61% of single women in America are not looking to get into a new relationship compared to 38% of men

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:If you are married you are not really looking though right?
SO yeah. Married people are happy, but should you become 'unmarried' you are more likely wanting to get remarried if you are a man.

There is a reason for that.


I think it's more likely more women will choose to just not have kids than run to the sperm bank at the first opportunity.


You'd be surprised.
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/08/business/sperm-donors-facebook-groups.html
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My question to all these women complaint about their bfs/husbands and their shortcomings, if you have boys how are you raising them? Can you confidently say they won't be like your DH? I assume they won't be because you seem to know the unique solution to this equation and you are certainly raising your son to one day be the husband to another woman than you wish you had...



I tell my daughter she should only marry a man if he’s extraordinary, and boys that they’ll only have a chance to marry if they’re extraordinary. No reason to lie about their real world chances.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are married you are not really looking though right?
SO yeah. Married people are happy, but should you become 'unmarried' you are more likely wanting to get remarried if you are a man.

There is a reason for that.


I think it's more likely more women will choose to just not have kids than run to the sperm bank at the first opportunity.


You'd be surprised.
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/08/business/sperm-donors-facebook-groups.html


Does it say that they are single women?

The trend is actually more are going childless than SMBC.

Virtually 100% of the decline in U.S. fertility is driven by the falling TFPR, meaning that rising childlessness is the entire cause of falling U.S. fertility

Childlessness is rising in America, a rise that is unlikely to halt in the near future since rates of first birth are falling and rates of singleness are rising. Those falling first birth rates are due to a combination of rising singleness and declining nonmarital fertility

https://ifstudies.org/blog/1-in-4-projecting-childlessness-among-todays-young-women#:~:text=Childlessness%20is%20rising%20in%20America,singleness%20and%20declining%20nonmarital%20fertility.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are married you are not really looking though right?
SO yeah. Married people are happy, but should you become 'unmarried' you are more likely wanting to get remarried if you are a man.

There is a reason for that.


I think it's more likely more women will choose to just not have kids than run to the sperm bank at the first opportunity.


You'd be surprised.
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/08/business/sperm-donors-facebook-groups.html


Does it say that they are single women?

The trend is actually more are going childless than SMBC.

Virtually 100% of the decline in U.S. fertility is driven by the falling TFPR, meaning that rising childlessness is the entire cause of falling U.S. fertility

Childlessness is rising in America, a rise that is unlikely to halt in the near future since rates of first birth are falling and rates of singleness are rising. Those falling first birth rates are due to a combination of rising singleness and declining nonmarital fertility

https://ifstudies.org/blog/1-in-4-projecting-childlessness-among-todays-young-women#:~:text=Childlessness%20is%20rising%20in%20America,singleness%20and%20declining%20nonmarital%20fertility.


Hard to find exact figures, but yes indeed it does seem there is a huge spike in single women choosing to go to sperm donors since 2015
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-01-07/women-choosing-to-have-children-on-their-own-private-donations/101791620
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My question to all these women complaint about their bfs/husbands and their shortcomings, if you have boys how are you raising them? Can you confidently say they won't be like your DH? I assume they won't be because you seem to know the unique solution to this equation and you are certainly raising your son to one day be the husband to another woman than you wish you had...


Good question. Women have no clue what they want I am serious. DS is currently dating and you should see the things DW is saying about his GF that she dislikes so much. That tells you everything you want to know lol.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My question to all these women complaint about their bfs/husbands and their shortcomings, if you have boys how are you raising them? Can you confidently say they won't be like your DH? I assume they won't be because you seem to know the unique solution to this equation and you are certainly raising your son to one day be the husband to another woman than you wish you had...


Yes I can confidently say that I am. How, you ask?

I divorced their alcoholic rage dad and have 80% custody. The kids see clearly where his choices got him.

To the poster who said it’s like a vacation when her husband goes away- yes. It was like losing a 4th AND 5th child and so much easier to single parent.

I’m in the group who won’t marry again. With financial independence what woman would legally bind herself to a man?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are married you are not really looking though right?
SO yeah. Married people are happy, but should you become 'unmarried' you are more likely wanting to get remarried if you are a man.

There is a reason for that.


I think it's more likely more women will choose to just not have kids than run to the sperm bank at the first opportunity.


You'd be surprised.
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/08/business/sperm-donors-facebook-groups.html


Does it say that they are single women?

The trend is actually more are going childless than SMBC.

