Why do rich women pay lots of money to deform their faces to look like this?

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So does Jodi Foster (59)



I'm surprised more people aren't commenting on this photo of Jodi Foster at almost 60. Really lovely.

She looks almost 70 :-\

Still better than looking like a piggy.

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Anonymous wrote:Those of you saying that's not really what Gwen looks like - this photo is from a year ago. Totally what she looks like.

She looks terrible here, too. She's looked terrible for a very long time.

Most of Stefani's work looks ok in this photo although the lip filler is overdone and migrated. Once she has that fixed, she'll be ok. It's silly to compare her against how she looked 20 years ago.

Madonna is a totally different story. She had good work until about a decade ago. Then it fell off a cliff.

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Anonymous wrote:I really don’t think this is a “rich women” thing. Sadly women of all socioeconomic classes do this.

OTOH my mother and her friends are all “rich” women and they are aging old school NE Yankee style, grey men’s hair cuts, no makeup, turtlenecks and pearl studs. So its really more of a class than a wealth thing.

Thank God someone is here to defend rich women. The right rich women anyway.

Happy to do it! You can ask me anything about the “right” way to age, my people have very strong opinions.

Please tell me how to age like an NE Yankee, I am curious

OK, I will.

You develop a non-nonsense approach to life -- you get up early, you spend a chunk of the day outside, even in foul weather -- probably with dogs -- you don't mind your skin being weathered b/c it's proof you spent your life skiing, sailing and gardening. Plus your husband and all the women around you are strongly supporting this ethos. You love to walk. You even go on vacations to walk -- like rambling through the Cottwsolds for example. You believe a good brisk walk and a hot cup of tea will fix most any mood.

You don't complai. You don't get waxed, blow-outs, manicures. You don't spend money on yourself as in "self-care" unless buying a new bulb-digger to plant fall bulbs is considered self-care. Maybe you slap on some lipstick for Christmas Vespers at church.

You under no circumstances try to be sexy or trendy. You are practical and timeless in your fashion.

You focus on family, volunteer work in your community -- esp. if it's plants/garden related!, do the NYT crossword puzzle, carry on centuries old traditions like baking weird food no one actually wants, decoating and celebrating all the holidays, and most importantly embracing this stage of life as an adult women who has earned respect and dignity and is not trying to recapture her youth.

Oh and books, always be reading something that someone you respect suggested. Start your sentences with "The other day I heard on NPR . . ."

You join -- church, civic groups, tennis ladders, garden clubs, book clubs etc.

Of course what makes this all possible is that literally all of the people in my mom's social circle are the same! NPR-listening, no-nonsense, dog-loving, gardeners.

This sounds like me, without the tennis and gardening, and substitute the Washington Post for NPR.

My husband would not find this attractive at all. Kudos to you all for having a partner who likes you unwaxed, unmanicured, and ungroomed, but I enjoy knowing that even after 13 years and two kids, my spouse is attracted to my mind and body.

But where will you be when no amount of nipping, tucking, filling, and grooming can make you attractive to him?

He will divorce her and find a younger version. At least it seems she expects that.

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Cher has had work but has always looked fantastic.

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I think Botox gets a bad name. I get it on my 11s. I was looking angry and I’m not an angry person. I think I just sleep weird and that’s the cause.

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You can see the outline of those cheek things they put in their faces. They are as obvious as fake boobs that went way too large.

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Anonymous wrote:I always assume it accidental like too much injected that didn’t absorb or heal correctly when it’s plastic surgery.

Even walking around my rich Midwest hometown, every other millionaire mom (and grandma) looks like this. I am unsure if they realize how ridiculous they look. What I do know is this weird “look” i.e., everyone knowing you can blow lots of money on surgeries and frequent injections, is a status signal, to them at least.

What a sad little group of women.

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Anonymous wrote:I really don’t think this is a “rich women” thing. Sadly women of all socioeconomic classes do this.

OTOH my mother and her friends are all “rich” women and they are aging old school NE Yankee style, grey men’s hair cuts, no makeup, turtlenecks and pearl studs. So its really more of a class than a wealth thing.

Thank God someone is here to defend rich women. The right rich women anyway.

Happy to do it! You can ask me anything about the “right” way to age, my people have very strong opinions.

Never trust a group that calls themselves The National Society of New England Women and was founded in New York. Once these women have left New England they could have married into who knows what, Southern rednecks or Midwestern evangelicals. If they grew up in Wisconsin where one of the chapters are they are no longer old New England Yankees.

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Anonymous wrote:It's so crazy, they really are all starting to look the same. Gwen looks almost unrecognizable. At first glance, I thought it was Madonna. Then I looked a little more closely and realized who it was. Yes, that was before I read the caption, LOL!

I also didn’t recognize her. I glanced and assumed it was a Real Housewife that I didn’t know.

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Anonymous wrote:Man that is so sad to see. She was always so beautiful!

She’s ALWAYS had a ton of work done. You liked it until you didn’t.

She had a lot of work done in 1997? I don't think so.

I don't even recognize this Gwen.



- new poster who agrees she was beautiful and insanely cool

She's 53. Of course she was cute and skinny in her 20s and very early 30s.

53 is not that old. Plenty of normal people still look great in the 50s.

