She primed herself with 4 shots of whiskey before her mother drove her and her sister to that college campus. Her mother thought she was fine. Her sister thought she was fine. The girl is/was a drinker. Hell, I partied in college and I still like alcohol. But could I drink 4 shots of whiskey and not show it? Never in a million years - especially around my mom and my sister. Demean her? She did that when she drank herself black out drunk and passed out in the dirty pine needles behind a gross dumpster. What Brock did to Emily was gross and wrong. But what Emily did to herself was gross and wrong too. The girl drank herself almost comatose. She was passed out cold and unresponsive for 3 hours! She was assaulted, photographed by the police, young men standing around her wondering what to do "Roll her on her side", finally picked up, transported - and she had no clue about any of it. She has no clue what she did or did not say to Brock or any other guy at that party. She can't remember because she blacked out. She blacked out because she had 3X the legal limit BAC. That is serious. That is life threatening. That is not - "Oops! My tolerance went down" tipsy. This girl drank A LOT. She could have choked on her own vomit. She could have died from exposure that night. Do not underestimate just how bad this could have been for her. She could be brain damaged or in a coma or dead. |
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-1 Emily Doe isn't looking for your respect. She providing a victim impact statement as she is entitled to deliver in a court of law. It's not a p.r. stunt, it's a victim impact statement. She's entitled to heal in her own way, not your way. She's entitled to use the assistance of a therapist, but fuck anyone who suggested she used a p.r. representative to deliver a victim impact statement. She's even entitled to drink herself into a coma. She would have harmed no one but herself. That post was dripping with judgment, make no mistake about it. Any time anyone says, "I'm not blaming the victim, BUT...." you're blaming the victim. And it's the pillar of anti-feminism to pit "your rape" against "someone else's rape" or experience or anything. |
the professor friend of the victim's family who is spearheading the campaign against the judge is also helping emily doe secure a book deal. i kid you not. |
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And what's wrong with a book deal? Should we silence victims? We've all read many great nonfiction books.
First they killed my father a recent read. I'm sure she didn't head behind the dumpster with a book deal in mind. Please stop victim blaming. Go Emily Doe! |
Or, you know, she could end up the victim of sexual assault. WTF is your point?! No, it's not a great idea to drink as much as she did. I don't think anyone else here would say otherwise. But the topic of this thread and this discussion is whether Brock Allen Turner is a dirtbag. He is a convicted felon and a creep. It doesn't matter if he assaulted a choir girl or a prostitute, he's still a criminal. That's all that matters. |
So, is your point here that she drank so much that it is just her own darn fault that she was assaulted by this young man? That she drank so much that lots of bad things could have happened to her so what's the big deal if some guy sexually assaulted her? That she drank so much that she essentially brought this on herself and it is not the fault of the man that assaulted her? |
Actually, Emily Doe's conduct and her own state of mind is very relevant. Brock is not in trouble because he jumped this woman, dragged her behind a dumpster and violently assaulted her. Brock is in trouble because Emily Doe passed out while they were fooling around and doesn't remember what she may or may not have consented to. And Brock is in trouble because two upstanding young men (the swedes) witnessed Brock 'dry humping' Emily after she was passed out. So much of this situation is directly related to her blacking out and passing out - not remembering. If Emily had not blacked out/passed out she and Brock would have likely fooled around, adjusted their clothes, walked away from each other and that would have been it. Typical frat party stuff. Hangovers. But Emily did pass out. And the accusation is that Brock should have known that she was about to pass out. I personally do not think that a kid like Brock had ever been around such a heavy drinker before. He didn't fully appreciate how drunk this woman was and he did not expect her to pass out suddenly like that. His judgement was clouded by inexperience and being drunk himself. You say that it doesn't matter what Emily was doing herself that night. You seem to believe that once she crossed over the line into black out drinking that she ceased to be responsible for her own actions. It doesn't matter if she walked behind those dumpsters with the intention of fooling around with Brock or not. But I disagree. It does matter. It matters a lot. |
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He claimed not to remember what happened. He only brought out the consensual fooling around story months later after he learned she didn't remember. Your devotion to his credibility given these circumstances, his history of being kicked out of a party for unwanted advances, and having been caught in the act is bizarre. |
Sorry, thread police, this thread has been about both Turner and Doe from page 1. |
I have not seen any evidence indicating that there was consent given by Emily, and in fact, have only read about physical evidence from the hospital exam to the contrary. She was barely coherent in a voice mail that she left which leads one to wonder how coherent she could have been about giving consent, or even capable of giving consent. Just because the defendant says something does not make it true. |
There is no evidence that Brock storm armed this girl or dragged her or jumped her. I have yet to hear the details of Brock being kicked out of a party for making unwanted advances - I agree that, depending on the details, that could indicate a significant pattern of behavior. I also have not read anything about his story changing either. |
What-you want me to come read it to you? It's a matter of public record. |