what is with parents serving alcohol at parties for kids who are 15 and 16?

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I don’t think parents are actively serving teens alcohol.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think parents are actively serving teens alcohol.

You are living in fantasy land. There are multiple people here saying otherwise. I believe them.

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Anonymous wrote:Private schools tend to draw a more cosmopolitan, international crowd that understands there’s nothing wrong with teenagers drinking like they do abroad.

What part of it being illegal tracks to your "nothing wrong"?

The part that recognizes also knows 9 states ban sodomy, 29 states ban same sex marriage. Don’t start about abortion. The federal drinking age was set in 1984 to 21. You can still be drafted to fight for your country at 18 and drive in many places at 16.

Teenagers shouldn’t be binge drinking. Parents shouldn’t serve alcohol to minors with parents who have a zero tolerance policy. But we’ve hired college interns who needed help getting into corporate happy hours. The law as written does not make sense in every application.

Lots of hoops your jumping through to justify dangerous illegal behavior.

Found the parent that drives under the speed limit

What's wrong with driving the speed limit?

Crickets from all those going over 25mph on Wisconsin, Connecticut and through Rock Creek Parkway https://twitter.com/RockCreekNPS/status/1617235652633923585

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Anonymous wrote:Private schools tend to draw a more cosmopolitan, international crowd that understands there’s nothing wrong with teenagers drinking like they do abroad.

What part of it being illegal tracks to your "nothing wrong"?

The part that recognizes also knows 9 states ban sodomy, 29 states ban same sex marriage. Don’t start about abortion. The federal drinking age was set in 1984 to 21. You can still be drafted to fight for your country at 18 and drive in many places at 16.

Teenagers shouldn’t be binge drinking. Parents shouldn’t serve alcohol to minors with parents who have a zero tolerance policy. But we’ve hired college interns who needed help getting into corporate happy hours. The law as written does not make sense in every application.

Lots of hoops your jumping through to justify dangerous illegal behavior.

Found the parent that drives under the speed limit

I can't believe I found a person who doesn't realize that there's a big difference between driving 5 milds over the speed limit and giving alcohol to minors at a party. Someone so clueless must have pretty bad judgment in life.

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Anonymous wrote:Private schools tend to draw a more cosmopolitan, international crowd that understands there’s nothing wrong with teenagers drinking like they do abroad.

What part of it being illegal tracks to your "nothing wrong"?

The part that recognizes also knows 9 states ban sodomy, 29 states ban same sex marriage. Don’t start about abortion. The federal drinking age was set in 1984 to 21. You can still be drafted to fight for your country at 18 and drive in many places at 16.

Teenagers shouldn’t be binge drinking. Parents shouldn’t serve alcohol to minors with parents who have a zero tolerance policy. But we’ve hired college interns who needed help getting into corporate happy hours. The law as written does not make sense in every application.

Lots of hoops your jumping through to justify dangerous illegal behavior.

Found the parent that drives under the speed limit

I can't believe I found a person who doesn't realize that there's a big difference between driving 5 milds over the speed limit and giving alcohol to minors at a party. Someone so clueless must have pretty bad judgment in life.

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Oh so you think they’re going 30mph instead of 25?

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Anonymous wrote:Private schools tend to draw a more cosmopolitan, international crowd that understands there’s nothing wrong with teenagers drinking like they do abroad.

What part of it being illegal tracks to your "nothing wrong"?

The part that recognizes also knows 9 states ban sodomy, 29 states ban same sex marriage. Don’t start about abortion. The federal drinking age was set in 1984 to 21. You can still be drafted to fight for your country at 18 and drive in many places at 16.

Teenagers shouldn’t be binge drinking. Parents shouldn’t serve alcohol to minors with parents who have a zero tolerance policy. But we’ve hired college interns who needed help getting into corporate happy hours. The law as written does not make sense in every application.

Lots of hoops your jumping through to justify dangerous illegal behavior.

Found the parent that drives under the speed limit

I can't believe I found a person who doesn't realize that there's a big difference between driving 5 milds over the speed limit and giving alcohol to minors at a party. Someone so clueless must have pretty bad judgment in life.

So you get to pick which laws apply to you and which don’t? So you are like the people who serve alcohol to minors at parties and then let drive?

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Anonymous wrote:Private schools tend to draw a more cosmopolitan, international crowd that understands there’s nothing wrong with teenagers drinking like they do abroad.

What part of it being illegal tracks to your "nothing wrong"?

The part that recognizes also knows 9 states ban sodomy, 29 states ban same sex marriage. Don’t start about abortion. The federal drinking age was set in 1984 to 21. You can still be drafted to fight for your country at 18 and drive in many places at 16.

Teenagers shouldn’t be binge drinking. Parents shouldn’t serve alcohol to minors with parents who have a zero tolerance policy. But we’ve hired college interns who needed help getting into corporate happy hours. The law as written does not make sense in every application.

Lots of hoops your jumping through to justify dangerous illegal behavior.

