When you have a chance, go take some reading comprehension classes. May come handy. |
Thanks for providing yet another example! |
Thanks for proving the point for us. I'm out of here. |
I'd hate to see one persistent bigot drive out more thoughtful posters. |
It is tiresome to continue an argument with an ignorant person. Why bother to expend your energy. That poster sounds like one of the same posters that derailed the other thread. Sigh |
You prefer to see a dozen persistent bigots drive out more thoughtful posters? Newsflash: that has ALREADY happened. |
No need to be nasty. I get that (and why) people have left this discussion. But wanted to indicate that I appreciated their substantive and informative posts and to do what I could to encourage them not to stop posting on this forum. (I think that the thread has pretty much died a natural death but the "I'm outta here" posts were ambiguous wrt whether "here" was DCUM, College forum, or just this particular discussion). |
I am AA and I am one of the "I am outta here" PPs. I won't speak for everyone but here is what I meant. I come to this forum voluntarily to get other folks' insights on issues that I encounter as a parent, a DIL and a DW. On that front, DCUM has mostly been helpful and I think that underscores my belief that most of us want the same things out of life and parenthood. Against my better judgment, I sometimes stray into the political forum and certain other threads where race and the like are discussed. That is my own fault. That fact that folks can remain anon gives people on both sides the courage to push the envelope. What hits my spirit is the possibility that some of you are my neighbors, other parents at our schools, parents of my kids' friends. That while most of you are cordial to my face, you harbor some of the same stereotypes that my DH and I have worked so hard to dispel in our own kids. I am pretty open minded and do not lob insults or name call. Even if I disagree, I am respectful and I feel that I have a lot to add to discussions like this. But as another PP said, why waste the energy trying to fight against the few who really go hard. It is easier to leave or to limit your presence to the less inflammatory topics. The latter is what I meant. |
Thanks for your response. I know what you mean about how demoralizing it is to think that the attitudes you see here are pervasive at school, in our neighborhoods, etc. but only get expressed candidly in an anonymous forum. |
"To gain entry into top private schools such as Harvard or the best public schools such as the University of North Carolina–Chapel Hill, no one has to do better than Americans of Chinese or Japanese or Korean descent. To make room for black, Latino, and — yes — white students, deserving Asian Americans are pushed aside. And they’re tired of it."
http://www.nationalreview.com/article/418530/what-ivy-league-affirmative-action-really-looks-inside-david-french |
Seriously? You're posting that again? It had a thread of its own last month. |
Yes, and we all know what a bastion of equality and fair play the conservative National Review is. ![]() |
Well said. |
Bye! We won't miss you! |
I will most definitely miss the PP who intelligently stated her case whether one agrees with her or not. You, on the other hand, with your immaturity and inability to form an intelligent argument are summarily dismissed. |