Jennifer Anniston and Reese Witherspoon look as good as ever on the morning show. They've been more judicious in any work they've had done.

Reece was 46 when she filmed this last season of the show. Agree she looks great but she’s still on the younger side. I’m curious to see how she handles the next 10 years.

Kate Winslet has spoken out against having stuff done - she looks her age but good.

I saw katie couric, mid 60s, on the today Show recently being interviewed for her cancer work and she looked amazing. It look like she had work done but really well. But I follow her on Instagram and she sometimes post without any make up, and she looks her age. I’m sure Katie has done something but it seems minimal.

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Anonymous wrote:Thanks for this, folks. I've decided not to get botox. I'm turning 50 next year and after reading this, I realized, why the hell am I going to get this done- I look good and barely have wrinkles. It seems like it's a nonstop downward spiral after you get the first work done. Embracing aging by working out, eating well, getting plenty of sleep, and retinol.

Botox isn't the issue. It's fillers (especially overdone lips) and bad plastic surgery.

Agree, nothing wrong with a little botox. Lots of people do that but avoid fillers.

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I just got back from Aspen and the “bizarre”/ “weird” face is apparently in style for the very wealthy. I cringed several times at dinner seeing what women have done to themselves. So sad

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Anonymous wrote:I really don’t think this is a “rich women” thing. Sadly women of all socioeconomic classes do this.

OTOH my mother and her friends are all “rich” women and they are aging old school NE Yankee style, grey men’s hair cuts, no makeup, turtlenecks and pearl studs. So its really more of a class than a wealth thing.

Thank God someone is here to defend rich women. The right rich women anyway.

Happy to do it! You can ask me anything about the “right” way to age, my people have very strong opinions.

Please tell me how to age like an NE Yankee, I am curious

OK, I will.

You develop a non-nonsense approach to life -- you get up early, you spend a chunk of the day outside, even in foul weather -- probably with dogs -- you don't mind your skin being weathered b/c it's proof you spent your life skiing, sailing and gardening. Plus your husband and all the women around you are strongly supporting this ethos. You love to walk. You even go on vacations to walk -- like rambling through the Cottwsolds for example. You believe a good brisk walk and a hot cup of tea will fix most any mood.

You don't complai. You don't get waxed, blow-outs, manicures. You don't spend money on yourself as in "self-care" unless buying a new bulb-digger to plant fall bulbs is considered self-care. Maybe you slap on some lipstick for Christmas Vespers at church.

You under no circumstances try to be sexy or trendy. You are practical and timeless in your fashion.

You focus on family, volunteer work in your community -- esp. if it's plants/garden related!, do the NYT crossword puzzle, carry on centuries old traditions like baking weird food no one actually wants, decoating and celebrating all the holidays, and most importantly embracing this stage of life as an adult women who has earned respect and dignity and is not trying to recapture her youth.

Oh and books, always be reading something that someone you respect suggested. Start your sentences with "The other day I heard on NPR . . ."

You join -- church, civic groups, tennis ladders, garden clubs, book clubs etc.

Of course what makes this all possible is that literally all of the people in my mom's social circle are the same! NPR-listening, no-nonsense, dog-loving, gardeners.

Why is it wrong to want to look sexy as you age? This makes it sound like you’re going into a nunnery.

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Anonymous wrote:Some women would rather look weird than old. That’s the reason.

This

Unfortunately they look weird and old.

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Please tell me how to age like an NE Yankee, I am curious


OK, I will.

You develop a non-nonsense approach to life -- you get up early, you spend a chunk of the day outside, even in foul weather -- probably with dogs -- you don't mind your skin being weathered b/c it's proof you spent your life skiing, sailing and gardening. Plus your husband and all the women around you are strongly supporting this ethos. You love to walk. You even go on vacations to walk -- like rambling through the Cottwsolds for example. You believe a good brisk walk and a hot cup of tea will fix most any mood.

You don't complai. You don't get waxed, blow-outs, manicures. You don't spend money on yourself as in "self-care" unless buying a new bulb-digger to plant fall bulbs is considered self-care. Maybe you slap on some lipstick for Christmas Vespers at church.

You under no circumstances try to be sexy or trendy. You are practical and timeless in your fashion.

You focus on family, volunteer work in your community -- esp. if it's plants/garden related!, do the NYT crossword puzzle, carry on centuries old traditions like baking weird food no one actually wants, decoating and celebrating all the holidays, and most importantly embracing this stage of life as an adult women who has earned respect and dignity and is not trying to recapture her youth.

Oh and books, always be reading something that someone you respect suggested. Start your sentences with "The other day I heard on NPR . . ."

You join -- church, civic groups, tennis ladders, garden clubs, book clubs etc.

Of course what makes this all possible is that literally all of the people in my mom's social circle are the same! NPR-listening, no-nonsense, dog-loving, gardeners.

Oh, please! I'm happy that the women in my mom's social circle are makeup-wearing, loud-mouthed, sassy ladies that DGAF about what is "appropriate". Most of them don't indulge in plastic surgery, but they color their hair, paint their nails, and wear bright colors and jewelry. They aren't trying to recapture their youth, they just like to feel and look good, and FOR THEM, this is the way. Let me tell you... these ladies are FUN.