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| Yes, that is correct, I left out the Yale admit from the list. Will post a corrected list when I post Langley stats, which I now have. |
Yes. Yale, Berkeley, Michigan, Stanford, USC, UCLA, Dartmouth, Wellesley, Penn… |
Would it be better to have straight As and take a mix of gen Ed, honors and AP vs taking all honors and getting a mix of As and Bs? The gpa May end up being the same but the mix of classes and grades could be different. I don’t want to push all APs on my child his junior year. |
DP. This is very well put and something that didn't even occur to me. My DC took very challenging courses, but wound up with a 3.89 - so no recognition or award. Several of DC's friends took the easier route you described and wound up with over 4.0 at graduation - and were labeled Honors graduates. Kind of sucks not to have DC's hard work acknowledged. Maybe DC should have just taken the easier classes too.
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Your DC probably had better college options but the adults really do need to do a better job of rewarding what they encourage instead of simple, lazy definitions. My DC was in the same situation. Same with “advanced” diplomas - it’s not recognized but a 4.0 in gen Ed is. I get that schools are afraid of all this but they literally tell kids to not fear failure but then only reward perfection. Hum. |
One of the most annoying things I've heard from college admissions counselors during more than one zoom seminar was their answer to this question. After all the conversation around kids not working themselves to death in order to have competitive applications the answer to "the A or the AP" was both. Take the AP AND get the A. Some of those people talk out of both sides of their mouths. |
+1 They all do this and I’m so tired of colleges saying “be you”, “find your interests”, “challenge yourself”, “don’t stress”, “care for your mental health”… then demand rigor and brag their avg freshman stats are 4.5 1500. Colleges are a big part of the problem with teenage anxiety and depression. But rankings, amirite? |
+1 you have to be aware that this will happen, sadly. The right path depends on the type of student. You need a lot of affirmation at home about internal gratification and choosing the path that.’s right for you and focusing on your own goals etc. |
The problem is not colleges, per se, but the rankings and parent/student hopes and dreams. Colleges need to be true to their rigor. Harvard SHOULD be hard to get into. However, if Harvard told kids below a certain GPA and SAT not to apply, they would miss a lot of URM, the less-academic, diamond-in-the-roughs, and their overall applications/selectivity ratio would fall. As for parents and students, they all want to believe that Junior is bright and that only the best lies ahead. Thus, both are apt to misjudge the reality of the situation and strive for something improbable. Of course, most of the time that means disillusionment on the backend. What you claim to want is for Harvard to tell you that the students they accept are really smart and innovative. Yes, those students do take a bunch of APs and get As in them. They also do other things well. There, I said it for you and them. |
Didn’t your kid get a .5 bump for honors and a 1 point bump for AP? What makes you think they would get over a 4 in gen ed? You are discounting those other kids accomplishments. |
Nope. Harvard never crossed my mind. |
Could you please post the Langley stats? Would appreciate. |
🙄 Enough already. The college your snowflake gets into is mainly determined by your snowflake, not which school he/she went to. You want Ivy or close, obviously. Take all APs in core subjects, take extra APs in the extra sciences etc., get A’s in them all, get mid 1500s+ SATs, do sustained ECs and write killer essays. Then if your aren’t URM or first gen or sports recruit or long double legacy then hope you’re just incredibly lucky. Your snowflake can do that at any school. (Or not.) if only some of this is in reach and those schools are what are only acceptable to you, then move to South Dakota and apply from there. |
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Stats? You mean GPA/test scores of kids? No one could possibly know this. Or did you mean college acceptances and the number of kids going to each school? Again, the list is incomplete because it's entirely self-reported. |