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Anonymous wrote:It's a horrible situation all around for those poor kids. Foster care would absolutely be best for all of them. I mean if David had primary custody of Marissa I'd hate to see what her mom is like!
Janelle will never put her kids above herself. She never has, and at this point it's not looking good. Her man of the moment will always come first.
She also has a knack for picking the worst men. I was worried that Chelsey would pick someone bad after how she pined for Adam, but Cole is good people!
The difference is Chelsea comes from a stable family structure herself -- dentist dad and stepmom seem solid; and her mom while she seems old fashioned and annoyed, still seems like a solid person. So while no, she wouldn't have listened to them if she found Adam Part II -- I think what she really longed for was a husband and family and the stability she had growing up. She wanted an insta-dad/family man so I think she steered clear of men like Adam, which is what led her to Cole, who seems like he was born to be a husband, father, provider.
Also Chelsea avoided having another child soon after. It seems like all the girls had subsequent children before they got their lives together. Handling one kid is do-able. 2 or 3 becomes a nightmare...especially when you are now taking into account 2 or 3 different fathers.
Chelsea was lucky, though. She was with Adam Part I for way too long and had at least one other pregnancy scare with him.
True. No mental illness or addiction. Solid family structure. And didn't have a 2nd kid at like age 17 or 18. Dad pushed her thru cosmetology school; IDK if she finished or not but I think her family has very much thinking of -- how is she going to support herself/this kid if she stays with Adam (who they knew would promptly leave even if they married) or a husband/provider didn't show up. And yeah she was with Adam for SO LONG because I really think she naively thought for a long time that she could make them into the family she wanted. When that didn't happen with kid 1 and he was cheating etc, then in her 17-18 yr old mind, 2 kids would mean that they'd marry and live as a happy family. Thankfully for her Adam had NO interest in sticking around, which is what even led her to someone else. Or she eventually would've had a 2nd or 3rd kid with Adam who'd float in and out of her life, prison, whatever. As solid as her family is, it's not like she would've listened to them if Adam wanted more kids and made promises. She just knew she had the safety net of dad - emotionally and financially - which Janelle, Kail, Brianna, Catelynn, Amber, etc. don't have.