Found the parent that drives under the speed limit

I can't believe I found a person who doesn't realize that there's a big difference between driving 5 milds over the speed limit and giving alcohol to minors at a party. Someone so clueless must have pretty bad judgment in life.

So you get to pick which laws apply to you and which don’t? So you are like the people who serve alcohol to minors at parties and then let drive?

Most people can distinguish the severity between different infractions. A jaywalker and an arsonist aren’t in the same ballpark.

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Anonymous wrote:Private schools tend to draw a more cosmopolitan, international crowd that understands there’s nothing wrong with teenagers drinking like they do abroad.

What part of it being illegal tracks to your "nothing wrong"?

The part that recognizes also knows 9 states ban sodomy, 29 states ban same sex marriage. Don’t start about abortion. The federal drinking age was set in 1984 to 21. You can still be drafted to fight for your country at 18 and drive in many places at 16.

Teenagers shouldn’t be binge drinking. Parents shouldn’t serve alcohol to minors with parents who have a zero tolerance policy. But we’ve hired college interns who needed help getting into corporate happy hours. The law as written does not make sense in every application.

Lots of hoops your jumping through to justify dangerous illegal behavior.

Found the parent that drives under the speed limit

I can't believe I found a person who doesn't realize that there's a big difference between driving 5 milds over the speed limit and giving alcohol to minors at a party. Someone so clueless must have pretty bad judgment in life.

So you get to pick which laws apply to you and which don’t? So you are like the people who serve alcohol to minors at parties and then let drive?

I'm sure glad the law distinguishes between jaywalking vs. driving a couple of miles over the speed limit vs. drunk driving vs. aggravated murder. Pssst...Most reasonable people can tell the difference too.

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I'm glad my kids' parents aren't idiots. I would happily call the police on parents doing this.

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Anonymous wrote:Private schools tend to draw a more cosmopolitan, international crowd that understands there’s nothing wrong with teenagers drinking like they do abroad.

What part of it being illegal tracks to your "nothing wrong"?

The part that recognizes also knows 9 states ban sodomy, 29 states ban same sex marriage. Don’t start about abortion. The federal drinking age was set in 1984 to 21. You can still be drafted to fight for your country at 18 and drive in many places at 16.

Teenagers shouldn’t be binge drinking. Parents shouldn’t serve alcohol to minors with parents who have a zero tolerance policy. But we’ve hired college interns who needed help getting into corporate happy hours. The law as written does not make sense in every application.

Lots of hoops your jumping through to justify dangerous illegal behavior.

Found the parent that drives under the speed limit

I can't believe I found a person who doesn't realize that there's a big difference between driving 5 milds over the speed limit and giving alcohol to minors at a party. Someone so clueless must have pretty bad judgment in life.

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Oh so you think they’re going 30mph instead of 25?

What even is your point? I am serious that I can't even tell. Do you think people should be dragged to jail for driving 1mph over 25? Or do you think that if a parent drives 28mph in a 25mph zone, then that parent has no right to criticize other parents who give booze and pot to teens?

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DP. I think people happily justify giving alcohol to minors and the letting them drive by pointing to all the people who drive two miles over the speed limit.

“See, they aren’t doing anyone any harm by going 28 in a 25. It’s just a seltzer and she’s just driving a few blocks home.”

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Anonymous wrote:I'm glad my kids' parents aren't idiots. I would happily call the police on parents doing this.

+100

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I’m French, I love here and while my French side thinks it’s crazy, the bottom line is it’s illegal to serve alcohol to teens here. I wouldn’t want a lawsuit. Another major difference is that French 16 year olds don’t drive…but bottom line is it’s illegal HERE.

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I can’t believe people aren’t talking more about the liability! I don’t think it’s okay for other parents to make this decision for my child. I assume my kid will drink in high school and I hope she’ll exercise good judgement, I think it’s many levels of crazy to allow it to happen in your own home though…. My 9th grader was just at her first party with alcohol (parents upstairs, clueless? Pretending not to know?). I’m not calling the cops on them, but I’m definitely judging them to be crappy parents.

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Be careful to avoid the trope about European attitudes about alcohol. It’s not like Europeans are more sophisticated about it or something. Binge drinking and problem drinking are huge problems in many places in Europe.

You cannot even make a comparison between drinking in Europe vs. the US . I grew up in a Mediterranean country and the whole attitude towards alcohol is completely different than here . In my home country , people mostly enjoy 1-2 drinks of alcohol at a social gathering to relax and loosen up a bit . Most of the time , alcohol is consumed with food and enjoyed during long meals with family and friends. I had my first glass of wine with my parents at a family gathering when I was 15. Because alcohol was never forbidden , we never sought to drink in secret or binge drink. We partied a lot in college and I had the best time of my life but I never saw anyone get drunk or pass out.

In the US , it seems to me that kids drink just to get drunk and pass out. I was shocked when I came here and saw how much drinking there is at fraternity parties. I’m not saying there is no binge drinking going on in Europe but it’s not nearly to the extent it is here, at least from my experience.

Comparing drinking habits of teens in the US to those abroad is like comparing apples to oranges.