Can we analyze jennifer lopez?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He’s visibly put on weight. Def bachelor bod. He’s moved out and is eating whatever the hell he wants late at night.

Hopefully, it’s just good weight and not alcohol bloat but the flushed face and mother and Garner keeping close watch aren’t good signs .

He seems to me like he is more worried about how the divorce would affect his reputation and work moving forward . He isn’t concerned with how it will affect her as an older woman who just made a love album for him . He’s cruel for this.

How is he cruel for not wanting to stay in a relationship that’s not working for him? I think the fact that she released that album and documentary and insists on being so public about their marriage is one of the reasons he’s not happy in the marriage.

He’s never happy long term. He’s as flawed as she is. She’s a striver looking for an a-lister partner to validate her, and he’s an addict looking for his next high.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They arrived separately for his son's graduation.

Isn't this just a "finished 6th grade" event. It's no big deal if they arrived separately. They're separated. JLo may have been bringing her kids because they're supporting their stepbrother.

Yes, I am sure the 12 year old boy is super attached to his jet setting stepmother of two years and the stepsiblings he probably rarely sees. More likely that Jlo is using the boy and her own kids into affleck family events where she knows theyll be papped to give the impression that they are “working things out” and “still a family” (whatever the latter means.)

Yes, I think it's just for her PR. Which is why he ignored her at this one.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They arrived separately for his son's graduation.

Isn't this just a "finished 6th grade" event. It's no big deal if they arrived separately. They're separated. JLo may have been bringing her kids because they're supporting their stepbrother.

Yes, I am sure the 12 year old boy is super attached to his jet setting stepmother of two years and the stepsiblings he probably rarely sees. More likely that Jlo is using the boy and her own kids into affleck family events where she knows theyll be papped to give the impression that they are “working things out” and “still a family” (whatever the latter means.)

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They arrived separately for his son's graduation.

Isn't this just a "finished 6th grade" event. It's no big deal if they arrived separately. They're separated. JLo may have been bringing her kids because they're supporting their stepbrother.

Yes, I am sure the 12 year old boy is super attached to his jet setting stepmother of two years and the stepsiblings he probably rarely sees. More likely that Jlo is using the boy and her own kids into affleck family events where she knows theyll be papped to give the impression that they are “working things out” and “still a family” (whatever the latter means.)

Yes, I think it's just for her PR. Which is why he ignored her at this one.

She also attended the party at his house though.
https://people.com/jennifer-lopez-jennifer-garner-visit-ben-affleck-rental-house-son-samuel-graduation-party-8662839

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They arrived separately for his son's graduation.

Isn't this just a "finished 6th grade" event. It's no big deal if they arrived separately. They're separated. JLo may have been bringing her kids because they're supporting their stepbrother.

Yes, I am sure the 12 year old boy is super attached to his jet setting stepmother of two years and the stepsiblings he probably rarely sees. More likely that Jlo is using the boy and her own kids into affleck family events where she knows theyll be papped to give the impression that they are “working things out” and “still a family” (whatever the latter means.)

Yes, I think it's just for her PR. Which is why he ignored her at this one.

She also attended the party at his house though.
https://people.com/jennifer-lopez-jennifer-garner-visit-ben-affleck-rental-house-son-samuel-graduation-party-8662839

And told people magazine about it because it's pr

[Anonymous]

I don't think it's PR. She's just desperately clinging on for dear life

[Anonymous]

The DailyMail says she’s waiting to dump the divorce news on a Friday or possibly pair the news with an announcement about her career. They also say she wants to line up another man before announcing the divorce. If that’s true, she’s still the same J Lo who can’t be single for a minute. She should spend some time focusing on her kids and herself.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She is still clinging to him for dear life. She is attending all of his children’s events as if she believes it will change things. She is just prolonging the inevitable.

It's so pathetic. Never EVER put your whole self worth in a man

She’s not . Her self worth is her career which is why she marketed her relationship with Ben.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The DailyMail says she’s waiting to dump the divorce news on a Friday or possibly pair the news with an announcement about her career. They also say she wants to line up another man before announcing the divorce. If that’s true, she’s still the same J Lo who can’t be single for a minute. She should spend some time focusing on her kids and herself.

He’ll give her the honors of filing first . I think she’s guilting him for the breakup and how this might ruin her career again and he’s drinking due to that pain/guilt.

He does love her but he loves his career more . If her movie and album was well receieved, he would not have a problem with her.

He can’t stand that his reputation might take a hit . He yearns to be taken seriously by the industry and always has despite his vices. She never was

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The DailyMail says she’s waiting to dump the divorce news on a Friday or possibly pair the news with an announcement about her career. They also say she wants to line up another man before announcing the divorce. If that’s true, she’s still the same J Lo who can’t be single for a minute. She should spend some time focusing on her kids and herself.

He’ll give her the honors of filing first . I think she’s guilting him for the breakup and how this might ruin her career again and he’s drinking due to that pain/guilt.

He does love her but he loves his career more . If her movie and album was well receieved, he would not have a problem with her.

He can’t stand that his reputation might take a hit . He yearns to be taken seriously by the industry and always has despite his vices. She never was

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If this is true, he’s not a nice person.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The DailyMail says she’s waiting to dump the divorce news on a Friday or possibly pair the news with an announcement about her career. They also say she wants to line up another man before announcing the divorce. If that’s true, she’s still the same J Lo who can’t be single for a minute. She should spend some time focusing on her kids and herself.

He’ll give her the honors of filing first . I think she’s guilting him for the breakup and how this might ruin her career again and he’s drinking due to that pain/guilt.

