Husband checks out 20 yr olds

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Husband does this sneaky staring anytime he sees a 20 year old with lots of exposed skin. We’re mid 40s. I’ve brought it up many times and he denies it. It’s gotten to the point where I see the young women before he does, as I now know his type.

I don’t even know what my question is. It’s just gross and depressing.

Then it's your duty to point them out to him like my wife does. All men look. Get over it or join in the fun.

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I may get flamed for saying this but the majority of men WILL definitely gawk at an attractive young girl…especially one who bears skin.

It is just a man thing I suppose.

While it would bother me too OP, there is really not much that you can do regarding this situation.
You cannot control what your husband chooses to look at unfortunately.

Plus your hubby will just keep denying looking since that is also what men who do stuff like that do.
Actually people in general but that is another topic altogether!

[Anonymous]

Men who have respect for their partners don’t do this. This site is so insane.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men who have respect for their partners don’t do this. This site is so insane.

Most men don’t gawk, it’s unlikely OPs husband does either.

PP’s husband definitely looks. She just derives so much smug superiority from being ignorant of it. He’s doing it correctly.

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Anonymous wrote:Men who have respect for their partners don’t do this. This site is so insane.

I'm sorry that your husband is ace/gay.

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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.

We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures

Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.

Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.

Most of that watched is by middle aged men. Young men do not want a mom with a whole lot of baggage who is most likely frumpy and not attractive.

Research shows milf/stepmom porn is largely viewed by 25-45 year olds. Not younger men.

What research? 25 is still fairly young, no?

Not the young 20’s that many on here are referencing. A 20 year old boy doesn’t want to sleep with his older middle aged neighbor.

Guess you forgot about Stacy’s mom? Maybe YOU don’t like that genre, but plenty of others do. Your denial of societal trends because they don’t fit your narrow view is bizarre.

Clearly you don’t know what Stacy’s mom even is. Stacy’s mom was a song about a pedo older in a towel in front of a minor child. There was nothing appropriate about the song. The kid was like 12. Creep.

lol! You have no idea what you’re talking about. This is the origin:

“Its subject matter was inspired by a friend of Schlesinger's when he was young who was attracted to Schlesinger's grandmother. “

Even worse for you - that kid was into GILFs! 😂 now stop posting, you’re just making yourself look like an uneducated freak.

Ok creep. No one likes your old self. No 20 year old man will want you. Stop being delusional.

Why are you so triggered that some young men are into older women? It doesn’t affect you whatsoever, why the snowflake reaction?

He's triggered because this post didnt turn out like he wanted. He wants to see a bunch of middle aged women sobbing and crying that their husband is checking out younger women, promising to hand out BJs on demand just to keep their man and prevent him from running off with said gorgeous 20 somethings. When women provide a reality check that WE are the ones with more pull on the sexual marketplace, and even the frumpiest middle aged mom has wayyyyyy more sexual options than this guy could ever dream of, he becomes enraged. It shatters the porn delusion he's constructed in his mind where the gorgeous 20 year old is not only not repulsed, by actively turned on by the fat hairy middle aged guy twice her age, and that they have some kind of magical sexual connection that the mean, bitter wife is jealous of. The reminder that he's alone on his island of lust for a woman who isnt interested and finds him gross is a harsh one, especially when the wife DGAF and points out that she could cheat way easier than he could.

Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are the gatekeepers to marriage. A grumpy middle aged woman may get sex but she will have a hard time finding a good partner. Why do think there are some many 30+ year old childless and unmarried women.

A man leering or looking at a woman doesn’t mean his partner must give him bjs. It’s normal to notice attractive people.

Men have traditionally been gatekeepers to marriage but not anymore. Women are talking to other women and less and less women are interested, hence the much ballyhooed "male loneliness epidemic" that we're all supposed to wring our hands about. That's why women file for 70% of divorces and have no interest in remarrying after

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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.

We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures

Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.

Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.

Most of that watched is by middle aged men. Young men do not want a mom with a whole lot of baggage who is most likely frumpy and not attractive.

Research shows milf/stepmom porn is largely viewed by 25-45 year olds. Not younger men.

What research? 25 is still fairly young, no?

Not the young 20’s that many on here are referencing. A 20 year old boy doesn’t want to sleep with his older middle aged neighbor.

Guess you forgot about Stacy’s mom? Maybe YOU don’t like that genre, but plenty of others do. Your denial of societal trends because they don’t fit your narrow view is bizarre.

Clearly you don’t know what Stacy’s mom even is. Stacy’s mom was a song about a pedo older in a towel in front of a minor child. There was nothing appropriate about the song. The kid was like 12. Creep.

lol! You have no idea what you’re talking about. This is the origin:

“Its subject matter was inspired by a friend of Schlesinger's when he was young who was attracted to Schlesinger's grandmother. “

Even worse for you - that kid was into GILFs! 😂 now stop posting, you’re just making yourself look like an uneducated freak.

