Not the SJC poster. So same weak position? Though I grant you that your level of arrogance *is* much greater than the SJC poster. That must make your mom proud. |
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I’m gonna chime in here and just say this is all ridiculous. I know so many private school grads from this area who are either under employed or unemployed, married to a high-earner. Lovely humans, but when looking at the ROI on their educations… was the tuition spent worth it?
Most of these high-earners are the women/wives also. What is your desired outcome from private? If it’s to have a child who is a high earning professional I hate to break it to you, but most of that comes from DRIVE. And if your kid doesn’t have the drive, as many of these snowflake children don’t, they can only go so far. |
| Being surrounded by the correct peer group so one can marry well is one of the desired outcomes. The number of inter-SFS marriages is substantial |
So true I have witnessed this myself!! |
Excellent points. I am not at all convinced it is better. But for the very rich, they want their children to be with other very rich from the start. This is the whole point of SFS school, not those pretentious quaker values. |
Not sure if they raise the IQ, though, just generates more cooperate mind-numbing lawyers. |
I often wonder why does the rich house wife send their kids to fancy school, especially their daughters? To become another rich fancy housewife? What is the whole points of their lives ? |
How boring? Almost as boring as those who are homeless, in jail, or Trump. |
All pretentious and hypocritical, Bunch of idiots who won't impact society in any meaningful way. This is why America is so stuck. |
It may be boring for you, but many people aren’t interested in exploring the adventures of struggle and poverty. |
It's mostly to ensure that prominent, wealthy families remain interconnected. Keeps the business within the family. You'd be shocked at the number of very wealthy HYP legacies who are married and out of the work force permanently by the age of 30 after marrying an older man. $1M of lifetime tuition from half-day Montessori to graduating Harvard.....but does it matter when your family (and DH's family) has 9-figure net worth and a ranch that rivals the size of Rhode Island? |
It doesn't change the fact that their lives are meaningless. |
I met some myself. I am not envious of their lives even though they also often outsource childcare and time with their own children. People have different values. However, in this country, individualism is highly valued as Money buys almost everything, other than the very way of being a decent human. At least for myself (and my child), I don't care about 9-figure net worth and a ranch. I 'd rather be truthful to myself and enjoy what I do everyday along with some struggle and the connection with 90% of the people. I still think the best life is when everyone makes similar amount of the money in a society and value community and connection. |