At what age can a man no longer date a woman in her 30s or younger?

[Anonymous]

Some men are just good with women, they have the touch. My mom temporarily broke up with her long-term boyfriend when he was 74. He was an emeritus professor at his (mid-level) university, not rich, not highly paid, reasonably respected but far from famous. Within a few months he was dating a 28 year old who swore up and down she wanted to take care of him in his old age. I mean, she was really head over heels. He ditched the 28 year old when my mom (68 years old at the time) decided to get back with him. He had always been very good with women. I personally think that the guys I knew who cleaned up with women in college, etc. could easily find women 25-30+ years younger than them if they were single again, while guys who weren't ever that popular with women would have a tough time even if they were rich.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So I'm 65 divorced 6 years and have texting relationship with someone 30 for 3 years. We have a deep relationship via texting but are about to meet. Is there a possibility for long term here. Both Pisces.

Why?

[Anonymous]

When I was 38 I fell in love with a 54 year old. He is now 66 and I’m 50 and still have the hits for him. He’s not super wealthy but UMC and works for it. It’s about the way he communicates. And he is excellent in bed.

[Anonymous]

^hots

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I personally think that the guys I knew who cleaned up with women in college, etc. could easily find women 25-30+ years younger than them if they were single again, while guys who weren't ever that popular with women would have a tough time even if they were rich.

I find that hard to believe, but I can only speak to my own preferences. I wouldn't date a man more than 10 years older than me unless he were very rich, very good in bed and didn't have kids. I could see a few of my friends falling for a sugar daddy type situation when we were in our early to mid twenties, but not in our late twenties or later, as we're now established in our own careers and have enough experience with men to know who's good for us....

[Anonymous]

Depends how much Monet he has

[Anonymous]

Another poster with young parents (married right after college, had me at 22). I never saw men near my father's age as dateable, for two reason: First, my parents were/are very young looking for their age, and I couldn't date anyone who looks their age or older, and secondly, I don't really see how an in-law relationship would work out in those circumstances.

[Anonymous]

Dear God… I’m old at 48 and I still wouldn’t date anyone over 55. Six years plus or minus is usually my max. And has been all along. If I’m single again in my 60s then I’ll date someone in their 60s But otherwise, no way man.

Plus that half your age +7 bit has always been disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So I'm 65 divorced 6 years and have texting relationship with someone 30 for 3 years. We have a deep relationship via texting but are about to meet. Is there a possibility for long term here. Both Pisces.

Why?

LOL
Ok that was funny. PP is just joking. Probably from Nigeria, no doubt!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dear God… I’m old at 48 and I still wouldn’t date anyone over 55. Six years plus or minus is usually my max. And has been all along. If I’m single again in my 60s then I’ll date someone in their 60s But otherwise, no way man.

Plus that half your age +7 bit has always been disgusting.

Broke that rule right away, separated, 54, hostess 30 came on to me… sex for a few months, was nothing short of mind blowing.

24 yrs… spread, we are both the Horse on the Chinese menu!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 43, and don't date men above 52.

+ 1
Actually, I'm also 43, and I don't date men above my age. I don't have to, so why would I?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:casual dating or serious dating?

when I was 37 I dated a 53 year old. And he was not rich. Lovely guy, really handsome and sexy, but I ended it because the age difference was going to be too great going forward. I'd say late 40s/50. But who knows, my other ex, who is 52, puts on his match profile that he wont date anyone over 38. Or anyone who has been married before. He is a 52 year old guy who has never been married and is not rich, and wants to find a slim, educated, blue eyed, never married woman between 28 and 38.

OP here. I'm actually a woman in my early 30s and have an ex that is 50 who is very similar to what this PP described above except he makes a good salary even by dcum standards. I broke things off because of the age difference too. I also have a Match profile and get lots of messages from men in their 50s, so I was wondering if it was more common than I thought.

You don't need to go above 40. There is no need.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does not make sense to date a younger woman. However, young men should go for older women because the libidos of both parties match.

Yes it does. Baby-making.

A lot of men don't want babies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dear God… I’m old at 48 and I still wouldn’t date anyone over 55. Six years plus or minus is usually my max. And has been all along. If I’m single again in my 60s then I’ll date someone in their 60s But otherwise, no way man.

Plus that half your age +7 bit has always been disgusting.

I’m your age and I’m dating a guy who is 64. When we first met I thought he was in his early 50’s given he looks much younger than he is with a full head of hair and he is very fit. He’s retired so he has plenty of time for me which is very nice. Sex with him may be the best I’ve ever had which definitely helps. Long term the age difference may be more than I want to deal with but for the time being it’s not a problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 38, married, but am considering divorcing my Dh for a 51 year old man. He is also married and considering ending it with his wife for me.

He is not rich, by any means. We first met when I was 19 and he was 32, and were very attracted to each other, but never dated because we were both uncomfortable with the age difference.

This will be such a train wreck.