Is anyone following the story of the missing mother of 3?

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Anonymous wrote:Poor woman. Her life must have been a nightmare with this monster. May she rest in peace.

This is just terrible. So many women killed by their husbands or domestic partners. Why don’t they just divorce them? Their poor children. It’s so tragic. The woman in PA is also missing and has a son.

That's often what creates the most risk of homicide... the wife trying to leave the marriage. It's the most dangerous time for a woman.

+1. I actually think that's what got Ana killed. She bought the new house in DC, new job, she made all the money, and her friends have reported that she had the kids bedrooms all set up in DC. She told him she was taking the kids to DC with her when he eventually reported to prison as they both knew he would.

+1. I think this is exactly what happened.

So sad to think that she stayed just one day too long and now her kids are motherless.

And effectively fatherless too. They are orphans with an older, infirm grandma on one side (who raised a murderer) and their mom's side live out of the country. So so sad.

I would not say "out of the country, " per say.

I mean, the sister lives in Canada which is the same or similar to Boston for all intensive purposes, just with different money.

Serbia. The poster referenced the grandmas, and one lives in Serbia.

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His dad was brilliant and very much admired it seems.

https://www.brighamandwomens.org/neurology/general-neurology/tribute-dr-walshe

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Anonymous wrote:Poor woman. Her life must have been a nightmare with this monster. May she rest in peace.

This is just terrible. So many women killed by their husbands or domestic partners. Why don’t they just divorce them? Their poor children. It’s so tragic. The woman in PA is also missing and has a son.

That's often what creates the most risk of homicide... the wife trying to leave the marriage. It's the most dangerous time for a woman.

+1. I actually think that's what got Ana killed. She bought the new house in DC, new job, she made all the money, and her friends have reported that she had the kids bedrooms all set up in DC. She told him she was taking the kids to DC with her when he eventually reported to prison as they both knew he would.

+1. I think this is exactly what happened.

So sad to think that she stayed just one day too long and now her kids are motherless.

And effectively fatherless too. They are orphans with an older, infirm grandma on one side (who raised a murderer) and their mom's side live out of the country. So so sad.

I would not say "out of the country, " per say.

I mean, the sister lives in Canada which is the same or similar to Boston for all intensive purposes, just with different money.

And for heaven’s sake, it’s “per se,” people!

She also screwed up “for all intents and purposes.”

That had already been pointed out.

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I am tired of men killing women who have rejected them.

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Anonymous wrote:BREAKING: Prosecutors say they found blood in the basement of the Cohasset home belonging to missing woman Ana Walshe, and that her husband purchased $450 worth of cleaning supplies the day after she was last seen.

https://twitter.com/LiamWBZ/status/1612472805693575168?s=20&t=eFDjSKjBPCGRqTYCLuLf9A

Cleaning supplies valued at $450 is a lot of cleaning supplies!!!

How in the heck did the police manage to find any blood after he used $450 worth of cleaning supplies?!?

I don’t think he had a lot of cleaning experience. He bought a mop and bucket, some cleaning products, drop clothes and tape. Mopping isnt an ideal way to clean up a murder. They also found a knife with blood on it in the basement. He doesn’t seem to have been very organized or thorough in his clean up efforts.

Yep much better to go with paper towels, lots and lots of them and lots of plastic bags to put them in. One white and toss in trash.

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Anonymous wrote:If you do a lot of remodeling or handy stuff you own drop cloths.

I had a heavy duty canvas painters tarp. I loved that thing.

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Anonymous wrote:Friends of the victim have come forward to request custody (or a variation thereof), but I have to check with (my friends) attorneys for the MA DCF system to see what the exact protocol might be.

Will have to look for the media source, from earlier today.

Unless she has a will that specifically states who will get guardianship of her children, the courts will most often defer to family members. Now, I don't believe that her husband's mother will be able to take care of the kids. From what I have read, she seems elderly and frail and in need of assistance herself. I'm not sure if he had siblings. Her family is in Serbia and it is difficult for non-us citizens to obtain custody. This will be lengthy process. My heart breaks for the kids. I hope they are getting psychological assistance while the police is searching for their Mom.

I understand that. My specific question is under what conditions, if any, can the living relatives designate.

