Came here to say exactly this. Thank you, PP! |
You seem to be unfamiliar with parenting. You have no business lecturing parents while at the same time the school system is failing their kids. This may come as a surprise to you, we are the tax payers and are desperate to get out of a terrible education system that is keeping our kids hostage. If you are rich you can buy your way into a private, or in a rich public school neighborhood. If you are poor, your kid is screwed. |
Aren’t you filled with righteous indignation? Yes, it is shameful that kids reading three grades ahead are put in the same class with kids barely sounding out words. And it is a tragedy, because this setup will not help either of them, on the contrary it will hurt both. How did you decide that my child’s needs are mild?!! What does that even mean? And you have the nerve to talk about disgusting and shameful. Sped kids are not entitled to any kind of inclusion you personally come up with. We don’t decide they are entitled to a seat in an AP class and have an aid work with them on the side on the basics. You seem to have your facts wrong, I am giving the government money, not the other way around! Every time I pay my taxes. I want a decent education in return for my child. If the school can’t deliver on it, they should get out of the way, and let another school do it. |
I'm "poor" but I manage to send my kid to a private school. So many people claim that just don't have the money for private school but yet they waste ridiculous amounts of money on pricey cars (and gas), multiple vacations, expensive sports and camps, etc. They have the money. They just have different priorities. |
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And yet we still have the reality that teachers and other school staff are leaving in droves. This means students who are still in public schools, whether their parents want them there or not, whether their parents wish vouchers were going to happen or not, will keep losing out. Just like patients in hospitals are losing out due to a severe nursing shortage, which is becoming worse, because dumb ass people won't get vaccinated, won't vaccinate their children, refuse to wear masks and generally let their own stupidity wreak havoc on other people like they don't have a care in the world.
I know that most people feel like the needs of their own children come before our collective responsibility to the greater social good. I personally don't hold that worldview. But you do you. I guess as long as your family gets what it believes it is entitled to, that's all that matters. |
So you didn’t leave your child in the public school, and you lecture parents that want to do the same, but don’t have the means? Well, they must have the means because you’ve checked their car (and gas). If only everyone was as financially responsible as you are, we could fix our education system. |
How exactly have you personally put the greater social good above the needs of your own children? This is empty virtue signaling at the highest degree. Of course talk is cheap in reality you’ve done absolutely nothing, but feel entitled to shame other parents. As if you should just send your kid to a school where 20% of kids achieve grade level proficiency, otherwise you’re selfish. Oh, the greater social good, it’s funny how it lines up with the political agenda and talking points of the party you sympathize with! Nobody is checking if the greater social good is actually greater bs, we just have to take your word for it. How about the greater social good is the sum of goods of all individuals and we let them decide on their own what that is. |
Yep! So many people in our area are “house poor.” Just different priorities. |
If you are in NoVA approximately $5000 of your taxes goes to schools…calm down. It’s not that much. |
Some, which means a very small percentage. |
+1, if it’s even that much. Doesn't the funding come mainly from real estate taxes? |
Yes, I sent my own children to a low income, low performing K-8 and high school. They both are in college on full ride scholarships. One had an SAT of 1550 and the other 1580. Low performing schools do not harm smart, hard working students. I also put the greater social good above my own needs. I teach in one of those schools instead of all the other offers I had in public schools in wealthy areas. I also spend a few thousand dollars out of my own pocket to ensure other people's children get what they need in my classroom, including tutoring any student of mine who wants it over the summer for free. What are you doing to ensure our society succeeds? |
You have no idea what you are talking about. Federal education law dictates that the child DOES have the right to full inclusion. Are you completely unfamiliar with IDEA? Why are you talking about something that you don’t understand? Your child does not have the right to a segregated high achieving class. They all have the right to exposure to the grade level curriculum. If you feel that your child would benefit from being sheltered from reality and diversity, you can pay for that privilege. |
Welcome to the internet, where everyone is Mother Theresa, and their children are geniuses. When you say “Low performing schools do not harm smart, hard working students” are you implying that the vast majority of the rest of the students are lazy and dumb, unlike your kids? There are many studies that show low performing schools harm good students, you are 100% bs-ing. How could they not if you’re trying to teach pre algebra and half the students haven’t mastered even fractions yet? On top of that you deal with chronic absentees, behavioral issues, sometimes violence, but do not despair, you just need to work hard. Praise lord for your free summer tutoring, never heard of that in real life where teachers charge $100/h, but I’m glad I found that one selfless teacher in this thread. Your fake claims are embarrassing. Even more embarrassing is you belief that volunteering for a cause or donating some money means you are putting the society’s needs above your own. God, you sound so annoyingly pretentious! Guess what, many people volunteer and donate, you’re not that special. |
My child would most definitely benefit from being sheltered from poorly performing schools. I’m going to suggest this: you send your kid to that school where education means “exposure to grade level curriculum”. Where is the accountability if all you need to do is provide exposure? You are either silly or dishonest here trying to hide behind the federal regulations. The schools are a disaster because feds made us do it. The point about sped is just to illustrate an example of poor choices that result in a school environment that is not conducive to learning. My child has the right to a good learning environment the rich take for granted. If the public school can’t provide it, I should have the option to take that public support to the institution of my choice. |