How many men have you slept with?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Around 20, maybe 25. I married at 29 then divorced. I suspect a lot of women are afraid to admit their real number, but it's whatever. As long as you have a clean bill of health, I feel it's irrelevant.

It's certainly relevant on the sluttiness scale.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Im an attractive woman (let's say a solid 8) who has slept with about 35 men. (I mention attractiveness only because someone above suggested that only ugly women have high numbers lol).

Met my DH at 26.

I just love sex, today and in the past. I value monogamy and my DH is amazing, but I had a good time before I met him and I don't regret it whatsoever.

Contrary to the popular stereotype, I also didn't "settle" for my DH after a bunch of random sex with non-committal guys.

DH was simply the first person I met who I was insanely attracted to AND wanted to spend the rest of my life with.

you'll be cheating within a year. Leopards don't change spots.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Around 20, maybe 25. I married at 29 then divorced. I suspect a lot of women are afraid to admit their real number, but it's whatever. As long as you have a clean bill of health, I feel it's irrelevant.

It's certainly relevant on the sluttiness scale.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:40 something. Met husband at age 27. Had about a dozen since I met him. We don't believe in monogamy as a condition of marriage.

So whats the point of being married and raising a family with kids who meet new moms and dads in your open marriage?

They don't meet my partners.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:somewhere between 30 and 35. Met DH when I was 36, monogamous since. Love DH, but sometimes I miss how much damn fun I had in between about 28 and 35.

does your husband know you miss all those random cocks inside you?

[Anonymous]

My number would be really high if I had said yes to all those guys I said 'no' to. Still doubt they would have been worth my while.

[Anonymous]

44 men. 56 yo now. Married for the last 18 years. Mist of my conquests happened when I worked in Foggy Bottom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:somewhere between 30 and 35. Met DH when I was 36, monogamous since. Love DH, but sometimes I miss how much damn fun I had in between about 28 and 35.

does your husband know you miss all those random cocks inside you?

Probably not. (NP here). Does that irk you? Does it bother you that women have these sexual memories and you probably don't measure up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:44 men. 56 yo now. Married for the last 18 years. Mist of my conquests happened when I worked in Foggy Bottom.

Hot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:somewhere between 30 and 35. Met DH when I was 36, monogamous since. Love DH, but sometimes I miss how much damn fun I had in between about 28 and 35.

does your husband know you miss all those random cocks inside you?

Probably not. (NP here). Does that irk you? Does it bother you that women have these sexual memories and you probably don't measure up?

Why should sexuality be a contest where people are judged? A good number of people have sexual issues and adding pressure to perform doesn't make it easier.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ashamed to say, about 50. I was a big slut in college. Married my DH at age 26.

You're not marriage material

completely disagree ... slut shaming her because she enjoyed sex and telling her she is trash? grow up - I bet she is hotter than you!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:somewhere between 30 and 35. Met DH when I was 36, monogamous since. Love DH, but sometimes I miss how much damn fun I had in between about 28 and 35.

does your husband know you miss all those random cocks inside you?

Probably not. (NP here). Does that irk you? Does it bother you that women have these sexual memories and you probably don't measure up?

Why should sexuality be a contest where people are judged? A good number of people have sexual issues and adding pressure to perform doesn't make it easier.

NP, the first PP seems to be the only person here with an issue, and instead of owning up to it he tries to throw it on to women who are doing just fine.

[Anonymous]

Once you reach double digits how do you remember the exact number? 27, 35, 44???? Do you put a notch on your bedpost? Load the data into your smartphone? Just curious! I've only had five and saved the best until last. Variety is the spice of life and my DH mixes things up quite energetically and without toys!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Once you reach double digits how do you remember the exact number? 27, 35, 44???? Do you put a notch on your bedpost? Load the data into your smartphone? Just curious! I've only had five and saved the best until last. Variety is the spice of life and my DH mixes things up quite energetically and without toys!

No, Excel spreadsheets work better.

[Anonymous]

I'm 35. I've slept with close to 50 men. I had a list at once point, but don't know where it is now.

Lost virginity at 15 to summer fling, then slept around during high school and college. I was married from 26-31 and then divorced and have been remarried since I was 33. DH has been my only partner since my divorce. DH knows my approxinumber but isn't keen on talking about it. He says he's fine with the abstract idea of me having other partners but doesn't want to know details. He's had more partners than me and I similarly don't want to know the details.