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Another one:
Total Spending: A 2016 USDA study found that SNAP households spent about 22.6% of their grocery bill on a combination of sweetened beverages, prepared desserts, salty snacks, candy, and sugar. |
LOTS of people work 10-12 hr days, people still manage to cook. Yes, it's insane that our work hours are horrible, especially low income people but a simple meal can be put together in 20-25 mins. |
That does not state that more snap dollars are spent on soda than anything else. |
The rest of the developed world invests in a robust social safety net and sees feeding children as the obvious thing to do. You say this "obviously" doesn't apply to the elderly or the disabled. Who exactly do you think is on food stamps? Do you think there's just tons of able bodied healthy educated skilled people with fully equipped kitchens and time for from-scratch cooking? Get a clue. Get outside your bubble and actually meet some of the people you're judging but don't know. Poor people are not different than you. They aren't more lazy, or more stupid, or less moral. They are just poor. |
None of the above mentioned food takes any more effort to cook than a microwave meal. |
Let's see you work 12 hour days, spend 3 hours on your public transit commute, come home to hungry kids, body aching, mind exhausted, for months and years on end without a real break. Are you going to cook food from scratch every single night? Or might you occasionally warm up a frozen pizza so you can actually spend some time with your babies? |
You get a clue. This is an American cultural problem. We’ve been sold the lie that we don’t have the time or capacity to cook. My DH’s mother came here from a poor country with 2 kids, worked nights as a nursing aid, and had no social safety net at all. She cooked all their food on minimum wage. He never ate restaurant food, school lunch, or packaged food until his teen yrs when he was out with friends. |
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Convenience foods are a life saver for people whom also have disabilities. While it might be a simple meal for some to prepare, those that suffer from medical conditions may struggle.
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I can prepare and cook a dish in less than an hour that will feed a family for three days. Time to get real. |
Stop pretending everyone on snap is even working full time, let alone 12 hr days |
The point is, no one should have to live like you are describing. No woman wants to spend her life like your husband's mom did. Want to know why there's a birthrate crisis? This is why. We expect women to be machines. We refuse to offer any real support. And we ruthlessly judge every decision they make, down to feeding their kids a convenience food after a long ass day at multiple jobs. "Why can't she cook healthy food from scratch! And also keep the home spotless. And also spend hours on homework with these kids. And also put herself through school." If we want healthy well adjusted kids and families, we have to invest in them. Not judge them. Not punish them for not having better bootstraps. Instead of being a judge ass about what they put in their cart, ask yourself what we could do to make healthy food choices easier for low income working parents. |
Snap has work requirements. It isn't providing much. Most people on benefits work, many work multiple jobs. I'm not pretending, you are uninformed. |
Maybe you can. And maybe you would sometimes. But not always. Because you are human. |
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I think the larger point of all of this is that the Democrats, as usual, will be behind the eight ball on messaging.
Are they proactively (enough) getting out there with "Trump builds a ballroom for $300m while you starve?". No. I am sure the Republican spin machine is ready. WHERE IS THE DEMOCRATIC LEADERSHIP????? IS ANYONE USING THEIR WITS? MAGA outwits them at every turn. Sad! |
She was happy to cook and still does even though her financial situation is much better. Cook isn't drudgery, it’s feeding your family nutritious meals |