Gorgeous 38 yr old doctor, mom of 3 found dead in NYC building lobby

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Anonymous wrote:Her husband is a dermatologist too. Her first marriage ended in divorce.

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/12/13/fashion/weddings/13RICKENBACH.html?_r=0


They must have had a ton of money.

Not really. 1.2m house in Manhasset isn't really rich. They were comfortable.

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I knew the angry "trash" poster was a dude.

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I feel really sad for her kids, how terrible for them.

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Anonymous wrote:Her husband is a dermatologist too. Her first marriage ended in divorce.

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/12/13/fashion/weddings/13RICKENBACH.html?_r=0


They must have had a ton of money.

Not really. 1.2m house in Manhasset isn't really rich. They were comfortable.

NY Daily News reports that they are actually renting the house. Two dermos 10+ years out of med school only renting a house? I mean, it's nice but it's not THAT nice. It's a run-of-the-mill house for that area of LI.
Financially, something is not adding up.

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what an ignominious end

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Anonymous wrote:He looks like Sideshow Bob.

an overweight one

Not fat. It's actually called "coke bloat"
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=coke+bloat

[Anonymous]

This crazy bitch had money, a beautiful home, and 3 gorgeous kids (babies, the oldest being no more than 4). She selfishly threw it all away. Not sure what her hubby was like-but why would she do this. I do not feel sorry for her-she made stupid choices for a well educated woman with privilege. I only feel sorry for her babies-3 kids now have no mother-and an awful story to tell about how she died.

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NY Daily News reports that they are actually renting the house. Two dermos 10+ years out of med school only renting a house? I mean, it's nice but it's not THAT nice. It's a run-of-the-mill house for that area of LI.
Financially, something is not adding up.

It's not adding up because of addiction. Addicts spend spend spend.

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Anonymous wrote:So this beautiful young married doctor/mom was willingly screwing a 51 year old producer/drug user and a 60 year old cabbie drug dealer?

And repeatedly it would seem because she was a regular in that building. Gross.

She was probable screwing the HBO producer, as I'm sure many mom's in this forum would do given the chance hehe...the cab driver IDK, maybe they just wanted him there to watch? Or maybe he was a Casanova =S

yeah, hard to pass up an old married coke head like that who would screw you and dump your naked, lifeless body in the lobby. I suppose that him calling 911 makes him hero too?

Well before that happened I'm sure what it involved was lots of drugs and other goodies/parties. And if you are both coke-heads I'm sure it is less of a turnoff that he is one too. Btw he is 51, not really elderly just older..especially for someone that is almost 40 herself.

I do not know this man, I'm just disgusted by this situation. The few pictures I have seen of him show him to be a guy that looks his age if not a bit older than that. I am actually his age so maybe my sympathy level is low for what he was doing and how he and his buddy treated this woman. Of course she was responsible for herself and she got herself into this...but still. Those guys were awful.

Except you really have no idea what they were doing with or without the woman...they could have simply been doing the drugs with no sex involved in any way. You seem really quick to paint them out to be the bad guys. All 3 were equally awful imo.

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http://www.thestylecon.com/2014/01/30/maybe-shes-born-maybe-drug-addiction-beauty-guide-2/

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Anonymous wrote:Why would she ever try cocaine? What an idiot.

This was not her first rodeo. She's probably come into the city many times before and spent the night partying with friends. Usually no harm, no foul. This is a lot more common than you realize. I have successful friends with kids in their late 30s and 40s who do this.

The fact that these guys were trying to dump her lifeless body into a cab speaks volumes. Something bad happened and they were trying to get rid of her. Who does that to a friend?!?

The police are searching the apartment in an effort to find whatever downers she consumed. She was either roofied or she took too many sleeping pills/downers, which she probably self-prescribed. After a night of partying, many cocaine users will take some benzos or sleeping pills to help them fall asleep. She could have been inebriated and taken way too many. This could cause her to suffocate in her sleep. Mixing uppers and downers is a bad combo.

The underwear in her purse is also a very bad sign. I'm leaning toward roofies being the culprit, after she had already willingly consumed cocaine.

Really? Married women who have young children go out partying alone in another city, many times, with "friends?" Who are you hanging around with?

I think you are over-exagerating the "other city" part. It's like someone that lives in bethesda going to downtown DC to party...pretty normal.

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Anonymous wrote:This crazy bitch had money, a beautiful home, and 3 gorgeous kids (babies, the oldest being no more than 4). She selfishly threw it all away. Not sure what her hubby was like-but why would she do this. I do not feel sorry for her-she made stupid choices for a well educated woman with privilege. I only feel sorry for her babies-3 kids now have no mother-and an awful story to tell about how she died.

Husband looked ok, much better than sideshow bob

"The 38-year-old Long Island doctor found dead in the vestibule of a Manhattan apartment building had been using cocaine inside an apartment there with a boyfriend and another man before they left her in a lobby to be picked up by EMS, multiple law enforcement sources say. Greg Cergol reports. (Published Monday, Oct. 5, 2015)"

Shes a cheater

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why would she ever try cocaine? What an idiot.

This was not her first rodeo. She's probably come into the city many times before and spent the night partying with friends. Usually no harm, no foul. This is a lot more common than you realize. I have successful friends with kids in their late 30s and 40s who do this.

The fact that these guys were trying to dump her lifeless body into a cab speaks volumes. Something bad happened and they were trying to get rid of her. Who does that to a friend?!?

The police are searching the apartment in an effort to find whatever downers she consumed. She was either roofied or she took too many sleeping pills/downers, which she probably self-prescribed. After a night of partying, many cocaine users will take some benzos or sleeping pills to help them fall asleep. She could have been inebriated and taken way too many. This could cause her to suffocate in her sleep. Mixing uppers and downers is a bad combo.

The underwear in her purse is also a very bad sign. I'm leaning toward roofies being the culprit, after she had already willingly consumed cocaine.

Really? Married women who have young children go out partying alone in another city, many times, with "friends?" Who are you hanging around with?

I think you are over-exagerating the "other city" part. It's like someone that lives in bethesda going to downtown DC to party...pretty normal.

I'm the OP, that's exactly what I'm saying. My successful friends are lawyers, bankers, digital/IT, and fashion industry insiders. They come into NYC from Westchester, nicer parts of NJ and Long Island for a night out in the city. They'll usually leave the kids with grandma or a sitter for 12 to 18 hours, get a hotel room, have a nice dinner at a hot restaurant, then go out clubbing/partying with friends. Just like people who comes from Bethesda, go out for a nice dinner at City Center, and then go clubbing at the bottle service venues on K Street or in Dupont Circle.

This is all way more common among the monied set than most of you folks know.

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So, was she high when she treated patients?