Ok creep. No one likes your old self. No 20 year old man will want you. Stop being delusional.

Why are you so triggered that some young men are into older women? It doesn’t affect you whatsoever, why the snowflake reaction?

He's triggered because this post didnt turn out like he wanted. He wants to see a bunch of middle aged women sobbing and crying that their husband is checking out younger women, promising to hand out BJs on demand just to keep their man and prevent him from running off with said gorgeous 20 somethings. When women provide a reality check that WE are the ones with more pull on the sexual marketplace, and even the frumpiest middle aged mom has wayyyyyy more sexual options than this guy could ever dream of, he becomes enraged. It shatters the porn delusion he's constructed in his mind where the gorgeous 20 year old is not only not repulsed, by actively turned on by the fat hairy middle aged guy twice her age, and that they have some kind of magical sexual connection that the mean, bitter wife is jealous of. The reminder that he's alone on his island of lust for a woman who isnt interested and finds him gross is a harsh one, especially when the wife DGAF and points out that she could cheat way easier than he could.

Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are the gatekeepers to marriage. A grumpy middle aged woman may get sex but she will have a hard time finding a good partner. Why do think there are some many 30+ year old childless and unmarried women.

A man leering or looking at a woman doesn’t mean his partner must give him bjs. It’s normal to notice attractive people.

Men have traditionally been gatekeepers to marriage but not anymore. Women are talking to other women and less and less women are interested, hence the much ballyhooed "male loneliness epidemic" that we're all supposed to wring our hands about. That's why women file for 70% of divorces and have no interest in remarrying after

Ok - try to get into a straight marriage without a man. Seems difficult.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Husband does this sneaky staring anytime he sees a 20 year old with lots of exposed skin. We’re mid 40s. I’ve brought it up many times and he denies it. It’s gotten to the point where I see the young women before he does, as I now know his type.

I don’t even know what my question is. It’s just gross and depressing.

Then it's your duty to point them out to him like my wife does. All men look. Get over it or join in the fun.

NP

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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.

We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures

Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.

Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.

Most of that watched is by middle aged men. Young men do not want a mom with a whole lot of baggage who is most likely frumpy and not attractive.

Research shows milf/stepmom porn is largely viewed by 25-45 year olds. Not younger men.

What research? 25 is still fairly young, no?

Not the young 20’s that many on here are referencing. A 20 year old boy doesn’t want to sleep with his older middle aged neighbor.

Guess you forgot about Stacy’s mom? Maybe YOU don’t like that genre, but plenty of others do. Your denial of societal trends because they don’t fit your narrow view is bizarre.

Clearly you don’t know what Stacy’s mom even is. Stacy’s mom was a song about a pedo older in a towel in front of a minor child. There was nothing appropriate about the song. The kid was like 12. Creep.

lol! You have no idea what you’re talking about. This is the origin:

“Its subject matter was inspired by a friend of Schlesinger's when he was young who was attracted to Schlesinger's grandmother. “

Even worse for you - that kid was into GILFs! 😂 now stop posting, you’re just making yourself look like an uneducated freak.

Ok creep. No one likes your old self. No 20 year old man will want you. Stop being delusional.

Why are you so triggered that some young men are into older women? It doesn’t affect you whatsoever, why the snowflake reaction?

He's triggered because this post didnt turn out like he wanted. He wants to see a bunch of middle aged women sobbing and crying that their husband is checking out younger women, promising to hand out BJs on demand just to keep their man and prevent him from running off with said gorgeous 20 somethings. When women provide a reality check that WE are the ones with more pull on the sexual marketplace, and even the frumpiest middle aged mom has wayyyyyy more sexual options than this guy could ever dream of, he becomes enraged. It shatters the porn delusion he's constructed in his mind where the gorgeous 20 year old is not only not repulsed, by actively turned on by the fat hairy middle aged guy twice her age, and that they have some kind of magical sexual connection that the mean, bitter wife is jealous of. The reminder that he's alone on his island of lust for a woman who isnt interested and finds him gross is a harsh one, especially when the wife DGAF and points out that she could cheat way easier than he could.

Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are the gatekeepers to marriage. A grumpy middle aged woman may get sex but she will have a hard time finding a good partner. Why do think there are some many 30+ year old childless and unmarried women.

A man leering or looking at a woman doesn’t mean his partner must give him bjs. It’s normal to notice attractive people.

Men have traditionally been gatekeepers to marriage but not anymore. Women are talking to other women and less and less women are interested, hence the much ballyhooed "male loneliness epidemic" that we're all supposed to wring our hands about. That's why women file for 70% of divorces and have no interest in remarrying after

Ok - try to get into a straight marriage without a man. Seems difficult.

Just because men no longer hold the power doesnt mean marriage isnt happening. Just the power has shifted, as we have to hear men whining about every day on here

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men who have respect for their partners don’t do this. This site is so insane.

Exactly. Men who have even the slightest modicum of respect for their partner and self control dont look or stare. But given the fact that the men who flock to a mom forum to argue with women are not exactly the prize of the bunch, it wont be the ones you find on here.

