Biggest red flags in dating

[Anonymous]

red flags for women - being broke, entitled that they don't want to pay for stuff, sneaky, liar, controlling, alcoholic, verbally abusive.

Men - misogynist, not polite, alcoholic, can't take care of his people if they are in need, abusive,

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Biggest red flag is dating a woman living in the DMV because more than half of them are mentally ill.

It’s been statistically proven.

But they tend to be better in bed if they're crazy, as long as they aren't taking meds that mess up their sex drive or ability to O.

Not sure if they would be better in bed. Lots of anti-depressants, and hormonal issues affect sex drive and ability to O.

[Anonymous]

Love bombing

Lots of selfies

"You're the best____of my life"

"You're my favorite person"

Lots of alcohol

Lots of social media

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Love bombing

Lots of selfies

"You're the best____of my life"

"You're my favorite person"

Lots of alcohol

Lots of social media

except alcohol, I see almost all the women from 20s to 40s doing it so that's not a red flag.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Pooping in the fridge

Man, I’d like to think this is a joke, but I did briefly date a guy once who, a week into dating, told me all the stories about how he pooped his pants. Then he started sending me reports on his poop - color, size, consistency, number of wipes, etc.

He was SO hot but this instantly killed all my attraction to him. Whyyyyy do people behave like this?!

Did he tell you that early in the relationship. He might have thought it was ok to tell you, but he probably should have waited, or not said anything. When he told you about it did, he say if it was on purpose or by accident

Uh yeah. he should have waited until hell froze over, as in, never.

I understand that reaction.

I admit that I have done this and one was during a date. We had been going out for a while, but I had begun to realise it wasn’t going to last. As we sat listening to a band playing at the night markets I slowly did it in my underwear. To my surprise she didn’t say anything at all and didn’t seem to realise. It took a few more times before she questioned me about it.


Some guys are into that sort of thing, like doing it intentionally without being discovered.

[Anonymous]

For both men and women - bad temper (#1), controlling, inflexible, on phone too much

[Anonymous]

Excess vanity and high maintenance in either gender.