Virtually 100% of the decline in U.S. fertility is driven by the falling TFPR, meaning that rising childlessness is the entire cause of falling U.S. fertility

Childlessness is rising in America, a rise that is unlikely to halt in the near future since rates of first birth are falling and rates of singleness are rising. Those falling first birth rates are due to a combination of rising singleness and declining nonmarital fertility

https://ifstudies.org/blog/1-in-4-projecting-childlessness-among-todays-young-women#:~:text=Childlessness%20is%20rising%20in%20America,singleness%20and%20declining%20nonmarital%20fertility.


Hard to find exact figures, but yes indeed it does seem there is a huge spike in single women choosing to go to sperm donors since 2015
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-01-07/women-choosing-to-have-children-on-their-own-private-donations/101791620


Hugh spike is relative. But clearly it's not enough to offset the rising childless by choice trend.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are married you are not really looking though right?
SO yeah. Married people are happy, but should you become 'unmarried' you are more likely wanting to get remarried if you are a man.

There is a reason for that.


I think it's more likely more women will choose to just not have kids than run to the sperm bank at the first opportunity.


You'd be surprised.
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/08/business/sperm-donors-facebook-groups.html


Does it say that they are single women?

The trend is actually more are going childless than SMBC.

Virtually 100% of the decline in U.S. fertility is driven by the falling TFPR, meaning that rising childlessness is the entire cause of falling U.S. fertility

Childlessness is rising in America, a rise that is unlikely to halt in the near future since rates of first birth are falling and rates of singleness are rising. Those falling first birth rates are due to a combination of rising singleness and declining nonmarital fertility

https://ifstudies.org/blog/1-in-4-projecting-childlessness-among-todays-young-women#:~:text=Childlessness%20is%20rising%20in%20America,singleness%20and%20declining%20nonmarital%20fertility.


Hard to find exact figures, but yes indeed it does seem there is a huge spike in single women choosing to go to sperm donors since 2015
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-01-07/women-choosing-to-have-children-on-their-own-private-donations/101791620


Hugh spike is relative. But clearly it's not enough to offset the rising childless by choice trend.


15% is a pretty big increase. But anyway, I'd suspect women who want kids will go the sperm donor route (sperm is incredibly cheap) and those who dont want kids wont have them. Pretty simple.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are married you are not really looking though right?
SO yeah. Married people are happy, but should you become 'unmarried' you are more likely wanting to get remarried if you are a man.

There is a reason for that.


I think it's more likely more women will choose to just not have kids than run to the sperm bank at the first opportunity.


You'd be surprised.
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/08/business/sperm-donors-facebook-groups.html


Does it say that they are single women?

The trend is actually more are going childless than SMBC.

Virtually 100% of the decline in U.S. fertility is driven by the falling TFPR, meaning that rising childlessness is the entire cause of falling U.S. fertility

Childlessness is rising in America, a rise that is unlikely to halt in the near future since rates of first birth are falling and rates of singleness are rising. Those falling first birth rates are due to a combination of rising singleness and declining nonmarital fertility

https://ifstudies.org/blog/1-in-4-projecting-childlessness-among-todays-young-women#:~:text=Childlessness%20is%20rising%20in%20America,singleness%20and%20declining%20nonmarital%20fertility.


Hard to find exact figures, but yes indeed it does seem there is a huge spike in single women choosing to go to sperm donors since 2015
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-01-07/women-choosing-to-have-children-on-their-own-private-donations/101791620


Hugh spike is relative. But clearly it's not enough to offset the rising childless by choice trend.


15% is a pretty big increase. But anyway, I'd suspect women who want kids will go the sperm donor route (sperm is incredibly cheap) and those who dont want kids wont have them. Pretty simple.


Again, it's relative. You're just going to keep ignoring facts and pushing this weird agenda that all women are rushing to the sperm bank instead of just forgoing kids all together which is why fertility is declining.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are married you are not really looking though right?
SO yeah. Married people are happy, but should you become 'unmarried' you are more likely wanting to get remarried if you are a man.

There is a reason for that.


I think it's more likely more women will choose to just not have kids than run to the sperm bank at the first opportunity.


You'd be surprised.
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/08/business/sperm-donors-facebook-groups.html


Does it say that they are single women?

The trend is actually more are going childless than SMBC.

Virtually 100% of the decline in U.S. fertility is driven by the falling TFPR, meaning that rising childlessness is the entire cause of falling U.S. fertility

Childlessness is rising in America, a rise that is unlikely to halt in the near future since rates of first birth are falling and rates of singleness are rising. Those falling first birth rates are due to a combination of rising singleness and declining nonmarital fertility

https://ifstudies.org/blog/1-in-4-projecting-childlessness-among-todays-young-women#:~:text=Childlessness%20is%20rising%20in%20America,singleness%20and%20declining%20nonmarital%20fertility.


