I got yelled at for singing along to my favorite 2pac song.
Not a racist but why can’t I sing along to my favorite hip hop artists? |
Until a couple of weeks ago I routinely drove around my nice neighborhood in my nice car without my license, if I wasn’t carrying my purse, always assuming if I got pulled over (not likely) I would show the cop my profile on my firm’s website and it would be fine. This is out of pure laziness of not wanting to carry stuff. I realize it’s obnoxious and now am always bringing my wallet with me because not doing so is using my privilege - even if I don’t get pulled over. |
What’s that got to do with your privilege you didn’t realize you had? |
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So nobody has privilege is what y'all saying?
Lol okay |
So what? Happened to me, too. The floor girl at Saks took an YSL purse that I was looking to buy out of my hands with a sour expression on her face. I took a purse back and told her that if she does it again she will have problems. That fixed her facial expression real quick))) Just couple of weeks ago I was been told by a sales guy that I don't have enough funds for a type of flooring that was interested in. There is bright side to it, I enjoyed calling a guy an a*hole looking straight him in the eye ))) You can't fix every jerk out there but you can call them every name that's in your dictionary. Victims, use this advantage to a full extend ))) Few times when I answered the door of my own house I've been looked at and asked ''can I speak with the home owner?''. They assumed that I am a housekeeper or something. This type of things roll off of me like a water off of a goose. Yeh , I am an immigrant. To some people I by default can't have nice things )))) |
Michael Vick was a millionaire and looked like a model during his trial with his perfect haircut and designer suits. But he is an animal abuser that killed <> 40 dogs in unbelievably sadistic way and his layer's defense line was that for where he is from fighting and killing innocent dogs was a norm. Police officers don't go by fancy cars. Sorry. I feel for a good people that have to suffer the consequences of some behaving criminally. But that's the way it is and always will be. Fancy car doesn't correlate with the behavior of the person driving it - any race or color, by the way. It just doesn't work this way. |
All these people can become police officers and deal with criminals. I would like to see them in action )) |
Counterproductive labeling. Typical. |
Can’t tell you how bad that sounds. So many things are bad with that. —one who works in a firm with a profile too |
I'm a white woman.
Once I went to an open house for a townhouse on Dupont Circle with XDH and the real estate agent eyed us with disdain and told us we couldn't afford it. We didn't even get in the door. Recently my tax accountant had to subcontract to a specialized tax accountant for my complicated tax issues. Julia Roberts moment, I guess. |
Congrats baby! Love that movie. Good for you 👍 |
I have also noticed this. I'd like to think that it's because older black men of that generation were just raised to be very polite, but I suspect it's more that they fear being falsly accused at eyeing white women or worse. |
I am white and was raised and still am UMC. I have seen people doing this. It seems low-brow to me. But regardless, I would be worried about doing it. |