How much does weight matter?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is such a white-people problem. Tell your friend to broaden her pool to include black and Latino men. They are more accepting (and sometimes even prefer) thick women.

That's racist as hell.

How is that racist? My sister who is about 75 lbs overweight found herself in a dead dating zone for a while and started accepting dates from men regardless of race or religion. She's now very happily married to one of the coolest guys ever, and he's AA, she's white. Her boyfriend before him, also black. wouldnt it be more racist to say I won't date AA or Latinos, only white men?

My black co-worker was desperate to gain her bubble butt back when she lost it nursing. Another heavy white co-worker is married to a black man. Black men are much more accepting of curvy women IN GENERAL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The more sexually open she is, the less weight matters.

-- A guy.

I am a guy and I disagree.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is such a white-people problem. Tell your friend to broaden her pool to include black and Latino men. They are more accepting (and sometimes even prefer) thick women.

That's racist as hell.

How is that racist? My sister who is about 75 lbs overweight found herself in a dead dating zone for a while and started accepting dates from men regardless of race or religion. She's now very happily married to one of the coolest guys ever, and he's AA, she's white. Her boyfriend before him, also black. wouldnt it be more racist to say I won't date AA or Latinos, only white men?

My black co-worker was desperate to gain her bubble butt back when she lost it nursing. Another heavy white co-worker is married to a black man. Black men are much more accepting of curvy women IN GENERAL.

Could be.
Not many black girls suffering from anorexia or bulimia whereas you got to watch teenage white girls make sure they eating and holding it down.

[Anonymous]

Re: black guys

Shapely yes, fat no. I don't know many who are into the kind of thin boyish bodies white women seem to aspire to and white men seem to desire, but I also don't know any who are racing to date someone Oprah's size. Beyonce? Yes. Kerry Washington? Yes. Octavia Spencer? No.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Re: black guys

Shapely yes, fat no. I don't know many who are into the kind of thin boyish bodies white women seem to aspire to and white men seem to desire, but I also don't know any who are racing to date someone Oprah's size. Beyonce? Yes. Kerry Washington? Yes. Octavia Spencer? No.

I agree. There's a big difference between a shapely body and sloppy fat. A nice big butt doesn't have to be attached to a blubbery belly, fat back, cankles, and neck rolls. I wish more women would realize that instead of eating a lot of bad food in order to get a bigger butt. You either have he shape or you don't.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Re: black guys

Shapely yes, fat no. I don't know many who are into the kind of thin boyish bodies white women seem to aspire to and white men seem to desire, but I also don't know any who are racing to date someone Oprah's size. Beyonce? Yes. Kerry Washington? Yes. Octavia Spencer? No.

I agree. There's a big difference between a shapely body and sloppy fat. A nice big butt doesn't have to be attached to a blubbery belly, fat back, cankles, and neck rolls. I wish more women would realize that instead of eating a lot of bad food in order to get a bigger butt. You either have he shape or you don't.

Lol awww shit the black guys experts have spoken y'all!!

[Anonymous]

I'm a woman.

I could never date a guy who is not at least 6 feet, very fit and muscular, has perfect teeth, nice haircut. No baldies please. If you let yourself go, I'm sorry but I'll start looking at other men. I just can't help that I won't be attracted to you any more. And please don't be a loser making minimum wage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman.

I could never date a guy who is not at least 6 feet, very fit and muscular, has perfect teeth, nice haircut. No baldies please. If you let yourself go, I'm sorry but I'll start looking at other men. I just can't help that I won't be attracted to you any more. And please don't be a loser making minimum wage.

Why don't you start a new topic. Don't be so lazy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman.

I could never date a guy who is not at least 6 feet, very fit and muscular, has perfect teeth, nice haircut. No baldies please. If you let yourself go, I'm sorry but I'll start looking at other men. I just can't help that I won't be attracted to you any more. And please don't be a loser making minimum wage.

Why don't you start a new topic. Don't be so lazy.

Because I think there have been enough body shaming posts. I was trying to make a point.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman.

I could never date a guy who is not at least 6 feet, very fit and muscular, has perfect teeth, nice haircut. No baldies please. If you let yourself go, I'm sorry but I'll start looking at other men. I just can't help that I won't be attracted to you any more. And please don't be a loser making minimum wage.

Why don't you start a new topic. Don't be so lazy.

Because I think there have been enough body shaming posts. I was trying to make a point.

The point is that weight matters to a lot of people. That's not fat shaming. It's a preference that some people have.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is such a white-people problem. Tell your friend to broaden her pool to include black and Latino men. They are more accepting (and sometimes even prefer) thick women.

That's racist as hell.

How is that racist? My sister who is about 75 lbs overweight found herself in a dead dating zone for a while and started accepting dates from men regardless of race or religion. She's now very happily married to one of the coolest guys ever, and he's AA, she's white. Her boyfriend before him, also black. wouldnt it be more racist to say I won't date AA or Latinos, only white men?

My black co-worker was desperate to gain her bubble butt back when she lost it nursing. Another heavy white co-worker is married to a black man. Black men are much more accepting of curvy women IN GENERAL.

That's true. "Accepting" is an appropriate word but "curvy" means different things to different people. I've seen pictures of curvy women that range from Serena Williams (hardly any body fat) to Oprah at her largest. There's really no definition.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman.

I could never date a guy who is not at least 6 feet, very fit and muscular, has perfect teeth, nice haircut. No baldies please. If you let yourself go, I'm sorry but I'll start looking at other men. I just can't help that I won't be attracted to you any more. And please don't be a loser making minimum wage.

Why don't you start a new topic. Don't be so lazy.

Because I think there have been enough body shaming posts. I was trying to make a point.

The point is you are going to be single for a long-long time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman.

I could never date a guy who is not at least 6 feet, very fit and muscular, has perfect teeth, nice haircut. No baldies please. If you let yourself go, I'm sorry but I'll start looking at other men. I just can't help that I won't be attracted to you any more. And please don't be a loser making minimum wage.

Ah, a typical divorced woman on Match.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is such a white-people problem. Tell your friend to broaden her pool to include black and Latino men. They are more accepting (and sometimes even prefer) thick women.

That's racist as hell.

How is that racist? My sister who is about 75 lbs overweight found herself in a dead dating zone for a while and started accepting dates from men regardless of race or religion. She's now very happily married to one of the coolest guys ever, and he's AA, she's white. Her boyfriend before him, also black. wouldnt it be more racist to say I won't date AA or Latinos, only white men?

My black co-worker was desperate to gain her bubble butt back when she lost it nursing. Another heavy white co-worker is married to a black man. Black men are much more accepting of curvy women IN GENERAL.

Standards are lower for those trying to start a white female when they are not white

[Anonymous]