missing the next morning? No, just no. Those are terrible friends.

+1

And seems like really weird behavior since “friends of the friends“ say they’re all “nice good girls“. Nice good girls would be alarmed if their friend were unable to be found after last being seen with a stranger on a beach at 5 AM. They certainly would not go off on a boat excursion because her friends behavior would be uncharacteristic.

Those girls made some bad decisions and choices. They will live with it for the rest of their lives. We all know that . They didn’t have anything to do with Sudiksha’s disappearance.

They did absolutely nothing to help find her. If they’d all acted more prudently, this incident would never have happened. Many bad choices.

Lies, reporting her missing to resort and contacting her family is not nothing. It was JR and CJ who did nothing.

His failure to alert resort at 10am or before is all the more curious given his claimed heroic actions and risking of his own life. Hmmmm.

There is nothing suspicious about the boys' behavior towards a literal stranger. Their behavior matches their recounting of what happened and all the evidence supports what they said happened AND what the friends said happened.

I bet you think its fine that her very close friends just hopped on a plane the next day after their friend disappeared.

Her friends are either sociopaths or she wasn’t actually their friend at all, she was just a late addition hanger-on to help off-set a group rate.

Funny, because it sounds like you’re the one who’s an expert in 'hanging on' to negativity. Maybe you should try supporting people instead of tearing them down.

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Anonymous wrote:When I went out with my girlfriends in college we always had a pact to watch each other’s backs and we all left together. Always. Period. And that was before cellphones!

I can’t imagine letting my girlfriend get blackout throw-up drunk and letting her leave with a man we just met. And then shrugging off that she was missing the next morning? No, just no. Those are terrible friends.

+1

And seems like really weird behavior since “friends of the friends“ say they’re all “nice good girls“. Nice good girls would be alarmed if their friend were unable to be found after last being seen with a stranger on a beach at 5 AM. They certainly would not go off on a boat excursion because her friends behavior would be uncharacteristic.

Those girls made some bad decisions and choices. They will live with it for the rest of their lives. We all know that . They didn’t have anything to do with Sudiksha’s disappearance.

They did absolutely nothing to help find her. If they’d all acted more prudently, this incident would never have happened. Many bad choices.

Lies, reporting her missing to resort and contacting her family is not nothing. It was JR and CJ who did nothing.

His failure to alert resort at 10am or before is all the more curious given his claimed heroic actions and risking of his own life. Hmmmm.

There is nothing suspicious about the boys' behavior towards a literal stranger. Their behavior matches their recounting of what happened and all the evidence supports what they said happened AND what the friends said happened.

I bet you think it’s fine that her very close friends just hopped on a plane the next day after their friend disappeared.

+1

She was a stranger to them- they’d just met her the night before. They had no obligation whatsoever to keep track of her. I’m sure they didn’t even know her last name.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I went out with my girlfriends in college we always had a pact to watch each other’s backs and we all left together. Always. Period. And that was before cellphones!

I can’t imagine letting my girlfriend get blackout throw-up drunk and letting her leave with a man we just met. And then shrugging off that she was missing the next morning? No, just no. Those are terrible friends.

+1

And seems like really weird behavior since “friends of the friends“ say they’re all “nice good girls“. Nice good girls would be alarmed if their friend were unable to be found after last being seen with a stranger on a beach at 5 AM. They certainly would not go off on a boat excursion because her friends behavior would be uncharacteristic.

I actually think they were just a little naive. I mean, who immediately thinks their friend is dead in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean at ~8am when they are loading onto the bus? I'm sure by the time (lunch time? IDK) they realized she hadn't woken up and gone to the front desk asking for a key and getting access to her phone, and they couldn't get ahold of her, they started to freak out.

“Just a little naive”???

yes no one has it all figured out while in college as a 20 year old.

Doctors of tomorrow. God help us all.

More like Medicare and Medicaid scammers of tomorrow.

Guess you're just jealous they are learning how to actually help people, while you’re stuck being an expert in complaining.

Who doesn’t dream of being “helped” by a doctor who let their blackout drunk “friend” die on a beach during college. This reads like they were hazing her and peer-pressured her to get alcohol poisoning. Why did they have her phone? Why weren’t they watching her back? Why didn’t they care the next morning?

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Anonymous wrote:When I went out with my girlfriends in college we always had a pact to watch each other’s backs and we all left together. Always. Period. And that was before cellphones!

I can’t imagine letting my girlfriend get blackout throw-up drunk and letting her leave with a man we just met. And then shrugging off that she was missing the next morning? No, just no. Those are terrible friends.

Poor decisions all around. Tragic consequences.

+1

And seems like really weird behavior since “friends of the friends“ say they’re all “nice good girls“. Nice good girls would be alarmed if their friend were unable to be found after last being seen with a stranger on a beach at 5 AM. They certainly would not go off on a boat excursion because her friends behavior would be uncharacteristic.

I actually think they were just a little naive. I mean, who immediately thinks their friend is dead in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean at ~8am when they are loading onto the bus? I'm sure by the time (lunch time? IDK) they realized she hadn't woken up and gone to the front desk asking for a key and getting access to her phone, and they couldn't get ahold of her, they started to freak out.

You all are off your rockers. No way in hell am I getting on a bus or boat while my girlfriend is missing. I don’t give a damn how much money we “lose” not going. You all must be the other girls’ parents.

They thought she was with JR. Neither he nor CJ had told them otherwise.

They didn’t know where she was - that’s a fact. They shouldn’t have left her to begin with. But definitely needed eyes on her before they head off for the day.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I went out with my girlfriends in college we always had a pact to watch each other’s backs and we all left together. Always. Period. And that was before cellphones!

I can’t imagine letting my girlfriend get blackout throw-up drunk and letting her leave with a man we just met. And then shrugging off that she was missing the next morning? No, just no. Those are terrible friends.

+1

And seems like really weird behavior since “friends of the friends“ say they’re all “nice good girls“. Nice good girls would be alarmed if their friend were unable to be found after last being seen with a stranger on a beach at 5 AM. They certainly would not go off on a boat excursion because her friends behavior would be uncharacteristic.

I actually think they were just a little naive. I mean, who immediately thinks their friend is dead in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean at ~8am when they are loading onto the bus? I'm sure by the time (lunch time? IDK) they realized she hadn't woken up and gone to the front desk asking for a key and getting access to her phone, and they couldn't get ahold of her, they started to freak out.

“Just a little naive”???

yes no one has it all figured out while in college as a 20 year old.

Doctors of tomorrow. God help us all.

More like Medicare and Medicaid scammers of tomorrow.

Guess you're just jealous they are learning how to actually help people, while you’re stuck being an expert in complaining.

Oh the irony! Learning to help people? When it really mattered, they didn’t do an effing thing.

Oh, I see, so you’re the expert in what ‘really matters.’ Tell me, how’s that working out for you? Must be exhausting being the self-appointed judge of everyone else’s actions.