Coming from the suburbs (living in DC for 15+ years now tho..). this still blows my mind. as a Florida burbs kid, we went to the same cluster, all of our friends. Elementary Middle HS. I assume it is like this around here in MD and VA of course. But DC.. I get it. Your kids have these elementary friends they grow up with and BAM. 5th grade they are in a brand new school (like a BASIS or a Latin). Start all over with faces they have never seen. I am aware that there are thousands of kids in DC that go to the same Elem, middle, and HS as their cluster and they stay public the entire time. I get that, too. I am merely commenting on the this comment above. |
Just accept at Sela - the bus is literally outside your house. They will have a MS feeder in the next two years. You will be fine. |
+1 In the end of the day, parents try to do what is best for their kids, but they also try to justify their decisions, even if it does result in a 'rose colored glasses' way of looking at things. As a former educator, I saw the impacts of kids who have to start and re-start at schools, both academically and socially. Also I see that at my children's school. Yes, we chose to keep our kids at their DCPS elementary and then middle, so I could be doing the same thing and justifying my choices, but I see the difference/impact between their peers who have moved around multiple schools, both in and out of their schools. |
I think people especially on DCUM drastically underestimate the importance of stability versus other factors. Friends and faces that know you (for the most part, there are rare exceptions) are really important especially in early years. Teachers and staff who see a kid and family can spot changes and when kids are more secure they learn better. Plus kids pick up on the idea that where they were was "wrong" and "bad" much more than adults realize. |
I also assumed the unnamed was Sela but what is the supposed feeder for them coming in two years? |
My twins are on the waitlist #4 and #8 for EW Stokes Brookland French immersion program 1st grade. Any view on the chances of having both of them in? Thank you! |
I think the long running rumor is they would build their own middle school. The idea of Sela (which we know families very happy there) is feeding into DCI is a pipe dream. |
Chances are good IMO! |
There is absolutely a cost to moving that needs to be part of the equation for parents... Constantly seeking the "best" option is going to be a mindf*** for the kids and parents. Every time something bad happens, you'll wonder if you made the right choice to move. That said, I did move my kids -- one to BASIS for 5th, and another mid elementary to a better school. The BASIS move was a complete non-issue. All the kids are new, they are coming from literally every Ward in the city, the school has camps and orientations that help the kids bond, the parents are all on a WhatsApp and organize their own events, the kids are grouped together in various ways and get to know each other, and there is just very little bullying at the school. It's not cliquey, for whatever reason. And almost everyone is coming with a handful of friendly faces from their old school. The mid-elementary move, was definitely trickier. there were various elements of the new school that were objectively better, and of the old school that were pushing us away. The new school was also very conscientious about incorporating my kid, setting him up with a "buddy" and giving him a lot of extra attention to make sure he was OK. We have no regrets about it, and maybe I'm just trying to justify the decision, but it feels like one of the best decisions I've made for him. He actually is learning a lot more, in a more peaceful environment. He is being more pushed to meet his potential. School choice is a very tricky thing to manage. It can make you feel like you need to optimize, and chasing the "best" option never ends. But sometimes, moving schools does work out. |
We're waitlisted at #5 for Walls for 10th grade. Any idea what our chances might be?
Wondering if all incoming sophomores are waitlisted until after May 1st, when students make their enrollment decisions... |
Can someone explain how for prek3 I got matched with a school as my #2 pick but others who put it as their #1 pick got waitlisted? |
I have an incredibly stupid question, but I can't figure it out. DC is WL #7 at Powell English dominant. I'm looking at the historical data- the total offers made by June, August, and then October.
Do these numbers include each other? For example, if the number is "4" for August and "4" for October, does that mean "8" between the two months? Or does the 4 carry over? for some schools these numbers are the same, and for others they are very different and now I'm confused. Thank you! |
I didn't even think of this - that is a good question. |
Because it doesn't matter to a school where you listed them, schools do not see your order. Only your lotter number determines your spot, so you got a better number than your friends. You need to watch MyschoolDC youtube videos to get a better understanding of how the lottery works. |
It is cumulative. That is why you never see a lower number in a later month. |