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I feel you. My white daughter needed some FA for most colleges and she was ousted from most of the schools she applied. Top 10% in her top 5 private, top grades, ACT 34, won a state championship for a science event, team captain to two varsity for 2 years. Played one of those sports in club setting since she was 12. President of two major clubs and heavily involved. Worked PT at an ice cream shop. 13 year Girl Scout and volunteered 2 weeks a summer at a Girl Scout camp. She interned for 8 weeks and received a fabulous recommendation from that internship on top of 3 other recommendations. Her college counselor said all were great. She was literally at school, at a club meeting, playing a sport, volunteering, or working PT her entire 4 years of colleges. Any free time she was studying. She barely had time to socialize. She loved her school. She gave it her all. She then watched so many minorities and full pay rich white kids below her academically at her school (some barely involved) get to PICK between top schools. Her and three other obvious white FA kids got squat. One is potentially our valedictorian. They are going to UMCP after being denied at all reached and targets. Accepted to UMCP and Penn State only, which were both safeties. We have one student who had to repeat a grade and is still on Calc AB as a senior, get into an Ivy. It is very hard for these kids to swallow. They are taught to work hard and treat everyone equally and then they watch as colleges do not treat them fairly. But it is a hard, but important lesson to learn. My nephew got bumped from many tech schools and watched as girls who had similar or lesser stats get in AND get merit aid. No different than white males having an easier time at SLAC's. You have to find out which colleges need you or move to North Dakota. Stats and EC's are not enough. Colleges play the number game. |
It sounds like she will be successful wherever she goes. Congratulations to you and your DD. 34 is not an outstanding score for top-tier schools. It is average. Such schools receive applications from many qualified candidates and they cannot accept them all. I know someone with perfect SAT scores and a near-perfect transcript at an MCPS magnet who was rejected from six of the eight (seven of which were elite) schools he applied to. That is the landscape today. UMCP is not a safety for anyone. You are a racist. |
| I think what that interviewer was saying is that not all aspects of the application are visible to you. Race is, so you latch onto that. Easier than accepting that perhaps, when MULTIPLE factors are taken into account (including the mix of kids they want to constitute that year’s incoming class)...your DD was not in the 94th percentile. Maybe she is in the 90th, of the whole United States, which is great...but someone beat her out. It’s okay. Not abusive. |
Private school kids are not hand held in high school. Far from it. They are tested vigorously. No weighted grades, no endless AP classes to pick-up grades higher, no curved tests, no curved grading system like MCPS. They get tested on oral and written presentations more than just random tests. Many group projects and collaborations. Late assignments get deducted 20 points a day. They have to research, think, and participate in classes all of the time in a round. Many things a child in a class of 30 sitting in the back of a public school never has to do. They need to pass a lot of tests, yes - but many publics don't even have mid terms or finals anymore. I wanted my kid to learn, digest, and understand. Not just memorize. |
Same happened at our private. URM's got in everywhere. Even the Asian students which so many people in public complain they don't get into their top schools because of being Asian. It is a massive hook, no denying that. If you look at the private school college sweatshirt pics, you can see the obvious too. |
| Your sense of grievance outweighs your evidence. |
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Dude, are you challenging the veracity of a source as unimpeachable as "college sweatshirt pics"?
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How do you know that many of these kids didn't have some sort of connection to these schools? Like knowing people on the board of trustees or having a prominent person help them get in? |
I suggest you google and learn by yourself or ask someone knowledgeable to learn from them. Being Asian is not a hook whther massive or the littlest one. In fact, Asians are discriminated against in admissions over all races, especially including White race. Be happy you are not Asian or else your kid will fare even worse in college admissions than being white. Asians have to study harder, get higher GPA, get higher standardized test results and should have more impressive extra curricular achievements than whites to get comparable college admissions outcomes. Don't be a dumb ass and spout nonsense just because your snowflake didn't get into his/her dream school. |
You forgot to mention that there are some schools where being Asian is a URM and a benefit. Not the ivies, but many other great schools. |
Please list these schools. I have no knowledge of them. I might want to suggest them to my child to take a look when the time comes. TIA. |
Here is a list that will show you in a comparative fashion for universities: https://priceonomics.com/ranking-the-most-and-least-diverse-colleges-in/ You can see where Clemson (as one example) has very few Asians comparatively. I can't find a summary for LACs, but there is a bigger bonus there. For instance Colby is only 6% Asian, and Oberlin only about 3%. Check the common data sets for colleges you like. I am not justifying the system, but recommend you find out where you are an under-represented minority and work the system as it is. |
The data isn't wrong. I'm sorry your kid had this happen to him. I would wonder about his reference letters and his essays. If I were his mom, I'd do a post-mortem with him to learn about where things went awry. That said, sometimes this happens. |