Blindsided by ER bill - DD says she was "roofied"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Black out drunk is NOT normal college behavior.

Ending up up in the emergency room for over intoxication is NOT normal college behavior.

Lying about being roofied to cover all of this up is NOT normal college behavior.

It IS the behavior of an out of control deceptive liar, who is probably a mediocre student studying something easy, whose four year long "spring break" is probably being 100% paid for by her parents. In short, an irresponsible spoiled brat who probably never deserved this four year vacation to a university in the first place.

Talking like this about your daughter is NOT normal parent behavior.

Having a meltdown over a $95 copay is NOT normal parent behavior.


You're giving divorced dad with a new family.

[Anonymous]

What is wrong with you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not in my book. She should have called you from the hospital.

If she was roofied, there's no way she could call ANYONE from the hospital. Patients who are roofied typically can't even tell the ER staff their name.

[Anonymous]

She is lying to you and there is more to the story. She does not trust you or feel safe to tell you the truth. Since you say she has been lying to you for a while, that is surely the problem. Does she tell you when she makes a mistake or bad choice? I'm guessing she doesn't. You both need therapy to be able to get to honesty.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Black out drunk is NOT normal college behavior.

Ending up up in the emergency room for over intoxication is NOT normal college behavior.

Lying about being roofied to cover all of this up is NOT normal college behavior.

It IS the behavior of an out of control deceptive liar, who is probably a mediocre student studying something easy, whose four year long "spring break" is probably being 100% paid for by her parents. In short, an irresponsible spoiled brat who probably never deserved this four year vacation to a university in the first place.

Talking like this about your daughter is NOT normal parent behavior.

Having a meltdown over a $95 copay is NOT normal parent behavior.


You're giving divorced dad with a new family.

X a million. Get ahold of yourself. Tell a bit it private. Then be constructive.

[Anonymous]

wow. That was a thrill ride.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That doesn't sound like alcohol or rookie. That sounds like narcotics.

Sounds like alcohol binging. I had blackouts from that in college and sometimes you wonder if someone spiked your drink. But no it was a lot of alcohol in a short period of time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow the replies to this are astonishing. What happened to believe women?

I drank to excess to the point of blacking out regularly. I was never hospitalized, but I was roofied and raped. Something serious happened and accusing this girl of lying and alcholism is not a productive way to deal with the incident.

Can you say how you knew the difference between blacking out and being roofied?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP's DD thinks absolutely nothing of getting blackout fall down drunk and going to the ER.
And has been living on the edge throughout high school as well.

Forget that car. Why is she going to college next semester? She needs to be in rehab.

Yup, this was me from Jr year of HS through Fall sophomore year. I wish my parents cared enough to pull me out and put me in rehab. Unfortunately I learned the hard way... Many hard ways

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That doesn't sound like alcohol or rookie. That sounds like narcotics.

Sounds like alcohol binging. I had blackouts from that in college and sometimes you wonder if someone spiked your drink. But no it was a lot of alcohol in a short period of time.

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Btw what school is this.