| So, parents of problem children, I have a question: How are you so good at pretending NOT to see the hell path your children lay behind them and therefor in front of them? Do you think you will be there to bail them out forever? Now that they are old enough to know better, don't you think it is time to drop the excuses? In the case I mention, there is a large family, each child worse than the first (this is not judgment but fact, based on several years worth of incidents and physically harmed children in their path). These are siblings that physically assault other children unprompted, in a blind sided manner, intentionally and often - be it school, sports, whatever. They are violent children that *clearly need help*. It is known and obvious that their parents time and again refuse to step up. They must be absolutely full of excuses! Their parents are very familiar with the judicial system. I am more than happy to provide more information, but so many in our community are familiar. To those parents: Do you think you are immune from law suits? Really? Are you that stupid? Because you seem to think you are that smart. The community just doe snot see your smarts, but instead excuses and failure to act; failure to parent really. It is a form of neglect. Maybe someone will take the necessary steps for your children to get what they actually need - parenting. Maybe it should have given you a hint when your first preschool released your child onto the road. OOOOPS! Good luck, you will need it. Buh bye. |
| I have a question for you: how do you not see what a smug asshole you are? |
| Because nobody admits to owning the problematic ones! |
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OP, no one has given them the tools it takes to "fix" the problem. Some of these kids need a swift kick in the ass, but if you get caught, you can be charged with abuse.
Some of these kids are toxic, but pediatricians love to put kids on psychotrophic medication and drug them to a stupor. Some of these kids are bored stiff because kids aren't allowed to be kids anymore. Some of these kids are the result of broken homes due to the extreme stessors of our modern life. MOST of these kids are brain-damaged from environmental toxins and vaccines. Your kids are not excluded from this club. |
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So, you are forced to interact with them, how? Schools and sports?
In schools, teach your own children to 1) stay away from their children; and if that fails 2) if they are physically accosted, a good swift sideways kick to the knee is far more effective than a knee in the groin. If in sports, take your kid off the team or switch to another team. You know what's not effective? Ranting on an anonymous website. |
sorry, you lost me here. don't much care what you have to say now. |
| adults with mental illness were once children. there are very few supports in this country for behavioral health if you do not have tons of money to pay for private care. |
| Merry Christmas to you, too! |
| Why don't you help these children? |
This. |
How can she help when their parents are in complete denial? I know someone whose son was diagosed at age 6 with bi-polar "tendencies." Over the years he has attacked other kids on school bus, the bus driver and was banned from bus. He threw chair, books, and whatever else was at hand at teacher in one school. Then he was put in a PACE school where he refused to do anything. He had to go to summer school and still sat and stared and did nothing. His grandmother was on oxygen and he pinched her cord to cut off oxygen and was turning blue when her daughter finally did something. He stole his grandmother's credit card and spent over $100.00 on ITunes. He stole from other grandparents and uncle. All of these were reported and judge in juvenile court kept giving probation. Once he was sentenced to juvie jail, escaped, and judge still gave him probation. About six months ago he tore a door off its hinges and was about to bash his mother in her head while she was calling 911. He took their dog, put in in a neighbor's shed, with chain so tight the dog was choking. His mother didn't tell the judge about this. Six weeks ago, he beat his mother on her head with a cell phone and she ended up in hospital for two days. Now he is in jail and Commonwealth attorney has said she will try him as an adult. He will be 17 and he is likely to get a minimum of five years in state pen. He won't last five minutes. All because his parents kept saying, "it's his disease and he isn't responsible." He is a menace to society and himself. This is what happens when parents, teachers, doctors, and juvenile authorities just give them a tap on the wrist. |
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If you're this obsessed, something went wrong with you along the way - some sort of abuse.
Are you married? If so, I now DO believe there's a match for everyone - and I do mean EVERYONE. psycho meets psycho
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| OP, maybe you should leave a print out of your post on the windshield of the parent's car with Supernanny's # at the bottom. |
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I think you are the one who is out of control. Seriously you sound quit a few eggs short of a dozen.
Quite hypocritical that you are harping on other children that you frankly know NOTHING about and you yourself sound like you have an untreated personality disorder. |