I really don't understand why you seem to think people don't spend time in bedrooms. Sure, if you have a small family and a big house, people can spread out in different living areas. But if you have a small house and a big family, people go to bedrooms. Didn't you ever have teenagers? Or did you just have a large house? I'm pretty sure Mike's brother is already living there. I thought there was another sibling, too, that was planning to move in. |
Most people don’t spend their entire day in their bedroom every day. You need room for a bed and a dresser or two, but it’s a sleeping and dressing space, not a living space. If the adults are planning to spend so much time in their bedrooms, what’s the point of even living together in this “one household” situation? They could be living in separate houses/apartments and see each other the same amount of time if the plan is for everyone to hang out in their individual bedrooms. Teenagers might study and do homework in their rooms, but they are also busy and involved in a lot of activities outside the house. So they actually don’t spend that much time in their rooms. |
You think the only reason people live in the same household is to spend nearly all of their waking hours together? Really? You can't think of any other reasons? I obviously don't know you. I don't know your current situation, or if you have or had a family. I don't know what kind of environment you grew up in. I don't know if you really believe what you're saying, if you're just trolling, or if your hatred of this addition is clouding your thoughts. In the end, it doesn't really matter. How you choose to live your life, or claim to live your life, isn't how other people have to live their lives. |
Did the garage foundation get upgraded? 1950s garage foundations were not engineered to support 3 floors of living space. |
For this addition? Absolutely. |
How do you know? Is there a link to a public document? |
Three out of the four exterior walls don't sit on the old foundation. The addition is bigger than what it replaced. I don't know what they had to do on the side next to the original house. |
| They definitely did something to the foundation, per neighbors |
What does this mean? |
The neighbors observed a new slab being poured. |
The footings were probably the issue. They might have been able to keep and extend the slab. |
So, they broke up and removed the garage foundation and then poured an entirely new slab? |
I grew up in a family with my grandparents living with us for several years- from the time when they could no longer be independent until they died. While they were still relatively healthy, my grandparents spent their time out in the common areas of the house. They never sat around in their bedroom all day. Families that combine several related nuclear families live together because they love each other and enjoy each other’s company. It’s not like they’re totally unrelated people renting bedrooms in a house where it would make sense for them to spend all their time separately in their own rooms, where it would make sense to have a bigger room because that’s where they’re actually living. That’s not the case here, where everyone is close family. They won’t be spending all their time in their rooms. They’re not strangers, they’re family. Families cook together, talk together, help kids with homework, maybe watch tv or listen to music. Why live in the same house together if the plan is to spend all their time in separate bedrooms, never interacting? |
No, I'm saying I suspect they avoided doing that. You can strengthen footers without removing the slab. It's also possible they just needed to strengthen a few specific points along the shared wall with the original house. They obviously needed to pour a new foundation in the areas that didn't have one before. |
You don't think the ability to combine finances and support each other's personal and familial needs is another reason people live together? Wow. |