? I'm not offended by it. IMO, the the ^^PP who called it 13th grade probably did so because their DC got rejected to the flagship. I'm originally from CA, and we have a very different opinion about going in state (yes, I know why.. CA has a lot more great options). So, even in the DC area, it doesn't bother me that going in state = 13th grade, especially if that in state is the flagship that has an amazing national reputation. |
One of my kids went to an OOS flagship that was about the same price (due to merit aid) & lower ranked than the comparable in-state option.
The biggest advantages of leaving the state was being exposed to a different part of the country & meeting a whole new group of friends (nobody from kid’s high school attended the OOS school). If kid had stayed in-state, would have been an hour from home & would have hung out with same friends as in high school. Only a fraction of what you learn in college is in the classroom. While in-state publics often “get the job done,” going OOS can foster more personal growth. |
I think this is a really good reason, and it does make sense if you can get aid such that the coa is about the same or less as attending in state. Otherwise, for most people, going oos to not a flagship/higher ranked school than the in state without any aid makes no financial sense. DCUM skews wealthy, so a lot of posters don't realize that the vast majority of people in this country cannot afford the high oos coa without any aid. The only people I know who send their kids to an oos public are those who are umc, and that goes for DC area and CA where I'm originally from. The majority of people in this country are not umc, and they don't get that much FA. That is why in state flagships are so popular. |
The law disagrees. |
If you weren’t offended then why did you say the PP’s kid probably got rejected? 13th grade is 13th grade. Regardless of where PP’s kids were accepted. |
Nope. It would affect job performance and employee retention. No one wants to work with nutters. |
UMD The B1G 10 most recent basketball national champions in both men’s and women’s Third most conference championships since joining Higher incoming SATs of all schools except northwestern and michigan. Top 10 public university research budget 3rd most valuable media market in the B1G. |
probably because it's true. |
Because you are offended. |
So you do discriminate on the basis of religion? |
No discrimination. I just don’t hire people with bad judgment and poor social skills. Many (most?) that I do hire are religious. |
nah. I had actually never even heard of the phrase 13th year till recently, but I don't really care. A lot of kids in CA (where I'm from) go to the same colleges with their classmates. No one cares. This is a DC snobbery thing. |
California does not have free tuition at its public universities. Only for community colleges and first two years only. And it is less than $80k HHI |
But no one calls it 13th grade anymore. UVA is far too difficult to get into. And if you know someone there, they will tell you that you never see those that they know because of 26,900 students down there. Our private high school sent only two students, the valedictorian and salutatorian- they ever saw each other. Those Eagle Scouts that went from our son’s troop also says they never saw each other and lost contact |
Clearly you bought in if you assume PP says that only because their kid didn’t get in. |