My kid isn’t getting outside help—no tutor. Unlike you, I don’t care if other kids in his class are being tutored to “look smart” or that their parents just want them to learn the material. Makes no difference to me! |
Exactly this. When MCPS offered the tutoring we took advantage of it as we didn't want our child falling behind or struggling due to the teaching style. Now in pre-cal the teacher is using a textbook and its making all the difference between the teaching style and book. |
MCPS offered it for free for the past two years. If you choose not to use it, that's on you. |
It is no longer offered. That was Covid only. |
How is this relevant to THIS year? |
This. This is why I can make a living as a very expensive tutor for both private and public school students. There is an amazing quantity of crap teachers - on many occasions I have encountered teachers actively teaching wrong answers to students! Only once has such a teacher been actively removed from the classroom (but not fired). Or there are teachers who cannot explain the why of material or offer alternate valid explanations. Add to that the growing movement of schools who have thrown away textbooks and who promote group classwork without any teacher guidance or summary as a superior form of “instruction” because “data show” that kids who “struggle” with the material learn better. Somehow schools have come to believe that NOT teaching and hoping the kids come up with a derivation or solution on their own is a superior form of teaching. And then, particularly in public school another layer is the refusal to identify and accommodate learners with learning disabilities or other neurological differences like ADHD. I regularly encounter - in my HS students - kids whose parents have previously raised concerns with the school and asked for assessment, 504s or IEPs, and have been (illegally) turned down or given subpar incomplete assessment. Often, these kids are extremely bright and have been able to compensate until demands become overwhelming in HS. One of my student’s parents broke down in tears when her child was identified as dyslexic in 11th grade. She had asked the school for years about her daughter’s learning struggles and was constantly told that her daughter was fine and just of average intelligence and was working to the best of her ability. I know there are a group of you who believe that these kids with learning disabilities or ADHD don’t deserve to be in advanced classes because they somehow drag down the class, but I’d ask you to think about what we as a society lose when we don’t give bright neurodivergent kids access to higher level instruction. They are, IME, equally as smart as neurotypical kids and often have out-of-the-box ways of thinking about things that benefit all in the classroom. |
We can all wish things were equal in terms of money but there are lots of ways kids get outside help without paying money. Many of our parent friends are scientists, engineers and programmers and at a dinner we had recently they were talking about how much time they are spending helping their kid with math. Hours each day. Hours! This was in relation to complaining about how poor the curriculum and teaching is at our children's schools. Am I supposed to feel angry or like life is unfair because I work in a non-science, non-math field and my ability to help my kids ended with elementary math? |
You lost me at hours each day 1. Parents, especially science/medical parents don't have hours every day to sit down and tutor one of how many children they have 2. Students don't have hours of free time after school to study one subject 3. Even if this is the case, none of these kids spending "hours" a day so I am gusting 20+ hours minimum a week on ONE subject - should really be in that subject, now should they? |
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It's getting crazy. Kids who by all reasonable metrics are not ready for APUSH in 9th grade are pushing to join because "that's what smart kids do".
The lack of pre-AP standardized assessments in social studies is no doubt part of the problem. In math, kids know what they know and don't know relatively clearly. |
| Kids who want to get into competitive colleges need to. With grade inflation and test optional, colleges are relying heavily on course selection. |
Spot on. Also to the tutor above, I have an ADHD kid with at 504 plan. He is very smart but struggles with executive function. I did not put him in APUSH as a freshman due what I heard was the workload. He learned plenty in his Honors US History class and did not require a tutor to help him with all the assignments like I saw with many other kids. In fact maybe he learned more . Of course everyone is welcome to do what they want but I think many parents are looking ahead and thinking that their kids need to be in every single hard class to get into a "top" college. My kid will not be gunning for these schools most likely and that is OK. |
It’s completely fine as long as the student isn’t applying to competitive colleges. |
+1. The middle school curriculum in English and social studies is not challenging and not preparing kids to take AP classes in 9th grade. I'd argue that the lack of a strong English curriculum is probably the biggest challenge for kids trying to take apush or ap gov since they are reading and writing heavy. |
| I would be more concerned in understanding why she thinks kids in honors won't go to college. Is she even interested in having a deeper understanding of US history or is it a matter of image? |
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Here's a strategy to think about.
Some engineering colleges will only accept two AP courses for credit. APUSH and APGov normally are the two that satisfy the base History credit. Why not: 9/10-AP Gov and H WH 11/12-AP USH By 11th grade, the student is more mature and capable of handling higher reading workloads. If you're worried the student doesn't like History that much, you can ask to push APUSH to 12th grade, where the student's workload is most likely lower so it doesn't count against GPA when applying to colleges. Anyone see issues with this? |