Ask me anything: I am a kept woman

[Anonymous]

It was a bad move to start posting such specifics of his career. At this rate you may not be a kept woman for much longer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did you see him a lot when the wife was pregnant?????????

Did he tell you when the kids were born?

About the same as usual, then not for a couple of weeks right around when they were born.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP did you post here intentionally to get the wife's attention?

No, of course not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP did you post here intentionally to get the wife's attention?

No, of course not.

You may be successfully lying to yourself, but I'm not buying this. Of course you want her to find out. The details about him are completely irrelevant and you keep 'em coming.

[Anonymous]

I really hope you used protection when the wife was pregnant, otherwise you could be endangering the life of the unborn child.

[Anonymous]

I call troll.

Her friends are grossed out by the thought of being with an old man and in another post she says he's late thirties. Doesn't compute.

And mid to high six figures isn't enough to support a nonworking wife in the style she expects and another person, with clothes, gym, jewelry, etc.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I can't believe no one asked this - IS THE SEX GOOD? :0)

Yeah. It really, really is.

And... that's all I needed to know. If a rich guy was giving me great sex and taking good care of me, I would do the same thing.

Except, he isn't really rich. He sounds well-off, but he can't have but so much disposable income if wifey is a SAHM with a full time nanny and housekeeper. Wifey likely has her own maintainence expenses at the salon, gym, etc. If the oldest kid is 3, he or she is probably in a 20-30k preschool, with younger sib a year or 2 off from going.

It just sounds all so middle class.

I don't picture OP headed to Milan on these business trips, but Muncie.

Uh I really think you have no idea of what 'middle class' is

no shit! i cannot afford to go to muncie right now and i'm decidedly middle class

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP how old are the kids????????????

3 and 4.

Did he tell you that they would be trying to have kids or was that before you started seeing him?

No. He was engaged when we met. He didn't tell me about his ... Reproduction goals. I know the oldest is a honeymoon baby. Once he was complaining his wife wanted to get all the baby stages out of the way so she wanted to have their second but he was like how will that happen when she never wants to have sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I call troll.

Her friends are grossed out by the thought of being with an old man and in another post she says he's late thirties. Doesn't compute.

And mid to high six figures isn't enough to support a nonworking wife in the style she expects and another person, with clothes, gym, jewelry, etc.

To a 24 year old, an 'old man' could be late 30s.

[Anonymous]

OP, why has the fact that at least one person here seems to know who you (and your boyfriend) are not deterred you from posting further specifics about this man? Do you think that poster is wrong, and doesn't know who you are? Or do you not care if people know who you are/who your boyfriend is? Or something else?

[Anonymous]

This can't be real. Must not be the DC area, otherwise you wouldn't share so many details.

FWIW, I would never do it, but I knew many, many young women when I was in my 20s who had similar arrangements with married men. At one point, both of my roommates were seeing married men who had young kids, including one who called her from the hospital while his wife was in labor.

[Anonymous]

Where did they honeymoon?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP is neither 24 nor childless. Nobody of that demographic would have a reason to post on DCUM. Yawn.

Plenty of people who are not actually DC, urban or moms post here. I think OP is 24 and childless. She is posting here because she is pushing the buttons of someone who is not 24 and is not childless.

BS. She's having an affair with some dude and she's a shit stirrer. Think Paula what's her name with Petraeus. That is, if she's real, which I still think is nonsense.

[Anonymous]

If you met him when he was engaged why didn't he dump his fiancé for you? He married her, started a family with her and not you. Seems like you are scrappy seconds. How do you build your life around looking good and giving good head? So sad. I am sorry to judge but I am a mother if girls and this is just so sad to me.

[Anonymous]

OP - how often do you get to see him?