He does love her but he loves his career more . If her movie and album was well receieved, he would not have a problem with her.

He can’t stand that his reputation might take a hit . He yearns to be taken seriously by the industry and always has despite his vices. She never was

Not my read on things at all. I think the relationship just fizzled out. He cannot handle the reality of marriage and compromise and boringness. And she thought this was some epic love affair (which, to be fair, he probably led her on with initially when it was new and exciting for him) so she followed her typical MO of uprooting hers and her kids lives for love. Ick.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The DailyMail says she’s waiting to dump the divorce news on a Friday or possibly pair the news with an announcement about her career. They also say she wants to line up another man before announcing the divorce. If that’s true, she’s still the same J Lo who can’t be single for a minute. She should spend some time focusing on her kids and herself.

He’ll give her the honors of filing first . I think she’s guilting him for the breakup and how this might ruin her career again and he’s drinking due to that pain/guilt.

He does love her but he loves his career more . If her movie and album was well receieved, he would not have a problem with her.

He can’t stand that his reputation might take a hit . He yearns to be taken seriously by the industry and always has despite his vices. She never was

Not my read on things at all. I think the relationship just fizzled out. He cannot handle the reality of marriage and compromise and boringness. And she thought this was some epic love affair (which, to be fair, he probably led her on with initially when it was new and exciting for him) so she followed her typical MO of uprooting hers and her kids lives for love. Ick.

So, she should be punished and raked over the coals for naively believing in love, but he shouldn’t for reneging on his vows and doing far more damaging things to his kids like day drinking, blaming their mom for his drinking, and sleeping with their nanny ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The DailyMail says she’s waiting to dump the divorce news on a Friday or possibly pair the news with an announcement about her career. They also say she wants to line up another man before announcing the divorce. If that’s true, she’s still the same J Lo who can’t be single for a minute. She should spend some time focusing on her kids and herself.

He’ll give her the honors of filing first . I think she’s guilting him for the breakup and how this might ruin her career again and he’s drinking due to that pain/guilt.

He does love her but he loves his career more . If her movie and album was well receieved, he would not have a problem with her.

He can’t stand that his reputation might take a hit . He yearns to be taken seriously by the industry and always has despite his vices. She never was

Not my read on things at all. I think the relationship just fizzled out. He cannot handle the reality of marriage and compromise and boringness. And she thought this was some epic love affair (which, to be fair, he probably led her on with initially when it was new and exciting for him) so she followed her typical MO of uprooting hers and her kids lives for love. Ick.

So, she should be punished and raked over the coals for naively believing in love, but he shouldn’t for reneging on his vows and doing far more damaging things to his kids like day drinking, blaming their mom for his drinking, and sleeping with their nanny ?

Punished? Is anyone getting punished? They’re both ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The DailyMail says she’s waiting to dump the divorce news on a Friday or possibly pair the news with an announcement about her career. They also say she wants to line up another man before announcing the divorce. If that’s true, she’s still the same J Lo who can’t be single for a minute. She should spend some time focusing on her kids and herself.

He’ll give her the honors of filing first . I think she’s guilting him for the breakup and how this might ruin her career again and he’s drinking due to that pain/guilt.

He does love her but he loves his career more . If her movie and album was well receieved, he would not have a problem with her.

He can’t stand that his reputation might take a hit . He yearns to be taken seriously by the industry and always has despite his vices. She never was

Not my read on things at all. I think the relationship just fizzled out. He cannot handle the reality of marriage and compromise and boringness. And she thought this was some epic love affair (which, to be fair, he probably led her on with initially when it was new and exciting for him) so she followed her typical MO of uprooting hers and her kids lives for love. Ick.

I don't think either will compromise, and they're just too different. Funny DM article basically saying she's given up on trying to save the marriage. Plus

'She is looking at scripts and figuring out 2025. After the success of Atlas she is getting a ton of calls for movies, everyone wants to work with her. She loves that she is still on the A list in her fifties!'



Wasn't Atlas in the top 10 for all of a week? At a time when there was no competition? Anyway this gave me a chuckle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The DailyMail says she’s waiting to dump the divorce news on a Friday or possibly pair the news with an announcement about her career. They also say she wants to line up another man before announcing the divorce. If that’s true, she’s still the same J Lo who can’t be single for a minute. She should spend some time focusing on her kids and herself.

He’ll give her the honors of filing first . I think she’s guilting him for the breakup and how this might ruin her career again and he’s drinking due to that pain/guilt.

He does love her but he loves his career more . If her movie and album was well receieved, he would not have a problem with her.

He can’t stand that his reputation might take a hit . He yearns to be taken seriously by the industry and always has despite his vices. She never was

Not my read on things at all. I think the relationship just fizzled out. He cannot handle the reality of marriage and compromise and boringness. And she thought this was some epic love affair (which, to be fair, he probably led her on with initially when it was new and exciting for him) so she followed her typical MO of uprooting hers and her kids lives for love. Ick.

I don't think either will compromise, and they're just too different. Funny DM article basically saying she's given up on trying to save the marriage. Plus

'She is looking at scripts and figuring out 2025. After the success of Atlas she is getting a ton of calls for movies, everyone wants to work with her. She loves that she is still on the A list in her fifties!'



Wasn't Atlas in the top 10 for all of a week? At a time when there was no competition? Anyway this gave me a chuckle.

She promoted Atlas everywhere and no doubt the divorce rumours helped publicity . That’s why I don’t understand why the tour was cancelled. Apparently, it was starting to sell well.

I do think she cancelled the tour to save her marriage . She wants to keep Ben because she went on and on about the love story . At this point, it’s about saving herself further public humiliation and mockery . I feel for her