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Anonymous wrote:Men who have respect for their partners don’t do this. This site is so insane.

Exactly. Men who have even the slightest modicum of respect for their partner and self control dont look or stare. But given the fact that the men who flock to a mom forum to argue with women are not exactly the prize of the bunch, it wont be the ones you find on here.

What about women? Do they look? There’s a whole thread about this. Seems they do. Perhaps women who post here aren’t the prize of the bunch either?

Also, what made this a mom forum? Be specific.

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Anonymous wrote:Men who have respect for their partners don’t do this. This site is so insane.

Exactly. Men who have even the slightest modicum of respect for their partner and self control dont look or stare. But given the fact that the men who flock to a mom forum to argue with women are not exactly the prize of the bunch, it wont be the ones you find on here.

What about women? Do they look? There’s a whole thread about this. Seems they do. Perhaps women who post here aren’t the prize of the bunch either?

Also, what made this a mom forum? Be specific.

Women, by and large, have the social awareness not to stare the way men do. And what dont you understand about the acronym "DCUM"? Any clue what that stands for, buddy?

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Anonymous wrote:Men who have respect for their partners don’t do this. This site is so insane.

Exactly. Men who have even the slightest modicum of respect for their partner and self control dont look or stare. But given the fact that the men who flock to a mom forum to argue with women are not exactly the prize of the bunch, it wont be the ones you find on here.

What about women? Do they look? There’s a whole thread about this. Seems they do. Perhaps women who post here aren’t the prize of the bunch either?

Also, what made this a mom forum? Be specific.

Women, by and large, have the social awareness not to stare the way men do. And what dont you understand about the acronym "DCUM"? Any clue what that stands for, buddy?

I direct your attention to the very top of the page. Glad I could help you with your confusion.

You should read this so-called mom’s forum more if you think women are the model of maturity and social awareness. Including a thread on this very section that is active right now where women are getting sexually aroused by just being in the presence of a man they find attractive.

Imagine if a man spoke about some woman who isn’t his wife giving him a big boner? Weird stuff.

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Anonymous wrote:Men who have respect for their partners don’t do this. This site is so insane.

Exactly. Men who have even the slightest modicum of respect for their partner and self control dont look or stare. But given the fact that the men who flock to a mom forum to argue with women are not exactly the prize of the bunch, it wont be the ones you find on here.

What about women? Do they look? There’s a whole thread about this. Seems they do. Perhaps women who post here aren’t the prize of the bunch either?

Also, what made this a mom forum? Be specific.

Women, by and large, have the social awareness not to stare the way men do. And what dont you understand about the acronym "DCUM"? Any clue what that stands for, buddy?

I direct your attention to the very top of the page. Glad I could help you with your confusion.

You should read this so-called mom’s forum more if you think women are the model of maturity and social awareness. Including a thread on this very section that is active right now where women are getting sexually aroused by just being in the presence of a man they find attractive.

Imagine if a man spoke about some woman who isn’t his wife giving him a big boner? Weird stuff.

A tagged on "and dads" in very small font to appease the men who invade women's spaces and then make a stink of it doesnt change the fact that this was founded as and always has been a mommy forum. Glad I could help with your "confusion" (even though you know damn well this is a mom space)

Being excited by being in the presence of someone is not the same staring at them, and the fact that you dont realize that simply proves my point about the men in this forum being emotionally fragile and socially inept. What's not clicking?

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Anonymous wrote:Men who have respect for their partners don’t do this. This site is so insane.

Exactly. Men who have even the slightest modicum of respect for their partner and self control dont look or stare. But given the fact that the men who flock to a mom forum to argue with women are not exactly the prize of the bunch, it wont be the ones you find on here.

What about women? Do they look? There’s a whole thread about this. Seems they do. Perhaps women who post here aren’t the prize of the bunch either?

Also, what made this a mom forum? Be specific.

Women, by and large, have the social awareness not to stare the way men do. And what dont you understand about the acronym "DCUM"? Any clue what that stands for, buddy?

I direct your attention to the very top of the page. Glad I could help you with your confusion.

You should read this so-called mom’s forum more if you think women are the model of maturity and social awareness. Including a thread on this very section that is active right now where women are getting sexually aroused by just being in the presence of a man they find attractive.

Imagine if a man spoke about some woman who isn’t his wife giving him a big boner? Weird stuff.

A tagged on "and dads" in very small font to appease the men who invade women's spaces and then make a stink of it doesnt change the fact that this was founded as and always has been a mommy forum. Glad I could help with your "confusion" (even though you know damn well this is a mom space)

Being excited by being in the presence of someone is not the same staring at them, and the fact that you dont realize that simply proves my point about the men in this forum being emotionally fragile and socially inept. What's not clicking?

Ok time to go back to your summer womens studies classes at GW now. You’re on the fringes of society.

DCUM is a “woman’s space”

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