Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:NP. I don't want to quote the long back and forth but I do want to respond to the teacher who is posting in it.
I actually agree with you that for many (but not all) kids, they can recover from the academic set-backs of this year with the assistance of their teacher and it will all be okay in that respect. I do sometimes feel a little panicky about my kid, but I remind myself that all the kids in her cohort will be in the same boat moving forward (to the degree that kids are ever really in the same boat -- obviously some kids have more resources and others less, but that's always true). I think if we can get back in the classroom in the fall, the academics will work themselves out.
But what I think many teachers may not fully comprehend, because they don't really see it, is the toll this year has taken on many families. It's not just the lack of in-person school, though obviously that's a huge part of it. But it's also the way DCPS and individual schools have handled it. The constant vitriol between the district and the teacher's union. The promises that have literally never been kept (no return to the classroom in the fall, no CARES classroom offer, no return in February, no return in April). I attended all the town halls, I asked questions, I stayed open to responses, and all I ever heard were mealy-mouthed excuses and placing the blame on others.
I'm not worried about my kid learning fractions "on time". I'm worried that I'm never going to trust our school, our teachers, or certainly DCPS ever again. I don't know if this relationship is reparable. What I do know is that telling me not to worry or calling me entitled or privileged because I want my very young child to attend in-person public school, isn't going to repair it. Being condescending isn't going to repair it. And before you ask -- yes, I did lose a family member to Covid this year (plus two more to cancer, thanks for asking), I understand the risks around Covid and I supported many of the measures taken to keep people safe and prevent unnecessary death. I also know first hand the risks to children and families if we take away the essential safety net of in-person public education. And I notice that while teachers are vaccinated against that first threat, my family is still dealing with the fallout from the second. There's no vaccine for the costs of childcare you didn't expect to have to pay for. No vaccine for sleeplessness from trying to educate your child while holding down a full-time job. No vaccine for disillusionment, distrust, exhaustion, or anger.
The "learning loss" isn't what we're worried about. That's a proxy for the real problem, which is that parents and families just have zero faith in our schools anymore, zero faith in the people who run them, and in many cases, very little faith in the teachers who teach in them. The system failed.
As the teacher previously posting, i think that this is a really fair response. There are systemic issues in DCPS that need to be fixed.
The smartest thing Bowser did was put all these important district wide decisions into individual school hands which was savvy AF, and led to parents and teachers/principals to fight with each other instead of working to support the bigger issues.