At what age can a man no longer date a woman in her 30s or younger?

[Anonymous]

I dont think i said anything about crow's feet. Thats more of a 35 plus thing. You got time.

It seems that women close to my age (which i am ok with dating) often have some bitterness. They double down on the ridiculous standards and long shopping lists. Women a few years younger like yourself are a bit less jaded. Dont forget your own comments about guys in their late 30s. Its a message board and people vent frustrations, nbd.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ok, what age are you that you prefer someone younger than mid 30s? Cause im not having much trouble finding dates.

30yo woman. Prefer to date 27-34, someone I could've attended HS with. I date older sometimes, but I prefer guys who wanted to settle down sooner in life. Single women 35+ usually are because there are so many men their ages who are still exhibiting frat boy like behavior and sleeping around, not the other way around. I'd rather the guy who was commitment minded alot sooner in life. I've primarily attracted younger men the past few years, particularly 2-3 years younger and I wish I'd been more open-minded sooner. I still date men ages 35-38, but I'd rather a divorced guy in that category. Someone who is just starting to think about settling down at that age is usually incompatible for me. Most of the married guys I know that I consider good guys closed the deal in their 20s and early 30s. I'm sure there are older guys who are fine too, but I usually find myself thinking "Yeah, no wonder he is still single" after dates with older, never married guys.

I don't doubt you're having few problems finding dates. There's a lid for every pot.

Nice spin. Single women 35 plus are still single because of the men? Um, no. Theyre single generally because they fucked up when they were most attractive. In college, they didnt get locked down. In grad school, they didnt get locked down. Theres a reason for that. Maybe they wanted to be sluts for badboys, maybe they were focused on "career", maybe theyre just not that attractive. But its probably that they werent "ready" to commit when lots of guys were interested.

In my case, i changed careers (for the better) at about 30. So i wasnt really looking for settling down until recently. Thats not all i'm looking for, but certainly open to it. And i am probably going to be more open to it than most guys in their late 20s. Plus i went to a combined junior/senior hs.

Every single desirable man that I knew since elementary school was married by 35.

Same here; several had been married twice.

[Anonymous]

Many couples who live long happy married lives together would not have be compatible or available to each other in their youth. It's really kind of silly to place any parameters on with whom or where we find love as adults.

[Anonymous]

during marriage some women only want to have babies.if this doesnt happen with their present spouse they will find a new partener who will provide them with the family they desire

[Anonymous]

In my twenties I stuck to men in their twenties.
I'm 33, and not really attracts to men outside if my age group. Not younger and certainly not older gann 38 or so. I look young for my age though.

I'm married, 2 kids and so not really looking.

My single girlfriends who are actually all obvious beautiful, and very successful and my age, prefer men in our age group, even when they meet men in their late thirties they are not that interested.

[Anonymous]

I am 29 my bf is almost 45. I am very happy

[Anonymous]

So I'm 65 divorced 6 years and have texting relationship with someone 30 for 3 years. We have a deep relationship via texting but are about to meet. Is there a possibility for long term here. Both Pisces.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 35 and would not go lower than 35 or older than 48 and not shorter than 6'1" or heavier than 190.

However that is me. I'm not the dating police so I say date who you want. Hugh Hefner is fine by me. He's gonna die happy.

HH is dead, and from what I've read, was not that happy in the end. Kinda sad, really. None of those girls loved him or wanted him.

[Anonymous]

See if I can remember my algebra. For this problem
1/2x + 7 = 39
1/2x = 32

x = 64.

[Anonymous]

I like old men. I married in my 20s to someone almost a decade older who wanted to settle down. But average 65 year old Joe isn’t going to bed 20 year olds. Rich old men will.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So I'm 65 divorced 6 years and have texting relationship with someone 30 for 3 years. We have a deep relationship via texting but are about to meet. Is there a possibility for long term here. Both Pisces.

Omg. A three year texting relationship is not a “deep relationship”.

You were probably a nice distraction for her but very few 30 year olds are going to be interested in a 65 year old.

[Anonymous]

I would say once you are 50, you should move on from women in their 30s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like old men. I married in my 20s to someone almost a decade older who wanted to settle down. But average 65 year old Joe isn’t going to bed 20 year olds. Rich old men will.

So you got married in your 20s to someone in their 30s, less the 10 yrs older. Big deal.

[Anonymous]

Over 40.

Looks bad over that. And sad.

[Anonymous]

I’m 38 and would date a 50 yr old maybe, but that is tops