I'm sorry you have to deal with that, as do the other students who are trying to learn. That really sucks. I really think those kids should be given a chance, but there should be a limit. At some point, like 16 or something, they should be put in alternative school after being given many chances. I don't think society should give up on them, but I agree, the others shouldn't have to deal with it for the whole school year. |
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taught in challenging high schools for the bulk of my career We've since moved out of Mo Co - and as far away from MCPS as possible! My kids love their schools. I'm done with the low expectations, disruptive behavior, and infringement upon my kids' right to learn. |
And you are still obsessed, interested and posting on MoCo thread. LOL |
I’m the PP you responded to. I teach elementary school and situations like I wrote above happen almost daily. If not daily, then a few times per week. Some kids have to be in the same classroom with these kids for more than a year because there are only so many combinations and permutations. It absolutely impacts their learning. If my kid was put in a class with a kid like this, I would demand that either my child be moved or the other kid be moved. When the rest of the kids have to leave the classroom and go into another one so they aren’t in danger when the kid starts having an episode where they are tearing up the classroom and throwing things, that’s when the line is drawn. I’m always expecting the phone calls and emails to pour in after such an episode but they don’t. I wish they did so admin and MCPS would be pressured to actually do something about it rather than just leave it up to the classroom teacher to handle. |
As a parent, that would upset me. If it happens a couple of times per year, I would let it go, but everyday? That is not fair to the rest of the kids. Are the other parents not aware or are they just afraid to be *that* parent that singles out a disruptive child who may/may not have SN? I don't think it serves anyone, least of all that child, for admin to ignore the issues. How is not addressing that child's issue going to help that child learn and be a productive member of society? Terrible strategy. I feel badly for you PP, but thankful that we do have dedicated teachers out there who have to deal with this crap day in and day out, and probably have to deal with crazy parents to boot. |
t I actually have a student at Wheaton. They have a robotics lab and the robotics team kicks ass. The school is three years old and still looks very new. My child has never witnessed any destruction of school property and has only heard about one kid taking a chrome book home. I thought our rich "sister" school only donated money for the after prom. |
DP We're at a Focus school and crap like this happens every year. In every classroom. Truly. I volunteer on and off, and my kids are older so we hear about it in details. Even good teachers are in such a tough position because the kids learn early that they can get away with pretty terrible behavior. Our Focus school follows the PBIS system. So, they really don't want to implement any 'punitive' type measures. And, they want to keep the kids in the classroom. No suspensions. Really, no punishment, except that maybe the kid doesn't get a sticker at the end of the day. This year in 1st grade, we already had a kid who hit the teacher. Lots of kids who sprawl out on the floor and kick around, not paying attention. We've had so many issues on the playground, during recess - kids pushing other kids off, kids getting in fights. Admin can't or doesn't do much. It's a pretty terrible learning environment, IMO. |
If MCPS mixes kids from your school with kids from an ES in W school, the incidece per class will be reduced so more kids will get a better chance to learn. MCPS could adopt more split ES models as NCC ES and CCES, or TPES and PBES. |
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Were you around in hs 5 years ago? Pre-Wheaton program within Wheaton? It wasn’t pretty. Check out who funded the robotics lab 2-5 years ago. And what kids got major ssl hours going over there. |
Our W elementary school has just as many disruptive kids. Yes, classrooms have to evacuate multiple times per week. School says they are collecting data (they did the last year too). It's just hard to get those kids out of gen ed, and get them the help they need, especially when the parents are in complete denial. And this is in an overcrowded W school, with 26 kids in lower grades and 30 in upper.
MCPS has to figure out how to handle this quicker. In all schools. |
I'm the teacher PP. We're also a PBIS school. You bring up a good point that kids learn early on they can get way with terrible behavior, and the ones without severe behavioral issues also see the kids who act out in an extreme way don't face any consequences so they know they can push things pretty far without consequence. With PBIS, they also see these kids get rewarded pretty often for things everyone else is expected to do without any kind of reward, so then they learn not to do it unless they're rewarded. It's a domino effect. Admin faces extreme pressure from central office to not suspend, and I don't think suspension is always the answer, but I do think that parents of these students need to be inconvenienced to understand how big of an issue it is. Twenty something other children and various adults are far worse than inconvenienced but the parents don't have to take any responsibility. |
Administrator's hands are tied. I used to work in a Focus school and it was a disaster. I don't think parents realize how extreme the behaviors are in schools nowadays. I'm in my 30's and I know we all had that one classmate who was the clown in school. Now, the class clown is actually the class terrorist who is verbally abusive, cannot manage his/her emotions and will react violently to his/her peers and teacher. I know our administrators would try to get a kid suspended but the their community superintendent wouldn't allow it. After all, too many suspensions looks bad as a school system according to the state. Again, they have NO idea what kind of freak show is going on in classrooms across the county. The latest news is that students in grades K - 2 can no longer be suspended unless they have done something criminal. Awesome! |
Can I ask what you think is different? Are there more kids with these behavioral issues? Or were they in different classrooms instead of being mainstreamed before? |