Love is Blind season 9

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Anonymous wrote:Jordan seems like a good guy:

https://variety.com/2025/tv/news/love-is-blind-finale-jordan-megan-break-up-season-9-1236557498/

I don't like that he kept referring to himself as a single father. He's co-parenting with his son's mother. Jordan said they split custody. And he should NOT have introduced Megan to Luca as his new stepmom. "This is the woman I'm dating. I like her a lot, but we'll see." That's how you explain to a 5 yr old. And his chicken drink is still absolutely disgusting- I can't imagine kissing a man after he drank that.

Why? Plenty of women refer to themselves as a single mother when they coparent.

Because he's NOT a single father. (And I take issue with women who do the same.) I have friends who have kids and are not married. One friend is a single mother - there has never been a father or father figure in her child's life. She has paid for everything, made every decision regarding her child, and handled all logistics. My other friend co-parents with her childrens' father - he pays child support, takes the kids to activities after school, takes them on vacations, shows up to school meetings, etc. The first is a single mother, the second is not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why didn’t Edmonds mom come? She seemed so into KB when they had dinner.

Also I saw on IG someone pull up the receipts from comments that Annie’s ex made: she got a DUI (drinking problem) and he got a restraining order against her after she was arrested for stealing his ID and trying to get T-Mobile (I think) to tell her if he was texting/talking to other girls. So nick dodged a major bullet there!

Oh man, not surprising. She is a huge mess.

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Anonymous wrote:Anton made me laugh. “Is she high maintenance? Yes. Does she cook and clean? No. Is she good with money? No.” So what’s the appeal, dude? Men will put up with a lot for hotness, lol.

I was thinking the same thing.

Side note: his hair resembles a tsunami.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m going to guess that Megan and Jordan don’t get to the altar. Not a single obvious shot of their wedding in the previews.

Their last fight (that I saw anyway) is a little microcosm of how it can be hard to marry across socioeconomic levels. He is just getting through the day, trying to support his child. She has achieved enough to look forward to fun vacations and diversions.

I think she may be too superficial or selfish (Sparkle Megan?) to rise to the challenge.

I find it a little ridiculous that someone with a child would go on a show like this and potentially marry a woman who they actually barely know and have that person around their child possibly permanently.

It might have seemed like a speed dating way to find Ms. Right. Single parents, who work as hard as him, don’t exactly have time for long walks on the beach.

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Anonymous wrote:No surprises with the weddings. I wonder how much those who knew they were “no”s were incentivized to get to the altar.

This show is having a very hard time finding decent men.

No matter what they were paid those women are like psychopaths. I don’t think either of them should have gotten married, but to tell the cameras how much you love your partner and can’t wait to spend the rest of your like with them, to smile walking down the aisle, to say your vows- no normal person could do that to someone they recently loved without breaking down. Especially to Edmond, who was abandoned as an child and had no one to walk him down the aisle but his 5th grade teacher. That’s really awful - both for the women and the producers.
The two guys who called it off before the weddings were both jerkoffs but so much better than doing it this way.
After Edmond the person I feel lost sorry for is Jordan’s son. His new stepmom just disappeared. That’s so sad.

At least he did not have time to fall for her. They probably met once.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jordan seems like a good guy:

https://variety.com/2025/tv/news/love-is-blind-finale-jordan-megan-break-up-season-9-1236557498/

I don't like that he kept referring to himself as a single father. He's co-parenting with his son's mother. Jordan said they split custody. And he should NOT have introduced Megan to Luca as his new stepmom. "This is the woman I'm dating. I like her a lot, but we'll see." That's how you explain to a 5 yr old. And his chicken drink is still absolutely disgusting- I can't imagine kissing a man after he drank that.

Why? Plenty of women refer to themselves as a single mother when they coparent.

This is true.

I was literally a single parent, 24/7 (adopted baby as a single), but I bit my tongue when my divorced sister claimed to be a single parent. Her ex paid generous child support and alimony. And every other weekend she got a break/free time. And in an emergency, there was a safety net. So not the same at all.

[Anonymous]

Question for black DCUMers: is it weird that he wore a hairpick at his wedding??

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Do you think Jordan will regret giving up love for money and material luxuries?

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Anonymous wrote:Do you think Jordan will regret giving up love for money and material luxuries?

Sorry-this was referring to Megan.

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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you think Jordan will regret giving up love for money and material luxuries?[/quote]

Sorry-this was referring to Megan. [/quote]

It wasn’t just luxuries - she was also sort of bored by him. He never talked about work. It sounds like he sort of didn’t talk a lot. She wanted a companion, not to continue to travel by herself

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you think Jordan will regret giving up love for money and material luxuries?

Sorry-this was referring to Megan.

Nope I don’t. I think she wasn’t even in love with Jordan.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Question for black DCUMers: is it weird that he wore a hairpick at his wedding??

Ummm. Yes. Of course. Seems like a silly question. Edmond was clearly eccentric.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jordan seems like a good guy:

https://variety.com/2025/tv/news/love-is-blind-finale-jordan-megan-break-up-season-9-1236557498/

I don't like that he kept referring to himself as a single father. He's co-parenting with his son's mother. Jordan said they split custody. And he should NOT have introduced Megan to Luca as his new stepmom. "This is the woman I'm dating. I like her a lot, but we'll see." That's how you explain to a 5 yr old. And his chicken drink is still absolutely disgusting- I can't imagine kissing a man after he drank that.

Why? Plenty of women refer to themselves as a single mother when they coparent.

Because he's NOT a single father. (And I take issue with women who do the same.) I have friends who have kids and are not married. One friend is a single mother - there has never been a father or father figure in her child's life. She has paid for everything, made every decision regarding her child, and handled all logistics. My other friend co-parents with her childrens' father - he pays child support, takes the kids to activities after school, takes them on vacations, shows up to school meetings, etc. The first is a single mother, the second is not.

Right and my point is that many women who coparent call themselves single mothers. If that’s the case, why can’t men do the same?

- A Woman

[Anonymous]

In happier LIB news, Cameron and Lauren from S1 had a baby boy a few weeks ago after 4 years of trying.

Also from S1, Matt Barnett and Amber had a baby girl in April.

And not to completely spoil, but there will be more baby news at the Reunion on Oct 29!

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Anonymous wrote:In happier LIB news, Cameron and Lauren from S1 had a baby boy a few weeks ago after 4 years of trying.

Also from S1, Matt Barnett and Amber had a baby girl in April.

And not to completely spoil, but there will be more baby news at the Reunion on Oct 29!

In that teaser - I bet the person is going to say they're a new dog-parent or something.