ALSO (I'm the PP) - why is it only abortion that requires someone higher-up than a mere priest for absolution? Is that the absolute worse sin, according to the Vatican? Did the priests who raped children need to obtain absolution from a bishop? |
Yeah -- I never heard of this rule before now. I try to imagine a woman confessing her abortion to a parish priest and him telling here can't absolve her sin -- that she must appeal to the bishop. Seems unlikely. |
| No. You spared a life, if you think about it. The last thing the world needs is another unwanted child. |
| I think it depends on your view on God and your faith to begin with. If you're a nonbeliever and you've had an abortion do you really care if someone says you might go to hell? If you're a believer and have had an abortion I would think you're already living the rest of your life with a grave weight. So who knows. |
"Sorry, lady, that one's above my pay grade" |
Couldn't you make the same claim about her killing her newborn? It makes perfect sense for someone who believes abortion is murder to worry about going to hell for it. Not that I agree. |
Have you been to Alabama? |
Catholics believe aborted fetuses and infants who die before being baptized (so with original sin still on their soul) go to limbo.
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Not any more -- Limbo has been abolished. I don't know where all the souls already in limbo went to |
| Not if you sincerely ask for forgiveness. |
| This is like watching a bunch of kids discussing how to get on Santa's good side so that they'll get presents this Christmas. |
At least Santa lets you know at Christmas if your efforts worked. With Catholicism, you have to wait until you're dead. |
Try educating yourself.
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Hello Lapsed Catholic PP, just in case you go to church again, study up first because you are reciting the wrong creed. Catholics recite the Nicene Creed, and the words have changed a bit due to updated translations (keeping up with modern linguistic scholarship), the most recent was officially adopted in 2011 (IIRC): http://www.usccb.org/beliefs-and-teachings/what-we-believe/ The word Hell is not in the Nicene Creed. Don't worry if you get the words wrong through habit -- many people still do (funerals and weddings are kind of funny in this respect -- you can tell who doesn't go to church anymore). Here is an interesting NYT article on Catholicism and hell: http://www.nytimes.com/1999/09/18/arts/hell-getting-makeover-catholics-jesuits-call-it-painful-state-but-not-sulfurous.html?pagewanted=all . Thanks to art and Dante and Sunday school, hell has been long misunderstood by the Catholic layman. In truth, a lot of Catholics have a pretty poor understanding of Catholicism (I learn more every time I research a question). To the Church, God (the Trinity) is love (and not in the "I love you, Pookie Bear" sense). Hell is a human state of mind; it is "estrangement from God" which means estrangement from love by human choice. So, OP, my understanding is that to a Catholic, God cannot send you to hell; God is love. Hell is alienation from God, which is alienation from love by your own choice. Heaven is eternal union with God, which is eternal love. Sin is making a choice against love (a worthy topic of discussion unto itself, as in many situations jurisprudence and morality can be difficult to work through -- which I think would be a good definition of "purgatory" -- unable to see clear to the path of love). If you are "in hell" over your choice, you are creating your own hell through your fear that you are unworthy of love (aka God) because of your choice and actions. Maybe your faith can bring you out of the hell you have put yourself in. If you are Catholic, the Sacrament of Reconciliation is there to help you find your way back to love, to return to a state of love and grace (it is not magic, it is soul searching work). Either way, you need to find love within yourself again (and I'm sorry you are not getting much of it here -- DCUM is literally hell on Earth sometimes). |