It's been a while since I did this in Massachusetts, but my memory is that in Massachusetts, the children will be appointed attorneys that represent the best interests of the children. In a complicated case like this, the attorney will likely request appointment of therapists that can work with the children, and help assess potential caregivers (or will coordinate with whatever service providers DCF puts in place). If the children have any relationship with the mom's friends, and they seem like a good/stable option for the kids, I think any attorney representing their best interests would advocate for that placement. The grandmother I think has the right to be heard, but in thise circumstances, I don't think it will outweight the input of the DCF social worker and the best interest attorney. A placement in Canada would not be impossible, but would definitely be more complicated and might require severing of the father's parental rights and adoption by the aunt -- I'm not sure about that.

It's being reported two different close friends are going through the process for seeing temporary custody. Either way, all boys would be kept together, with home family and friends they know, which is so important.

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Anonymous wrote:I am tired of men killing women who have rejected them.

Same. Domestic violence is a real problem. The question is what to do about it.

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Anonymous wrote:Poor woman. Her life must have been a nightmare with this monster. May she rest in peace.

This is just terrible. So many women killed by their husbands or domestic partners. Why don’t they just divorce them? Their poor children. It’s so tragic. The woman in PA is also missing and has a son.

That's often what creates the most risk of homicide... the wife trying to leave the marriage. It's the most dangerous time for a woman.

+1. I actually think that's what got Ana killed. She bought the new house in DC, new job, she made all the money, and her friends have reported that she had the kids bedrooms all set up in DC. She told him she was taking the kids to DC with her when he eventually reported to prison as they both knew he would.

+1. I think this is exactly what happened.

So sad to think that she stayed just one day too long and now her kids are motherless.

And effectively fatherless too. They are orphans with an older, infirm grandma on one side (who raised a murderer) and their mom's side live out of the country. So so sad.

I would not say "out of the country, " per say.

I mean, the sister lives in Canada which is the same or similar to Boston for all intensive purposes, just with different money.

Serbia. The poster referenced the grandmas, and one lives in Serbia.

Canada. The woman’s sister lives in Canada. And Canada is essentially the same as the USA, just colder. Same culture and language anyway.

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Anonymous wrote:I am tired of men killing women who have rejected them.

So you believe she was having an affair. What evidence do you have?

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I am tired of men killing women who have rejected them.


So you believe she was having an affair. What evidence do you have?

This is a big leap. She can reject him because he’s a jerk - it does not mean she’s having an affair. Work on your critical reasoning skills.

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Anonymous wrote:Friends of the victim have come forward to request custody (or a variation thereof), but I have to check with (my friends) attorneys for the MA DCF system to see what the exact protocol might be.

Will have to look for the media source, from earlier today.

Unless she has a will that specifically states who will get guardianship of her children, the courts will most often defer to family members. Now, I don't believe that her husband's mother will be able to take care of the kids. From what I have read, she seems elderly and frail and in need of assistance herself. I'm not sure if he had siblings. Her family is in Serbia and it is difficult for non-us citizens to obtain custody. This will be lengthy process. My heart breaks for the kids. I hope they are getting psychological assistance while the police is searching for their Mom.

I understand that. My specific question is under what conditions, if any, can the living relatives designate.

It's been a while since I did this in Massachusetts, but my memory is that in Massachusetts, the children will be appointed attorneys that represent the best interests of the children. In a complicated case like this, the attorney will likely request appointment of therapists that can work with the children, and help assess potential caregivers (or will coordinate with whatever service providers DCF puts in place). If the children have any relationship with the mom's friends, and they seem like a good/stable option for the kids, I think any attorney representing their best interests would advocate for that placement. The grandmother I think has the right to be heard, but in thise circumstances, I don't think it will outweight the input of the DCF social worker and the best interest attorney. A placement in Canada would not be impossible, but would definitely be more complicated and might require severing of the father's parental rights and adoption by the aunt -- I'm not sure about that.

It's being reported two different close friends are going through the process for seeing temporary custody. Either way, all boys would be kept together, with home family and friends they know, which is so important.

That sounds like the best solution, under the circumstances. Hope the requests are processed expeditiously!

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Anonymous wrote:I am tired of men killing women who have rejected them.

How do you know she rejected him?

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Anonymous wrote:I am tired of men killing women who have rejected them.

How do you know she rejected him?

Yeah - this sounds like an assumption.

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Anonymous wrote:Wow! She is a looker.

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