hahahahaha You're so funny. The best employers are hiring us because we perform better in the real world. Good luck with your SAT cramming. |
My kid with graduate with a 4.2-4.3 from TJ. He will have used extended time for major math tests and major physics tests only. I don’t fully understand, but it has been explained to me that his mind moves faster in advanced math than he can process his thoughts and get them written down. It’s like his brain has one foot on the gas and one foot on the brake. So he has to intentionally slow himself down in math or hiss brain is 3 steps ahead of his pencil, and he makes careless errors and takes shortcuts to keep up. Without extended time, he will get the mathematical concept right, but the answer wrong, because careless errors. And his scores on standardized math tests would not be an accurate reflection of his grasp of the material, or his actual aptitude. History, English, writing assignments, bio, tech, science labs, tech labs— all done under the same time constraints as everyone else. All projects due under the same time constraints and with the same due dates. All schoolwork graded under the same standards. And all the extended time in the world on the SAT or APs would do him no good at all if he did not understand the underlying material. But he does, so he will be NMSF commended even if his score drops, and NMSF if it goes up at all. Because he is 2e, we have always been thoughtful about his education. TJ has been a wonderful fit. He has worked with an EF coach while at TJ, and is ahead of many boys his age in terms of being able to organize and complete an enormous volume of work. And I strongly suspect her will attend a SLAC with a strong physical sciences program for college. And, like everyone else, he will choose a career path that plays to his strengths, which are many— reading, writing, grasping the “big picture”, having incredible artistic talent and doing interdisciplinary work, a particular area of science, and even math, as long as his career does not rely on a combo of mathematical accuracy and speed. For example, he is not looking at engineering. And yet somehow this is not measuring up? Really? On what planet is top half of the class at TJ with impressive extracurriculars and, published research “not measuring up? |
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I want my child to be supported, but I am not focused on grades. If my child has poor working memory and processing speed, then he'll get low scores on standardized tests. And go into some other field of study that doesn't require that kind of testing. I hear that, and definitely agree that a lot of testing is far from an actually productive method of measuring ability, but there are many situations (I'm about to take the praxis tests right now to become a teacher) where the test actually has little to do with the day to day experiences of that career field. Why would you want to preemptively limit your son's ability to enter certain careers before he can figure out if he'd actually be well suited to them? |
Do you realize that you just made the point of the naysayers? Your child "didn't really need the extra time. Used it to check his work." So your kid did great on the ACT because he was given extra time that he didn't really need. In other words, you gamed the system. You must be so proud. |
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Lots of kids get through the work pretty quickly. Mine needs the extra time to check for careless errors. He scored 1580 on SAT. Love seeing that people are jealous about my kid’s accommodations, because all the years your “normal” kid bullied mine because he is different, you never knew he was going to blow your kid of the water with testing and college admissions. |
You are obviously threatened by the idea that your child's academic achievements are inflated by their your adept gaming of the system. But it's not about the competition. For degrees to have any meaning or value, everyone must be held to the same standards. Giving some people extra time for dubious "disabilities" just undermines the credibility of everyone's degree. It also results in employers getting saddled with employees who have had their quirks indulged their entire lives, so they now lack the compensatory skills that they would have been forced to learn if they weren't constantly been given accommodations throughout their childhood and in college. If they can't complete the requirements for the degree, without being given extra time and privileges that other kids don't get, they shouldn't get the degree. They should major in something that is more suited to their wiring, or learn how to cope and overcome their challenges without forcing everyone to accommodate them. If you really wanted to help your child, you would encourage them to learn how to either overcome or at least find honest ways to compensate for their challenges -- or find a vocation that is suitable for their abilities and personality. Artificially gaming the system so they get into "better" schools and qualify to scholarships that should have gone to other children or get jobs that they may not be suited for will only hurt them in the long-run, along with the less opportunistic children and families who got sidelined by your sharp elbows. But it seems that your motivation is being able to brag about your child's accomplishments rather than actually helping them grow. |
| Based on reading this, the only accommodation that people seem up in arms about is the extra time. For those of you who are against it, are you against for all students or is it that you feel that too many have been granted the accommodation? |
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And while we're at it, why don't we get rid of disabled parking, ramps, and other aids to disabled people. Let's go back to the good old days when those people were kept at the bottom of the pack, where they belong. Make America Fail Again. |
| Holding my kid back does not make your kid any better. |
How is this different from any other kid? |
| Out of curiosity, how are all these scribes, readers, extra time supervisors, individual rooms etc paid for? |
+1000 |
Too many have been granted the accommodation and it is due to wealthy parents gaming the system. The kids who are cheating the system - they know they are gaming the system are getting higher scores that make them competitive for scholarships and better schools. Just level the playing field - give everyone the extra time. The extra time given can range from an extra 30 minutes to 2 hours...like previous poster said, if my kid can get the extra time to double check their work, they could score an 800 also. |