Hard to find exact figures, but yes indeed it does seem there is a huge spike in single women choosing to go to sperm donors since 2015
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-01-07/women-choosing-to-have-children-on-their-own-private-donations/101791620


Hugh spike is relative. But clearly it's not enough to offset the rising childless by choice trend.


15% is a pretty big increase. But anyway, I'd suspect women who want kids will go the sperm donor route (sperm is incredibly cheap) and those who dont want kids wont have them. Pretty simple.


Again, it's relative. You're just going to keep ignoring facts and pushing this weird agenda that all women are rushing to the sperm bank instead of just forgoing kids all together which is why fertility is declining.


Women are doing both, how does that affect the OP?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are married you are not really looking though right?
SO yeah. Married people are happy, but should you become 'unmarried' you are more likely wanting to get remarried if you are a man.

There is a reason for that.


I think it's more likely more women will choose to just not have kids than run to the sperm bank at the first opportunity.


You'd be surprised.
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/08/business/sperm-donors-facebook-groups.html


Does it say that they are single women?

The trend is actually more are going childless than SMBC.

Virtually 100% of the decline in U.S. fertility is driven by the falling TFPR, meaning that rising childlessness is the entire cause of falling U.S. fertility

Childlessness is rising in America, a rise that is unlikely to halt in the near future since rates of first birth are falling and rates of singleness are rising. Those falling first birth rates are due to a combination of rising singleness and declining nonmarital fertility

https://ifstudies.org/blog/1-in-4-projecting-childlessness-among-todays-young-women#:~:text=Childlessness%20is%20rising%20in%20America,singleness%20and%20declining%20nonmarital%20fertility.


Hard to find exact figures, but yes indeed it does seem there is a huge spike in single women choosing to go to sperm donors since 2015
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-01-07/women-choosing-to-have-children-on-their-own-private-donations/101791620


Hugh spike is relative. But clearly it's not enough to offset the rising childless by choice trend.


15% is a pretty big increase. But anyway, I'd suspect women who want kids will go the sperm donor route (sperm is incredibly cheap) and those who dont want kids wont have them. Pretty simple.


Again, it's relative. You're just going to keep ignoring facts and pushing this weird agenda that all women are rushing to the sperm bank instead of just forgoing kids all together which is why fertility is declining.


Women are doing both, how does that affect the OP?


I have no idea, ask the PP who has been going on and on about how women are just going to have their own children when the point of the OP is women don't want a relationship. Nothing was mentioned about kids at all.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are married you are not really looking though right?
SO yeah. Married people are happy, but should you become 'unmarried' you are more likely wanting to get remarried if you are a man.

There is a reason for that.


I think it's more likely more women will choose to just not have kids than run to the sperm bank at the first opportunity.


You'd be surprised.
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/08/business/sperm-donors-facebook-groups.html


Does it say that they are single women?

The trend is actually more are going childless than SMBC.

Virtually 100% of the decline in U.S. fertility is driven by the falling TFPR, meaning that rising childlessness is the entire cause of falling U.S. fertility

Childlessness is rising in America, a rise that is unlikely to halt in the near future since rates of first birth are falling and rates of singleness are rising. Those falling first birth rates are due to a combination of rising singleness and declining nonmarital fertility

https://ifstudies.org/blog/1-in-4-projecting-childlessness-among-todays-young-women#:~:text=Childlessness%20is%20rising%20in%20America,singleness%20and%20declining%20nonmarital%20fertility.


Hard to find exact figures, but yes indeed it does seem there is a huge spike in single women choosing to go to sperm donors since 2015
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-01-07/women-choosing-to-have-children-on-their-own-private-donations/101791620


Hugh spike is relative. But clearly it's not enough to offset the rising childless by choice trend.


15% is a pretty big increase. But anyway, I'd suspect women who want kids will go the sperm donor route (sperm is incredibly cheap) and those who dont want kids wont have them. Pretty simple.


Again, it's relative. You're just going to keep ignoring facts and pushing this weird agenda that all women are rushing to the sperm bank instead of just forgoing kids all together which is why fertility is declining.


Women are doing both, how does that affect the OP?


I have no idea, ask the PP who has been going on and on about how women are just going to have their own children when the point of the OP is women don't want a relationship. Nothing was mentioned about kids at all.


