Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I kind of really dislike African Americans. I am an immigrant and they have been very unkind to me. I especially dislike the men, who seem to be culturally predisposed to promiscuity, street harassment, abandoning their children. Even the more educated ones have a host of antisocial behaviors. I just don't get it.
Wow, as a law abiding, straight laced, non substance using, kind. Empathetic, bright, highly educated, well married, grounded, mother, loyal, proper African American woman--this belief is such a stereotype from my view. My black Eagle Scout, responsible, educated, kind husband is nothing like you describe.
I really try to not generalize to entire populations of people. This kind of thinking makes me hesitant (stressed) to reach out to you when my kid is at the pool for swim team and other such environments. I had a friend once who stayed out loud to me "I've always wanted to have a black friend." Can you even imagine how this might feel?