| Whether he acted like a 9 yr old or a 25 yr old or a dutiful son or whatever, can you imagine the mother!? She must be beside herself that DH's stupid hobby took her son. |
Makes sense. |
They are reckless is what they are. Almost always men with insecurities and inflated egos. |
| I hope they learn from this and Titanic will become more open to the masses as space will become. |
I’d sooner divorce or even kidnap my kid than allow my DH do this. Never ever in a million years. Honestly, what a sh&tty father. |
I feel for the families. But yeah, a 48 year old has potentially another 50 years of life, even the oldest man was 77 years young. Sadly, you can die at any age. These men were robbed of life, they made one bad decision, like many people do, and that’s it, show’s over. |
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If the Twitter report at 18:26 is true (that they were trying to release ballast at the time comms were lost) they probably imploded because they were descending too fast. Per the expert quoted in this article, descending too fast can cause excess stress on the vehicle. You try to descend in a controlled manner is so that everything in the vehicle has the ability to acclimate to the increased pressure.
https://www.wfla.com/news/national/rescuers-make-a-last-desperate-push-as-final-hours-of-oxygen-on-the-missing-titanic-sub-tick-down/ |
They weren't robbed; they made a choice (minus the kid). Robbed is being murdered, killed by a drunk driver, plane crash etc. Signing a waiver that notes "death" in it four times is a choice. |
My DH was going to fly in a small private plane and I threatened to leave him. That would be it for me. No way would I allow my kid to go, no matter what age, I’d be long gone. I’d make it really clear that I disapproved. They may eventually choose to make poor decisions and that’s something I have to deal with. |
Plus given that subs are never made of carbon fiber, no one knows how material fatigue played in here. This sub had made dives before and then also been grounded because there were safety concerns which were apparently "fixed." Something gets stuck, they descend too fast, the material isn't as strong anymore as it's supposed to be because it's deteriorated microscopically in prior dives, and the material can't withstand the pressure. |
But it has been done before and people survived, they didn’t believe they would be the ones to implode. |
How do you know what kind of pressure his dad put on him? People on DCUM regularly talk about withholding college tuition payment or cutting off the cell phone if their college age kids don't do whatever it is their parents want or stop doing something, it's extremely common for parents to use their money and power to control college age kids even if the kids are technically adults. |
I get it. This didn't happen TO THEM. They did it - they chose to go down there in a carbon fiber mini van after signing waivers noting death. So yeah terrible decision. But just because someone makes terrible decisions doesn't mean they deserve to die. |
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The 19-year-old passenger "wasn't very up for it" and felt "terrified" about the trip to explore the Titanic wreckage, his aunt said.
He ended up going because he was eager to please his dad, who was passionate about the lore of the ship, she said. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/world/titanic-submersible-shahwood-suleman-family-tragedy-rcna90678 |