Well it certainly does affect women's willingness to be in a relationship. Given that sperm is pretty much the only thing that men bring to the relationship nowadays, the fact that it's easily and cheaply obtained by any woman who wants a child probably contributes to the rising lack of interest in marriage from women.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are married you are not really looking though right?
SO yeah. Married people are happy, but should you become 'unmarried' you are more likely wanting to get remarried if you are a man.

There is a reason for that.


I think it's more likely more women will choose to just not have kids than run to the sperm bank at the first opportunity.


You'd be surprised.
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/08/business/sperm-donors-facebook-groups.html


Does it say that they are single women?

The trend is actually more are going childless than SMBC.

Virtually 100% of the decline in U.S. fertility is driven by the falling TFPR, meaning that rising childlessness is the entire cause of falling U.S. fertility

Childlessness is rising in America, a rise that is unlikely to halt in the near future since rates of first birth are falling and rates of singleness are rising. Those falling first birth rates are due to a combination of rising singleness and declining nonmarital fertility

https://ifstudies.org/blog/1-in-4-projecting-childlessness-among-todays-young-women#:~:text=Childlessness%20is%20rising%20in%20America,singleness%20and%20declining%20nonmarital%20fertility.


Hard to find exact figures, but yes indeed it does seem there is a huge spike in single women choosing to go to sperm donors since 2015
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-01-07/women-choosing-to-have-children-on-their-own-private-donations/101791620


Hugh spike is relative. But clearly it's not enough to offset the rising childless by choice trend.


15% is a pretty big increase. But anyway, I'd suspect women who want kids will go the sperm donor route (sperm is incredibly cheap) and those who dont want kids wont have them. Pretty simple.


Again, it's relative. You're just going to keep ignoring facts and pushing this weird agenda that all women are rushing to the sperm bank instead of just forgoing kids all together which is why fertility is declining.


Women are doing both, how does that affect the OP?


I have no idea, ask the PP who has been going on and on about how women are just going to have their own children when the point of the OP is women don't want a relationship. Nothing was mentioned about kids at all.


Well it certainly does affect women's willingness to be in a relationship. Given that sperm is pretty much the only thing that men bring to the relationship nowadays, the fact that it's easily and cheaply obtained by any woman who wants a child probably contributes to the rising lack of interest in marriage from women.


Again ignoring the rise of childlessness. You’re just doing your own thing here.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are married you are not really looking though right?
SO yeah. Married people are happy, but should you become 'unmarried' you are more likely wanting to get remarried if you are a man.

There is a reason for that.


I think it's more likely more women will choose to just not have kids than run to the sperm bank at the first opportunity.


You'd be surprised.
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/08/business/sperm-donors-facebook-groups.html


Does it say that they are single women?

The trend is actually more are going childless than SMBC.

Virtually 100% of the decline in U.S. fertility is driven by the falling TFPR, meaning that rising childlessness is the entire cause of falling U.S. fertility

Childlessness is rising in America, a rise that is unlikely to halt in the near future since rates of first birth are falling and rates of singleness are rising. Those falling first birth rates are due to a combination of rising singleness and declining nonmarital fertility

https://ifstudies.org/blog/1-in-4-projecting-childlessness-among-todays-young-women#:~:text=Childlessness%20is%20rising%20in%20America,singleness%20and%20declining%20nonmarital%20fertility.


Hard to find exact figures, but yes indeed it does seem there is a huge spike in single women choosing to go to sperm donors since 2015
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-01-07/women-choosing-to-have-children-on-their-own-private-donations/101791620


Hugh spike is relative. But clearly it's not enough to offset the rising childless by choice trend.


15% is a pretty big increase. But anyway, I'd suspect women who want kids will go the sperm donor route (sperm is incredibly cheap) and those who dont want kids wont have them. Pretty simple.


Again, it's relative. You're just going to keep ignoring facts and pushing this weird agenda that all women are rushing to the sperm bank instead of just forgoing kids all together which is why fertility is declining.


Women are doing both, how does that affect the OP?


I have no idea, ask the PP who has been going on and on about how women are just going to have their own children when the point of the OP is women don't want a relationship. Nothing was mentioned about kids at all.


Well it certainly does affect women's willingness to be in a relationship. Given that sperm is pretty much the only thing that men bring to the relationship nowadays, the fact that it's easily and cheaply obtained by any woman who wants a child probably contributes to the rising lack of interest in marriage from women.


Again ignoring the rise of childlessness. You’re just doing your own thing here.



How is that ignoring it? Acknowledging other paths hardly changes the outcome.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Isn't a lot of it that men can marry younger and still father children?


Yeah I guess they could marry at age 12 and maybe successfully father a child….


No. That they can marry at 60 to a younger woman and father a child.
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